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Topic: Paranoia in relationships
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Yanmorg
Knowflake Posts: 872
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 21, 2015 02:41 PM
  
I'm sure everyone has seen my endless posts about one guy or another on here, but I always ruin things with my over-obsessive paranoid mind. I know Scorpios are already mistrusting and paranoid in love, but I really believe it's deeper than that. Everyone always says I need to relax.. I don't even understand what that means or why. I always end up alone while everyone's relationships continue to flourish haha. What in my chart is causing so much trouble in my relationships?! Moon square uranus? Will I ever settle into a committed long-term relationship? What in a chart would result in paranoia or being extremely guarded?  [/B][/QUOTE]
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ikja
Knowflake Posts: 1060
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted March 21, 2015 02:44 PM
Quite a few of your personal planets are in Scorpio. Perhaps you're intense x 3. I am not judging and can't say much, because I have a Scorpio, but you have Venus, Mercury and Pluto in Scorpio. Your disposition, communication and love is pretty deep/intense???Your pluto is also conjunct your mars. http://www.cafeastrology.com/natal/marsplutoaspects.html IP: Logged |
VacantGazer
Knowflake Posts: 316
From: The Sky
Registered: Dec 2014
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posted March 21, 2015 04:22 PM
I'm new to asteroids, so, how wide can an orb be for it to impact? eg. Vesta conj saturn(in a very wide orb).With regards to your question whether or not you can commit, yes you can!  I have venus square uranus natally, and I want to be married some day and all of that stuff. My longest relationship was over 3 years ---------------------------------------
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Aubyanne
Moderator Posts: 2827
From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 21, 2015 07:55 PM
Though this isn't technically the best for IA, I'm thinking of your 4H CHIRON in VIRGO. This can denote a rough childhood with experiences of inconsistent rewards and either real or imagined rejection. You'd be second-guessing yourself constantly and obsessing.Time to make friends with that CHIRON of yours. I bet a lot of your more complicated relationships have it heavily aspected, or at least strongly in one particular way. IP: Logged |
Peluches
Knowflake Posts: 574
From: Vαleŋtiŋe ~
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted March 21, 2015 10:12 PM
Hmm... I don't think there are real, specific answers to this type of questions actually. I think it's more a blending of different energies depending on the whole chart, so it's hard to say what exactly can make a person paranoid in relationships (or anything else for that matter). Try to analyze those feelings, break them down and see where they come from in your chart. IP: Logged |
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