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Topic: saturn contacts in synastry
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cchampliss2 unregistered
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posted March 21, 2015 11:04 PM
Hello all. Quick question. When saturn contacts a personal planet in synastry, but it's only one sided, does the personal planet person feel a sense of duty or obligation too or just the saturn person? For example: if my saturn was actually in an easy aspect to someone's venus. Like a saturn trine venus. Do both feel bonded in some way? Or is it just on the saturn person? IP: Logged |
Iced8Ace Knowflake Posts: 263 From: CA Registered: Aug 2014
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posted March 23, 2015 02:07 AM
The planet person feels obligated to the saturn person. It is mutual obligation. Both are bonded, Saturn gives the lesson and the planet person receives it. I will give two examples.Ex. 1: Say A is Venus trine B's Saturn. B is supportive, a "safety net" emotionally and sometimes financially and helps A. A feels very safe and taken care of by B, who is consistent. There is a sense of going somewhere together. Growth and stability = potential long term relationship. Ex. 2: Say A is Moon square B's saturn. B wants A to act more mature, so B withdraws, acts coldly and tells A to "grow up" emotionally. B does not acknowledge or really support A emotionally, at least not properly. A however, *needs* B because A feels like they owe B emotional support, (because B makes A's emotions seem inferior and thus something to "work on") yet A cannot reach B who is cold because A is now fearful of emotional rejection. So A stays out of obligation and never really gets what it needs. B remains cold until A learns it's "lesson" (which A is not equipped to even learn btw!) Avoid Ex. 2 at all costs. Ex.1 is obviously mutually beneficial. IP: Logged |
cchampliss2 unregistered
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posted March 23, 2015 04:18 AM
Thank you very much! That's an excellent example! IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 unregistered
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posted March 23, 2015 10:24 AM
I have a different view. When you activate someone's Saturn in synastry, you activate their sense of duty, responsibility, parental side, the critique, their needs for long-termness etc. On the bad side, you may trigger their "rejection" side ("I don't want a long-term with this", "I just realized what I want long-term, and it's not this person")But the energy can be activated both ways, by mirroring: for example, you trigger someone's Saturn, which makes you see their serious side, in exchange you become aware of your own serious side. ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... LeeLoo's Esotericorner IP: Logged |
Iced8Ace Knowflake Posts: 263 From: CA Registered: Aug 2014
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posted March 23, 2015 04:58 PM
You're welcome!IP: Logged |
cchampliss2 unregistered
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posted March 23, 2015 06:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: I have a different view. When you activate someone's Saturn in synastry, you activate their sense of duty, responsibility, parental side, the critique, their needs for long-termness etc. On the bad side, you may trigger their "rejection" side ("I don't want a long-term with this", "I just realized what I want long-term, and it's not this person")But the energy can be activated both ways, by mirroring: for example, you trigger someone's Saturn, which makes you see their serious side, in exchange you become aware of your own serious side.
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 6012 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted August 24, 2017 05:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: I have a different view. When you activate someone's Saturn in synastry, you activate their sense of duty, responsibility, parental side, the critique, their needs for long-termness etc. On the bad side, you may trigger their "rejection" side ("I don't want a long-term with this", "I just realized what I want long-term, and it's not this person")But the energy can be activated both ways, by mirroring: for example, you trigger someone's Saturn, which makes you see their serious side, in exchange you become aware of your own serious side.
The part where you mention that when you activate someone's Saturn in synasty you activate their sense of duty, responsibility, parental side, the critique, their needs for long-termness etc.I can say that this is true in my case being the Saturn person.
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manderin Knowflake Posts: 852 From: New York, NY USA Registered: Nov 2013
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posted August 26, 2017 07:27 PM
I agree with Leeloo. It's the Saturn person that generally feels the duty more.It's been my observation that when one person's Saturn is activated by several personal planets in a synastry, they are usually the more loyal partner. And by loyal I mean more in the sense of- much less likely to leave the relationship. Saturn generally is the one that very much wants the glue to be there for the couple. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 6012 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted August 26, 2017 07:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by manderin: I agree with Leeloo. It's the Saturn person that generally feels the duty more.It's been my observation that when one person's Saturn is activated by several personal planets in a synastry, they are usually the more loyal partner. And by loyal I mean more in the sense of- much less likely to leave the relationship. Saturn generally is the one that very much wants the glue to be there for the couple.
This is very true it's hard being the Saturn person.
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Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 4239 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 27, 2017 09:57 AM
quote: Originally posted by cchampliss2: Hello all. Quick question. When saturn contacts a personal planet in synastry, but it's only one sided, does the personal planet person feel a sense of duty or obligation too or just the saturn person? For example: if my saturn was actually in an easy aspect to someone's venus. Like a saturn trine venus. Do both feel bonded in some way? Or is it just on the saturn person?
say thanks to heaven its a one sided connection. You dont want a double way one in tight aspect.
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 6012 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted August 27, 2017 11:21 AM
quote: Originally posted by Rosalind: say thanks to heaven its a one sided connection. You dont want a double way one in tight aspect.
You really have negative thoughts about Saturn in synastry. You don't mention any of the positive things about Saturn connections only all of the negative points. IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 4239 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 27, 2017 12:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: You really have negative thoughts about Saturn in synastry. You don't mention any of the positive things about Saturn connections only all of the negative points.
Because there are no positive things about this aspect in synastry. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 6012 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted August 27, 2017 12:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by Rosalind: Because there are no positive things about this aspect in synastry.
That's just your opinion doesn't make it a fact. I guess just because you feel this way other peoples opinions or thoughts are wrong? IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 4239 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 27, 2017 12:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: That's just [b]your opinion doesn't make it a fact. I guess just because you feel this way other peoples opinions or thoughts are wrong? [/B]
Its NOT JUST my opinion. Do some research. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 6012 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted August 27, 2017 12:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by Rosalind: It NOT JUST my opinion. Do some research.
I have done plenty of research and not everything I've read about this aspect is negative. There are some good things that I have read in regards to this as well. If it was all bad like you say I don't think other people would have anything positive to say. Do you not see the other comments? Are they all negative? IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 4239 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 27, 2017 12:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: I have done plenty of research and not everything I've read about this aspect is negative. There are some good things that I have read in regards to this as well. If it was all bad like you say I don't think other people would have anything positive to say. Do you not see the other comments? Are they all negative?
What you read on this forum is not the only thing you can read about. Expand your vision. And do me a favor. Bring some solid arguments when you adress me. I am not a person who can be convinced easily. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 6012 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted August 27, 2017 12:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by Rosalind: What you read on this forum is not the only thing you can read about. Expand your vision.
I don't only read things on this forum. The positive things I've read about this aspect was not found on this forum. IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 4239 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 27, 2017 12:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: I don't only read things on this forum. The positive things I've read about this aspect was not found on this forum.
Bring some examples. Help the poor girl understand.
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 6012 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted August 27, 2017 12:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by Rosalind: Bring some examples.
You obviously haven't done much of any research. Because you would know already go read about it yourself. With an open mind instead of just dwelling on the negative aspects. I don't need anyone to show any examples I've actually read about this aspect myself. Maybe you shouldn't be so one track minded. You want everyone to agree with you and ignore anything that's positive. IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 4239 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 27, 2017 12:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: You obviously haven't done much of any research. Because you would know already go read about it yourself. With an open mind instead of just dwelling on the negative aspects.
*Rolling on the floor laughing* I just hope you are kidding me. Seriously now. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 6012 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted August 27, 2017 12:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by Rosalind: *Rolling on the floor laughing*I just hope you are kidding me. Seriously now.
You want people to only listen to you and what you have to say. And ignore any other input other people give. Just because you state your opinion doesn't make it a fact. Other people have their own opinions. What makes your opinion better than other peoples opinions?
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Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 4239 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 27, 2017 12:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: You want people to only listen to you and what you have to say. And ignore any other input other people give. Just because you state your opinion doesn't make it a fact. Other people have their own opinions. What makes your opinion better than other peoples opinions?
Excuse me, do you have a problem with me? I feel attacked. I am not allowed to post on the forum or what?
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 6012 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted August 27, 2017 01:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by Rosalind: Excuse me, do you have a problem with me? I feel attacked. I am not allowed to post on the forum or what?
You come across as a negative Nancy do you have anything positive to say? IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 4239 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 27, 2017 01:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: You come across as a negative Nancy do you have anything positive to say?
What is your problem? I asked. What are you doing on this forum? Chasing people who share the same views as you? Or people with only positive thoughts? Sorry to disappoint you girl but you need to anchor yourself in the reality. Not everyone is the same. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 6012 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted August 27, 2017 01:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by Rosalind: What is your problem? I asked. What are you doing on this forum? Chasing people who share the same views as you? Or people with only positive thoughts? Sorry to disappoint you girl but you need to anchor yourself in the reality. Not everyone is the same. Yeah that's right not everyone is the same. So don't expect everyone to agree with you when you say there is nothing positive about this aspect.
Another person asked a question about this aspect. They asked how does it feel if it's only one persons Saturn who is making aspects to the other persons personal planets. You commented saying they should be glad it isn't a double whammy. And why is that? Basically you are saying that there is NOTHING positive about this aspect. When we all know that isn't the true.
Saying things like men shouldn't be with or should avoid a woman who's Saturn conjuncts his Moon is insane. So that's basically telling women to not date a particular guy if her Saturn conjuncts his Moon. Does that really make sense? What if a man actually likes having a woman around for stability?
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