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Topic: Synastry advice..especially first house stuff, please!
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frankie2912 Knowflake Posts: 1336 From: Kansas Registered: Apr 2011
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posted March 23, 2015 05:40 PM
So, this guy with whom I've recently become intimately involved...he confuses me. He seems to not be able to be genuinely himself with me. Isn't that weird considering I have a stellium in his first house..and the Moon conjunct his ASC? Wouldn't that make him MORE comfortable with me? He seems so...nervous, cautious around me..but has no problem touching me and being physically intimate. We just met about a month ago and things moved kinda fast into the sexual realm..but I want his friendship, too. What do you see going on here between us? He is the outside on the chart. Birth times are correct. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 10645 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 23, 2015 06:25 PM
He is a Cancer Cap, needs more time to warm up and open up. I'm afraid starting the relationship with the sexual part with this type is not the best of moves. It should have been the other way around, friendship and knowing you for quite some time first. But this synastry is not bad at all ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...
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Soltze Newflake Posts: 18 From: Registered: Mar 2015
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posted March 24, 2015 10:35 AM
It's obvious to me...your Saturn is sitting on his ASC. I have the exact same problem with the guy I like. He tends to walk on his toes around you and might feel emotionally distant. Am I wrong? But of course he works fine on the intimate realm with that fiery Venus conj Mars in Leo But I think the attraction might come from his Pluto being so close to yours and in the ASC...uau. You probably understand him in a very intuitive level.IP: Logged |
frankie2912 Knowflake Posts: 1336 From: Kansas Registered: Apr 2011
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posted March 24, 2015 07:04 PM
Soltze , yes I think you are right. He is best friends with my best friend, she knows him well, and she mentioned how strange it is how different he is around me, yet he will have sex with me and hug me and be physical but she noticed he just can't open up with me. She said she thinks he's afraid I will know something about him that he doesn't want me to know.IP: Logged |