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posted March 24, 2015 07:16 PM            

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Okay okay, so my ex comes up a lot on LindaLand. Sorry! In my defence, I know his birth time and I have been around him for long enough, to reference our relationship at times.

That aside, now I know a little bit more about astrology, I'm curious to get under his skin (metaphorically speaking), so we can relate better. Not sure if this is a personal reading thread or a interpersonal, but I feel it is appropriate here because I want to know how he operates, so I can figure out how I help, hinder and wind him up lol.

This is his natal chart, what would you say about him? Good, bad and ugly... Thanks in advance.

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posted March 24, 2015 07:37 PM            

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Sun in the 12th house. He will have lots of secrets. Won't be an easy read. You'll have to really know him to understand, as his appearance will betray the sort of person he really is.

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posted March 25, 2015 07:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
Sun in the 12th house. He will have lots of secrets. Won't be an easy read. You'll have to really know him to understand, as his appearance will betray the sort of person he really is.

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Thanks for responding Nine!
You're right! He is a bloody vault.
I'm always saying, 'you can trust me' etc. and he literally doesn't budge lol. Although he did at one point say that I knew him better than anyone else lol. I still don't feel like I do!

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posted March 25, 2015 07:48 AM            

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Ok, Here it goes.
Sun conj Nessus in the 12th. Since Nessus has to do with violence and abuse I would say that he has some violence that its turned inwards (the 12th) but it flares up all the sudden when he can't handle the pressure anymore.
Dejanira on the ASC; Saturn on the IC - I'm pretty sure there were problems in his childhood and it conditioned his personality. Chiron in Cancer also makes me think of it.
Although the Gemini MC will make him very pleasant socially and the Venus and Mars in fire signs - well he's seductive right?
I don't like that Pluto/Venus square. Also I don't think a Venus conj Moon in Leo is a good thing. Well he can have the generosity of Leo or he can be an emotional egotist. And I'm inclined to the second considering his crowded 4th house and the Saturn close to the IC - this one can also indicated restrictions in the home environment or problems with the father.
There's more in the chart but keep in mind this is an exercise for me. I'm not experienced in astrology and anyone is free to correct me ;-)

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posted March 25, 2015 08:40 AM            

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Soltze, thanks for your reply.

You are right! He did have an uncoventional child which caused him a lot of pain. However, he doesn't really talk about it and claims to be over it. I definitely do not believe this!!!! Any time I try to talk to him about it (in context), he claims that I am psychoanalysing him and shuts down.
He can be an emotional egotist - has a tendency to think of himself as opposed to looking at things from someone else's point of view.
His temper can get the best of him. He holds it in until he finally cracks; but claims to be a 'calm' guy lol. Suuuuure.

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posted March 25, 2015 05:32 PM            

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Hum, I would avoid touchy subjects to keep the peace...he has an heavy chart. My dad has Saturn, Uranus and Neptune conjunct in the first house. So when I saw that 4th house I was like "Uhuh"

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posted March 26, 2015 05:41 AM            

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Originally posted by Soltze:
Hum, I would avoid touchy subjects to keep the peace...he has an heavy chart. My dad has Saturn, Uranus and Neptune conjunct in the first house. So when I saw that 4th house I was like "Uhuh"

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I didn't realise that he was a 'heavy' person. Had absolutely no clue. I always looked at my chart and thought that certain things were me. It's nice to know it's because I sometimes trigger things that already exist. I know that's what Synastry is all about, but for an outside to point it out makes me realise that I don't know everything I thought I did.

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