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Iced8Ace
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posted March 30, 2015 05:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Iced8Ace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He's very personally reserved and it's hard to get to know him better. We talked a lot at work and became friends because he doesn't go for what he wants. Passive to the max. His feelings are very evident (gets really jealous, tries hard to get my attention, get angry when he doesn't get it, observes a lot etc) but he can say the exact opposite of what he feels sometimes. He's stubborn about keeping me around but he doesn't chase. We mutually care a lot for each other, and he's admitted it. Whenever I try to get closer physically (teasing or just hugging) or try to hang out, he kind of gives in and then avoids it/runs away. Does he just want to be friends or something. He's verbally affectionate through text usually and has said "I love you" once randomly. Can't tell if he's serious, he initiates nothing. Thumbs up for romance or do you think it's platonic?

I'm the inner wheel. His birth times set at 12. His moons b/w 5-20 Aries.

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His natal (houses/moon are inaccurate)

My natal (accurate)

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Nine
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posted March 30, 2015 05:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hard to tell, but from experience Mars in Pisces are quite passive and would prefer you do the chasing.

IMO, ask him to do something one-on-one, if he says no then you'll have your answer.

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Iced8Ace
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posted March 31, 2015 01:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Iced8Ace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Nine:
Hard to tell, but from experience Mars in Pisces are quite passive and would prefer you do the chasing.

IMO, ask him to do something one-on-one, if he says no then you'll have your answer.


No kidding. I always have to initiate.

Thanks, I'll probably wait till he calls.

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starmoon
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posted March 31, 2015 11:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Nine:
Hard to tell, but from experience Mars in Pisces are quite passive and would prefer you do the chasing.

IMO, ask him to do something one-on-one, if he says no then you'll have your answer.


i was going to say before even seeing the chart "he must be a mars in picses." those men are LAZY and SLOW. even if you're their dream woman they won't come get you. i dated one for years and did probably 100% of the chasing before the relationship and about 80% of the relationship work after. but he has an aries moon, so perhaps this'll motivate him more, and your own aspects will be ok with his style. just be natural about it, because when you have a good synastry you don't need to 'act' any way other than yourself, you know? and imo, it's good for romance, but you'll be the chaser all the time. you have a leo mars and that'll be ok with you, but he won't reciprocate the way a leo usually wants. so, be prepared to do all the work for him...

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Aubyanne
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posted April 01, 2015 06:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's a serious mixed bag, but with your VENUS conjunct his MARS, I say give it time. It's hellacious being a lunar Aries AND having SATURN there. The struggle is real. I watch it from a distance all of the time.

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Iced8Ace
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posted April 03, 2015 06:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Iced8Ace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@starmoon He definitely tries but he's not very upfront, which puzzles me. I see what you mean about chasing. Nothing would have happened if I didn't initiate... several times! I'll go with the flow AND try to steer him in my direction. Thanks


@Aubyanne I can tell it's a struggle. He's not too forward with himself but I sense he wants to be. Aries Saturn functions in a curious way. Thank you for encouraging me to stay patient. I needed to hear that.

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