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Topic: Seriously funny synastry here....
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Gabby
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posted April 12, 2015 03:06 PM
  
I dated this guy about a year ago for a few months, we really liked each other but in bed he was so aggressive it kind of scared me and we was not fun for me.He would get distant and overwhelmed by his feelings regarding our relationship but he could not tell me why so we decided mutually to break up. A few months ago I run into him again, he'd been looking for me. He'd sent me a couple messages, but didn't identify himself in the messages, so I never responded. I'd deleted his number and didn't know who was sending me the messages, I don't respond to ppl I don't know. We go out and have a blast as we always did...end up talking all night. We have so much fun together I realized how much I'd missed him, but remembering the sex makes me not want to get back together.
He asked if we could see each other again, I say yes but then never get back with him to plan another time to meet up like I said I would. I wait a month n half and text him, he calls immediately and we meet up and talk all night again...this is where it gets funny. I tell him why I didn't call....I wasn't wanting to get back together because the sex was so rough I didn't njoy it.
He looks so sad and says he's sorry, he knows it was not good and he couldn't help it.
I asked him why he has to bite so hard and do everything so hard that it's past rough sex, it's downright scary and hurts. I had bruises for weeks! He says there is something about me and my energy that makes him go crazy, he gets kind of frantic when we are intimate. I start asking him what he's talking about in more detail.
He says it's like he wants to actually eat me, literally, he wants to somehow get my energy in him. I said you mean like a vampire suck my energy out of me?
He says that and physically to, eat me. He feels he just wants to bite into me and free my energy so he can have it...he doesn't understsnd why he feels like this. He's never had such weird, bad or insane thoughts before. It scares him.
So I'm intrigued and creeped out at the same time.
He says when it's not sexual he just adores my energy. Everything about me he just wants to breath me in and feel me, but once it turns sexually he gets a little frantic about this, like he can't control it, he feels crazy and it scares him.
He said he understands now how a guy could get so carried away during sex that they accidentally hurt the girl or worse. Ugh!! So I'm trying to decide what to do with this information when I remember my scorpio Kaali(life force energy) sits exactly on his Venus.
This would be the deep love he has for my energy and everything about me....but his aquarius Mars squares his Venus, squaring my Kaali also creating that frantic out of control stress energy that wants to suck the life out of me.
Even worse is his taurus BM Lilith opposes his Venus and squares his Mars. So now, I'm kind of even more attracted and scared of him!! Lol
But since we are talking about it and he knows that he overwhelms and scares me....we've been trying to find a way to work through this.
Can this be a workable situation?
I'm worried mainly because this is a FIXED grand cross....
His Mars aqua@5
His BM Lilith taurus@4
His Venus scorp@2
My Saturn leo@3
My Kaali scorp@3
that completes a grand cross...
Additionally
My scorp Uranus@5
My asteroid Lililth scorp@3
My Pythia scorp@3
My Pandora scorp@5 Any thoughts?? We have great synastry, this has been the only true struggle.... My cancer Nessus also trines his Venus and my Kaali exact, my Mars trines his Venus by 2-3 IP: Logged |
astra7
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posted April 12, 2015 03:13 PM
wow, interesting story.
In fact, to vamp someone's energy, no physical interaction is needed but don't tell him that! lol If he learns how to...he might really suck out your life force energy. But could there be a possibility of it becoming really dangerous at some point? I am scared for you....just in case.IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted April 12, 2015 03:20 PM
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Originally posted by astra7:
wow, interesting story.
In fact, to vamp someone's energy, no physical interaction is needed but don't tell him that! lol If he learns how to...he might really suck out your life force energy. But could there be a possibility of it becoming really dangerous at some point? I am scared for you....just in case.
I don't think so, he's a total sweety! Saggy sun/saggy AC and pisces Moon. He doesn't have a mean bone in his body!
When we hang out he doesn't seem to vamp my energy, actually he makes me feel more alive.
It's just when it gets sexual i feel overwhelmed. I can feel he likes me so much it seems to overwhelm him and he gets to aggressive and crazy. He listens to me, even sexually when I say stop, I know he respects me a lot. After getting back to each other and talking I can see how much I mean to him he isn't taking any chances this time with me disappearing again. Because of that I know he would listen when I put my foot down even during sex but I'm going to have to learn to be very tough and speak up.
He knows he has this issue....we just need to talk a lot more, I guess, and i can't be passive at all sexually.
I'm always going to be holding him back to some extent.
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Gabby
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posted April 12, 2015 06:53 PM
What else might cause this??My Sun squares his Kaali, I don't want to absorb his energy though? IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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posted April 12, 2015 07:08 PM
Just a thought, Gabby, it crossed my mind: he could have a little cannibal fetish and maybe this is not related to you, this is something only you can evaluate, based on how far he went, how weird it felt. If it felt too strange, than it probably is strange. Otherwise, posting the synastry would give us a much better picture of your interaction. ------------------
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Gabby
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posted April 12, 2015 07:14 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Just a thought, Gabby, it crossed my mind: he could have a little cannibal fetish and maybe this is not related to you, this is something only you can evaluate, based on how far he went, how weird it felt. If it felt too strange, than it probably is strange. Otherwise, posting the synastry would give us a much better picture of your interaction.
Omg...that's creepy!! LolI'll post synastry! IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted April 12, 2015 07:23 PM
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Gabby
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posted April 12, 2015 07:30 PM
Maybe it's the double whammy Mars square Uranus...IP: Logged |
YellowGerbera
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posted April 13, 2015 02:06 AM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Just a thought, Gabby, it crossed my mind: he could have a little cannibal fetish and maybe this is not related to you, this is something only you can evaluate, based on how far he went, how weird it felt. If it felt too strange, than it probably is strange. Otherwise, posting the synastry would give us a much better picture of your interaction.
Omg same thoughts! I was gonna ask! Canibal fetish - there's a documentary on YouTube about this Japanese guy. He's soooo messed up. Killed a girl and ate her too. Literally. Sorry didn't wanna post URL cuz the clip freaked me out SOOO much I don't wanna see it again..  Please be careful! Stay safe. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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posted April 13, 2015 04:36 AM
yeah, wow, pretty exact Mars/Uranus squares...it does create a more aggressive vibe in the synastry, well, it doesn't mean in a bad way, not alwaysIt's interesting to analyze his 2nd and 6th houses and rulers for this...I see Saturn on Lilith DSC there lol ------------------
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Gabby
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posted April 13, 2015 06:13 AM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
yeah, wow, pretty exact Mars/Uranus squares...it does create a more aggressive vibe in the synastry, well, it doesn't mean in a bad way, not alwaysIt's interesting to analyze his 2nd and 6th houses and rulers for this...I see Saturn on Lilith DSC there lol
What vibe does the Saturn on Lilith DSC create?
He says he's never felt anything like this before...and last night we talked more over the phone and he promises he was be more tender and loving next time. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted April 13, 2015 06:14 AM
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Originally posted by YellowGerbera:
Omg same thoughts! I was gonna ask! Canibal fetish - there's a documentary on YouTube about this Japanese guy. He's soooo messed up. Killed a girl and ate her too. Literally. Sorry didn't wanna post URL cuz the clip freaked me out SOOO much I don't wanna see it again.. Please be careful! Stay safe.
Wow!! IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted April 13, 2015 01:21 PM
We have talked more specifically about this, he says he will be ok....it's not to hard to control!! Whew Any thoughts on how my Saturn opposed his Mars, square his Venus would play in here? His saggy Sun is the outlet for his pisces Moon opposed my virgo Moon
His scorp Venus/My scorp Uranus is the outlet for my leo Saturn opposed his aqua Mars I think the fact that we have outlets for these energies is important. IP: Logged |
Liliya
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posted April 13, 2015 02:10 PM
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Originally posted by YellowGerbera:
Omg same thoughts! I was gonna ask! Canibal fetish - there's a documentary on YouTube about this Japanese guy. He's soooo messed up. Killed a girl and ate her too. Literally. Sorry didn't wanna post URL cuz the clip freaked me out SOOO much I don't wanna see it again.. Please be careful! Stay safe.
I've spend the past 30m looking for it. Do you remember the name?  IP: Logged |
YellowGerbera
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posted April 13, 2015 02:14 PM
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Originally posted by Liliya:
I've spend the past 30m looking for it. Do you remember the name?
Here it is! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BosZxa1bYcE Enjoy!! Oh.. that sounds so wrong.. lol IP: Logged |
YellowGerbera
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posted April 13, 2015 02:15 PM
It's very interesting at least... But he is a very troubled man. *goosebumps*IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted April 13, 2015 02:20 PM
I'm scared to watch it!! LolIP: Logged |
YellowGerbera
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posted April 13, 2015 02:20 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
We have talked more specifically about this, he says he will be ok....it's not to hard to control!! Whew Any thoughts on how my Saturn opposed his Mars, square his Venus would play in here? His saggy Sun is the outlet for his pisces Moon opposed my virgo Moon
His scorp Venus/My scorp Uranus is the outlet for my leo Saturn opposed his aqua Mars I think the fact that we have outlets for these energies is important.
Phew!!! Glad to hear!!! On a positive side, he's very attracted to you!  Agree with you on outletting energy! Otherwise it would be like a time-ticking bomb! Gotta find a way to defuse it. I think individual maturity will be important.. IP: Logged |
YellowGerbera
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posted April 13, 2015 02:21 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
I'm scared to watch it!! Lol
Don't!! There are some scary images in the clip and were super haunting!! IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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posted April 13, 2015 02:23 PM
Are you sure he isn't a vorarephile?IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted April 13, 2015 02:26 PM
His b-day April 26, 1949 in Kobe
That guys a taurus, nuff said!! Lol
So many early taurus guys are crazy, Hitler was April 19 or 20thApril 20, 1889 - Adolf Hitler
April 28, 1937 - Saddam Hussein
Close to home-April 23, 1968 - Timothy McVeigh - Oklahoma City Bombing IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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posted April 13, 2015 02:26 PM
I will say there's a definite energetic exchange with my Guardian. It's almost as if he'll 'take' the negative energy from me and almost ... transmute it. I get dizzy and a bit spacey for a few hours -- completely relaxed. My dreams will be intense travels, and the following day, I'm re-energised in a way I haven't been for a week (or more) depending.It's quite an experience -- and varies in intensity given other factors, I suppose. How 'receptive' he is, and 'willing' to exchange. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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posted April 13, 2015 02:28 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
He knows he has this issue....we just need to talk a lot more, I guess, and i can't be passive at all sexually.
Maybe that's the whole point. More communication, and, if you're used to sexual passivity, exploring a more aggressive approach. IP: Logged |
Liliya
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posted April 13, 2015 02:29 PM
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Originally posted by YellowGerbera:
Here it is! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BosZxa1bYcE Enjoy!! Oh.. that sounds so wrong.. lol
Thanks, you're a doll. I like crazy stuff haha. PS. Sorry Gabby, didn't mean to crash your party here. IP: Logged |
YellowGerbera
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posted April 13, 2015 02:32 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
His b-day April 26, 1949 in Kobe
That guys a taurus, nuff said!! Lol
So many early taurus guys are crazy, Hitler was April 19 or 20th
Oh man! He's Japanese?? Yeah, definitely don't watch the clip.. lol! IP: Logged |
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