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Astral
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posted April 24, 2015 04:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astral     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi All,

I am dating this guy for the last 7 months now. I just want to know if this guy is worth waiting for. I would really appreciate all new insights from as many of you experts as possible.

Our Synastry chart(mine inside)

Synastry Chart Part 1 Asteroids

Synastry Chart Part 2 Asteroids

Synastry Aspects

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Part 1 of 2

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Astral
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posted April 25, 2015 11:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astral     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Perhaps the title doesn't reflect what I actually was trying to find out here. Here are some specific questions to which I would love to get some responses.

1) Do you see any aspects that indicate long term partnership between us? Or will be just casual for him?

2) Do you think this guy is capable of committing to a long term relationship? I am always skeptical about Gemini Venus. I just find it hard to trust them. I am trying to overlook that aspect, hoping that his Cappy moon will compensate for his gemini venus.

What do you think?

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starmoon
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posted April 26, 2015 12:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
just imo i don't think his cap moon can compensate for anything, because he's got that aries mars in his 7th and leo sun. both of those - combined with the gem venus - will want female attention a lot. he might even be ego-driven, but the cap moon would just make him vulnerable to show feelings fast. since you just asked for a score, i'll take the easy way out and give it a 6. definitely can see dating here, there are some nice overlays and the sun/venus conjunct is nice and also the sun/asc, but .. could be better. i think the trouble isn't the venus gem itself, but its placement. the 10th house for a venus gemini usually means relationships form through school/work and the person may not be driven/focused on career as much as wanting to just have attention

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Astral
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posted April 26, 2015 08:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astral     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for that honest assessment starmoon. I really appreciate your input.

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Odette
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posted April 26, 2015 09:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's strange but my answer to everything here .. is "average"..

Averagely happy relationship...
Average amount of positive and negative things.
Not too good or too bad as a marriage. It could work long term, depending on *both* of you and your willingness to work on it.
Average chance of him cheating (no more than the next guy).

Basically that's how I see it. So I would rate it a solid 5.

The age gap might make things more difficult. But I think you could still make this happen.
There is nothing in the syanstry that would prevent you guys from getting together in a serious relationship.

The problem is that... if you are in a relationship with him for say a few months or a couple of years - and then you happen to bump into a triple Scorpio guy with his Moon conjunct yours in Aries, who has a Leo AC - I think you will reconsider.

And vice versa.. if Leo guy is with you - and later meets a woman who is an Aries with Virgo Moon and Gemini Venus conjunct his own... then he might reconsider...

^ That's my worry about having a relationship that seems "average"..because either of you can be love struck when you meet someone else , who feels like a true "soulmate".
I don't think either of you will cheat, as such.. but you could end up - breaking things off.

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posted April 26, 2015 09:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had a closer look at the composite as well now. It looks positive and friendly overall - You are on the same wavelength and can have long and interesting conversations.
But again -it's kind of average from a romantic perspective.
If there were more aspects to the Moon and Venus - and the aspects were close... that would alter my interpretation... But it seems like you are better as friends.

For instance if Venus was part of the Mercury/Sun conj in Leo.. and then exactly opposite the Moon (if the Moon was Aquarius) - that would make a "strong" composite.
Seeing that composite, as an astrologer - you would instantly think: This is romantic. These people are in love.

But with Venus and the Moon being kind of "out of the loop" (with the exception of a weak, wide-orbed, sextile between Venus/Mars).... I can't see it as better than -average-. So I'm sticking with "5".

Sorry I didn't have a more encouraging answer. Just my honest opinion.
But astrology is just astrology at the end of the day. If you do feel like this is the right person for you, and like you have a *real* connection - then don't worry about the charts!

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Ami Anne
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posted April 26, 2015 10:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars square mars seems to be great attraction and crazy, wild sex but turning into power plays that do not feel sexy but really "Power Play" like, for real, and seem to break people up.

What do you all think about Mars sq Mars?

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Arachne18
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posted April 27, 2015 02:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Arachne18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Odette, excuse my ignorance here but I am still learning synastry and just wondered how, from their charts, you came up with the comment below (especially the triple Scorpio bit. Thank you.

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Originally posted by Odette:


The problem is that... if you are in a relationship with him for say a few months or a couple of years - and then you happen to bump into a triple Scorpio guy with his Moon conjunct yours in Aries, who has a Leo AC - I think you will reconsider.

And vice versa.. if Leo guy is with you - and later meets a woman who is an Aries with Virgo Moon and Gemini Venus conjunct his own... then he might reconsider...

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posted April 27, 2015 05:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astral     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Odette,

Thank you for your valuable insights. I am always looking for raw truth. So I am glad you did not disappoint me that way. I guess at this stage I am not completely into this relationship yet, as he seems to playing the field at the moment, so to speak. Being a Leo Venus that I am, it is not something that I appreciate from a man.

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posted April 27, 2015 05:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astral     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Mars square mars seems to be great attraction and crazy, wild sex but turning into power plays that do not feel sexy but really "Power Play" like, for real, and seem to break people up.

What do you all think about Mars sq Mars?


Hi Ami, I wouldn't say the power struggles are that high, but I would have to agree that they are still there. The orb between these squares is 5 degrees. Do you consider that as a tight orb?

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Ami Anne
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posted April 27, 2015 08:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can you make just the synastry one bigger. I don't like to spend time on small charts because I have to look at charts too much in my daily work.

I did not see the 5 orb and that does change things.

I will look if you make the synastry bigger.

I am more interested in the synastry than the Comp, so just enlarge that one, if you can, my Friend.

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Astral
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posted April 27, 2015 10:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astral     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Can you make just the synastry one bigger.


Hi Ami,

Of course!! I have just edited my first message above, to make the charts look bigger. Looking forward to hearing from you.

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astra7
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posted April 28, 2015 04:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astra7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Mars square mars seems to be great attraction and crazy, wild sex but turning into power plays that do not feel sexy but really "Power Play" like, for real, and seem to break people up.

What do you all think about Mars sq Mars?



Yep, that's only aspect that caught my eyes too. When you fight, you fight with fierce passion?! lol

Other than that, I thought you have a very nice synastry like Sun conj. Venus, Sun on Asc, Venus sextile Saturn for glue, Venus sextile Moon, Saturn trine Saturn, Saturn trine Moon etc

His Jupiter is unaspected...
I don't know if that matters much.

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Astral
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posted April 29, 2015 02:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astral     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:

Yep, that's only aspect that caught my eyes too. When you fight, you fight with fierce passion?! lol

Other than that, I thought you have a very nice synastry like Sun conj. Venus, Sun on Asc, Venus sextile Saturn for glue, Venus sextile Moon, Saturn trine Saturn, Saturn trine Moon etc

His Jupiter is unaspected...
I don't know if that matters much.[/B]


Hi Astra,

Thanks for your insights. Yes, those aspects are certainly worth noting. I guess the trouble I am having with this guy is to have him admit his intentions if not feelings, as far as I am concerned.

Even though we have been dating each other for the last 7 months, it's not like we are officially boyfriend and girlfriend yet. It's almost like he doesn't want to label our relationship yet. On March 10th I kind of suggested to him that we were not having a healthy communication flow, to which he gave me a rather defensive response. On one side he says that he wants to see me, on the other hand he doesn't even promise me if he can see me regularly. This entire conversation extended for 3 days and since March 13th I thought it is time for me to take back my power, and so I pulled back completely. Since then he did not contact me either. I am worried what's going to happen. His Venus Return is due in 2-3 days, and I am hoping that he will reach out at least by then.

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astra7
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posted April 29, 2015 06:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for astra7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi astral,
I think you've done the right thing.
It might sound harsh but if he's not ready, he's not. If he doesn't feel you are important enough but just want to be a friend with benefit then you have someone else who could treat you better elsewhere. May be it will work out in a long run...who knows. Synastry seems to promise good things anyway but as you know, many had a wonderful synastry and nothing happened....so you are lucky you've been dating for 7 months at least. Listen to your heart and don't let him keep you waiting for too long.

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Astral
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posted April 30, 2015 04:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astral     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for your supporting words astral. Of course, I am not going to wait for him eternally. The fact that I had pulled back from him alone is my way of taking thr right action in the right direction. I am a strong believer in the idea of "meet me halfway, and I will meet you half way". I don't let my emotions take control of my situation after a certain point. That doesn't mean I am not yearning for him to reach out to me and reunite with me. It is just that I will not do anything at this stage to make it happen. I'll let the relationship run on it's own steam.

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Astral
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posted May 02, 2015 11:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astral     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Can you make just the synastry one bigger. I don't like to spend time on small charts because I have to look at charts too much in my daily work.

I did not see the 5 orb and that does change things.

I will look if you make the synastry bigger.

I am more interested in the synastry than the Comp, so just enlarge that one, if you can, my Friend.


Hi Ami,

Just wondering if you are still interested in looking at my chart.

As a matter of fact, I welcome everyone.

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Astral
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posted May 05, 2015 05:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astral     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump

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Astral
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posted May 13, 2015 08:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astral     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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