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Topic: Synastry Help Needed!
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CuriousV Knowflake Posts: 65 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 08, 2015 03:59 PM
Reposting as I really need help interpreting our charts...starting to like this guy, a lot...Can someone of you knowledgeable people on here tell me if this is a potentially good match/relationship? Thank you! PS I am on the inside of the wheel, he is on the outside (his time of birth is defaulted to 12 noon as I don't know it exactly). IP: Logged |
CuriousV Knowflake Posts: 65 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 09, 2015 11:00 AM
No one has any input?? IP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 1668 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted May 09, 2015 11:38 AM
i would call it average to below average. nothing amazing stands out either way. perhaps the trouble spot is cancer/cap moons - they are very different and have different goals and they are generally two signs that when in opposition have a hard time seeing things from the other person's perspective, they are very different. the vibe from this synastry seems to be friendship, with the suns and mercury signs well-placed for that in addition to the house overlays. i don't see romance here, but that's just imoIP: Logged |
stillatlarge Knowflake Posts: 381 From: TX Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 09, 2015 03:32 PM
Who's outer person? That saturn on the sun...somebody wants to take care of the other. This is an aspect that gives looooong term commitment in my experience. I'm not necessarily talking about marriage but the Saturn person will be committed to this person and their well being, always putting them first.IP: Logged |
CuriousV Knowflake Posts: 65 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 09, 2015 11:50 PM
Starmoon, thank you for your input. I thought that Cap/Cancer pairing was actually one of those that, although seems to be opposite, would work in favor of each of the signs, because what one lacks, other provides. It's like those Scorp/Taurus or Virgo/Pisces relationships. They are so different in their emotional make-up that when one sign seems to be more of the intense/emotional, the other can teach how to be more logical/balanced and vice versa. Is that not the case with Cap/Cancer Moons?I do have to agree with you that I feel very comfortable with him and sometimes catch myself thinking that "wow, we are talking like buddies" or "it feels like we've known each other for a long time because of that level of comfort we feel with each other" But I can't deny that there is some physical chemistry going on between us, otherwise, we would not get together. It's not fireworks though, that I know for sure. But I feel like I almost don't want it to be all that crazy passion/can't keep my hand of your thing, because then it often burns out as fast. I actually like the feeling of "friendship" between us...But you might be right...It may be more of "friends" than "lovers" type of connection that we have now that you've brought it up. Can you tell me how Cap and Cancer Moons differ? Would he be more emotional or up and down about his moods? What would he need to receive from his partner in order to feel secure/connected? I know that I am pretty balanced and don't really have huge mood swings or experience emotional rollercoasters... Thank you very much! IP: Logged |
CuriousV Knowflake Posts: 65 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 09, 2015 11:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by stillatlarge: Who's outer person? That saturn on the sun...somebody wants to take care of the other. This is an aspect that gives looooong term commitment in my experience. I'm not necessarily talking about marriage but the Saturn person will be committed to this person and their well being, always putting them first.
Hi Stillatlarge! Thank you for your reply. He is the outer person. Are you saying that he is the one who would feel the need to take care of me/or the other, whomever he is in a relationship? Anything else that stands out to you beside this aspect? Do you also feel like there is not much going on romantically in this synastry? Appreciate your input! IP: Logged |
olgatheo Knowflake Posts: 638 From: Pluto Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 10, 2015 06:17 AM
SUN /SATURN That's binding, long term with many trials to overcome both partners are willing to make it work. You will both want the relationship.So Saturn influences will manifest when Saturn makes an Aspects to that conj. Examples from my experience- Family been an issue/debt sometimes/work- either working too much and been to tired to be with each other- or work takes him/you away /children - how to raise them ,school,health etc./ An ex partner creating tension/ sex , lack of interest sometimes due to stress not lack of love .
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LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 11924 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 10, 2015 06:21 AM
Can you post the chart without "aspects lines to all", to see the basic planetary dynamics? This would answer your question ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... LeeLoo's Esotericorner Connect for updates IP: Logged |
CuriousV Knowflake Posts: 65 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 10, 2015 01:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: Can you post the chart without "aspects lines to all", to see the basic planetary dynamics? This would answer your question
Hi LeeLoo! Thank you for chiming in. Is this better? IP: Logged |
CuriousV Knowflake Posts: 65 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 10, 2015 01:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by olgatheo: SUN /SATURN That's binding, long term with many trials to overcome both partners are willing to make it work. You will both want the relationship.So Saturn influences will manifest when Saturn makes an Aspects to that conj. Examples from my experience- Family been an issue/debt sometimes/work- either working too much and been to tired to be with each other- or work takes him/you away /children - how to raise them ,school,health etc./ An ex partner creating tension/ sex , lack of interest sometimes due to stress not lack of love .
Hi Olgatheo! Thank you for your input. Is it HE who is Sun/Saturn? Or is HE who is Sun and I am Saturn and the two planets conjunct making it a favorable aspect for the relationship?? Is He the one who wants to take care of things/make it work? Or are we Both have that tendency/desire to work through things and make this relationship work when tough times occur? Sorry if I sound confused...I really don't know/understand how to interpret planets' positions. Thanks a million!!! IP: Logged |
olgatheo Knowflake Posts: 638 From: Pluto Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 10, 2015 01:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by CuriousV: Hi Olgatheo! Thank you for your input.Is it HE who is Sun/Saturn? Or is HE who is Sun and I am Saturn and the two planets conjunct making it a favorable aspect for the relationship?? Is He the one who wants to take care of things/make it work? Or are we Both have that tendency/desire to work through things and make this relationship work when tough times occur? Sorry if I sound confused...I really don't know/understand how to interpret planets' positions. Thanks a million!!!
Your the Saturn his the Sun, so the lessons come from you . Lessons should be felt within the next 2yrs. Plus Gemini in Mars soon will activate this energy. Some things I have mentioned might manifest ! IP: Logged |
CuriousV Knowflake Posts: 65 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 10, 2015 02:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by olgatheo: Your the Saturn his the Sun, so the lessons come from you . Lessons should be felt within the next 2yrs. Plus Gemini in Mars soon will activate this energy. Some things I have mentioned might manifest !
Thank you Olgatheo! What kind of lessons? Will I show him what it really means to "want to work on things" and what is "real commitment?" You mentioned something about your personal examples - work issues, family, ex lover. Is this something that he needs help with and I will be the catalyst for overcoming those? And what do you mean - Mars in Gemini? I thought mine is in Libra and his is in Cancer...
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stillatlarge Knowflake Posts: 381 From: TX Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 10, 2015 02:53 PM
If he's the outer person, he will go to the ends of the earth for you but it might not always feel good to you. He may feel like your father telling you what to do all the time. I know, I am that in a relationship and it's like parent/child. I can't not care or stick my nose in. LOL.IP: Logged |
Eirlys Knowflake Posts: 260 From: Registered: May 2013
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posted May 10, 2015 03:11 PM
Interesting that his Pluto is on your ASC, and that his Venus and Merc conjunct your NN. Maybe his Sun, too. Pluto may also conjunct your Mars.. hmm I can see the attraction, anyway But idk if the outer planets have quite the effect of the personals, in synastry.
------------------ Nothing is permanent in this wicked world; not even our troubles. -C Chaplin
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olgatheo Knowflake Posts: 638 From: Pluto Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 10, 2015 04:45 PM
it's just some personal examples so you get a general idea ! Don't get to stressed out ! Every relationship is different ! Always know about Transits !!! Mars in Gemini by 11/12 May will activate Sun/ Saturn conj. And any mutable signs in your synastry ! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 62399 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 10, 2015 05:54 PM
Can you put one on without all the lines, too?VERY sexual and in a nice way. May feel very healing and powerful, as well. His saturn conj your Sun may not feel good. One of my clients had this and it was too much for her. She felt he had a critical nature with her. ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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astra7 Knowflake Posts: 586 From: I live at 667 Registered: Sep 2014
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posted May 10, 2015 06:27 PM
OP's Venus is unaspected. I wonder if Saturn-Sun conj. is enough to keep you together.IP: Logged |
CuriousV Knowflake Posts: 65 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 11, 2015 12:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by stillatlarge: If he's the outer person, he will go to the ends of the earth for you but it might not always feel good to you. He may feel like your father telling you what to do all the time. I know, I am that in a relationship and it's like parent/child. I can't not care or stick my nose in. LOL.
Hi Stillatlarge, what exactly in this chart makes him want to "go to the end of the earth" for me. Any planet interaction in particular? And is it specifically FOR ME that he would feel that way, or is that something that you see in his chart in general? Like he is a very caring/nurturing person and that is the tendency that he has and would feel that way with any woman in his life...Thank you again!
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CuriousV Knowflake Posts: 65 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 11, 2015 12:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by Eirlys: Interesting that his Pluto is on your ASC, and that his Venus and Merc conjunct your NN. Maybe his Sun, too. Pluto may also conjunct your Mars.. hmm I can see the attraction, anyway But idk if the outer planets have quite the effect of the personals, in synastry.
Hi Eirlys, thank you for your input. Would you please elaborate on the points that you mentioned as I don't know what that really means. In particular: his Pluto being on my ASC and his Venus and Mercury conjuncting my NN. You also mentioned that his Pluto may be conjuncting my Mars as well as his Sun conjuncitng my NN. Are all of these positive aspects? Or just some? Any strong influences on our relationship development? Thanks a lot! IP: Logged |
CuriousV Knowflake Posts: 65 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 11, 2015 12:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by olgatheo: it's just some personal examples so you get a general idea ! Don't get to stressed out ! Every relationship is different ! Always know about Transits !!! Mars in Gemini by 11/12 May will activate Sun/ Saturn conj. And any mutable signs in your synastry !
I see, thank you Olgatheo, not stressing, just wanted to clarify things Is that good - that Gem in Mars will activate Sun/Saturn conj. between us? I mean in what way? Is it a positive? I am reading some of the input and seeing that some people saying that Sun/Saturn relationship is not necessarily a good one. Is that true for us? Thanks a million!
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CuriousV Knowflake Posts: 65 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 11, 2015 01:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Can you put one on without all the lines, too?VERY sexual and in a nice way. May feel very healing and powerful, as well. His saturn conj your Sun may not feel good. One of my clients had this and it was too much for her. She felt he had a critical nature with her.
Hi Ami Anne! Thank you so much for chiming in. Here is the chart with NO aspect lines to all. Is this better? And what do you mean that His Saturn conj. my Sun is not good? Is this an important aspect which will not be beneficial for our relationship to develop? Do you see any positive/beneficial aspects that would make this match strong? Or do you side with some people who have said that this is an average match, nothing significant is going on or stands out to make this a great match? Thanks a million!
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CuriousV Knowflake Posts: 65 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 11, 2015 01:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by astra7: OP's Venus is unaspected. I wonder if Saturn-Sun conj. is enough to keep you together.
Hi Astra! Does that mean we are not sexually compatible or what does it mean that my Venus is unaspected? Can you tell me anything else about our match that you see as positive aspects? Appreciate your help! IP: Logged |
CuriousV Knowflake Posts: 65 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 12, 2015 06:16 PM
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 62399 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 12, 2015 10:34 PM
Saturn conj the Sun would only be good if you want a person who is "parental" in a stern way, shall we say, and that way will probably be critical. One of my clients just broke up with a guy and she had this.
He was critical of her--her weight. He thought she was lazy etc lol She wasn't. He was just "on her" I am painting it too black, maybe.
It would be a parental kind of thing but some people like that and that is not a diss on them, just that people are different. ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 62399 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 12, 2015 10:36 PM
I think there would be off the wall passion at the beginning but I don;t like the few moon aspects, one of which is with Mars.I could not live with a relationship that did not have great simpatico which is Moons, to me. I would say that after the passion is gone, it will not feel very connected but this was not a long study of the charts, just a short look xxxx ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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