posted May 08, 2015 09:05 PM            

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posted May 09, 2015 01:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
I met this guy recently and I'm super attracted, but from what I've read, all those 8th house overlays and Cap/Saturn between us turns this into a business partnership vs. romantic. Are there any strong indicators of a romantic union instead?

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posted May 09, 2015 02:07 PM            

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Originally posted by comdoc:
Who is red? How about Moon--Amor and Venus--Neptune--Uranus in 8th House? Mars--NN in 7H, Jupiter--Juno, Amor--Eros. Earth ASC's in trine: you look great together.

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posted May 09, 2015 03:02 PM            

So it's all up to how it's approached. SATURN won't mess around, either. If it's got the potential for serious, even lifelong commitment, it'll go there. If that's remotely within the questionable range, the whole thing is likely to fall short of what's necessary. Usually because one -- or both -- partners put on the brakes. Typically, SATURN.

posted May 09, 2015 04:49 PM            

He's been pursuing ne for weeks & won't let up and he just started to grow on me after awhile.

It wasn't the annoying approach most guys come with. It was more of someone going after what he wants.

I find him insanely attractive.. it all came suddenly.

What's going on with uranus/ neptune conjunctions between us? Generational? Venus-Uranus/Neptune are exact.

posted May 10, 2015 09:01 AM            

How does our composite look?

How do you think all that 8th house synastry will play out?

posted May 10, 2015 12:12 PM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
i think the blue person would just want professional and the red would push to make it romantic. that's based on the overlays. you've got two people - each with a stellium, but the problem is that only one stellium really shows the romance (to the 8th house). the other person would just see the person as business/professional. the composite has the vertex near the DSC, but i think too much 9th house composite takes away from that. 9th house meaning you'll be a great learning influence on one another, perhaps through work, education, travel, culture, etc. thumbs down for a great romance, although men will rarely reject someone willing to sleep with them ;-) the scorpio/cp mixes very well together actually, because they are both very stable and secure partners, but i think - in this case - you'd have one person more invested than the other. imo.

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Even with that moon conjunct pluto in composite?

I'm still very attracted despite him only touching my 8th house and me his 10th. I still am 80% Scorpio so I guess that helps the house overlays go both ways in my opinion. I can still sense every bit of the intensity and underlying depth between us.

The main thing I see is my poorly aspected Moon in our synastry squaring almost his entire chart. What significance does this have?

We also have moon square saturn in composite but I've had this before with someone along with the conjunctiob from Pluto abd it only showed up after 3 years of our relationship being over. He desperately wanted me back and I did too, but I just did not feel the same. My feelings had died but that attachment is still there.

posted May 10, 2015 11:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
Are house overlays THAT important?

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posted May 11, 2015 07:20 AM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
yes, which is why decent astrologers won't read a chart with inaccurate TOBs - you can't see the houses if TOB is wrong. you "view" someone through the lens of a particular house. so, for example, if 3 of your planets land in someone's 10th house (of career) they will see you through the lens of that house - as someone important to their career, as a work buddy, etc. as another example, if someone has 3 planets that land in your 7th (of marriage/partnerships), you will see that person through that house - as a potential partner, or having partner traits you like/admire. the house overlays influence how you view one another, and if one person is impacted through all 'romantic houses' (1/5/7/8) and the other more friendly/professional (2/6/10/11), you have two people viewing the relationship in very different ways. which is why we often end up with people feeling quite differently about one another; they don't see the person the same way because of where the planets fall.

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So the synastry doesn't matter at all? If the house overlays aren't romantic, it definitely won't be a romantic partnership? What if the composite turns out to have a ton of 'romantic' aspects?

posted May 11, 2015 09:08 AM            

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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
So the synastry doesn't matter at all? If the house overlays aren't romantic, it definitely won't be a romantic partnership? What if the composite turns out to have a ton of 'romantic' aspects?

Those house overlays hold that much weight? Interesting.

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well, house overlays are a part of synastry, so they matter. they are part of the overall chart. you need to see many things in synastry, not just house overlays, but also how the planets aspect one another, and how the natal charts look. it's a complete picture. house overlays support synastry, they are another component.

posted May 11, 2015 10:16 AM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
well, house overlays are a part of synastry, so they matter. they are part of the overall chart. you need to see many things in synastry, not just house overlays, but also how the planets aspect one another, and how the natal charts look. it's a complete picture. house overlays support synastry, they are another component.

composite... it can have every wonderful aspect in the world, but how does a couple make it to a composite chart when they have medicore synastry? if you can't get to initial attraction/romance you won't get to a composite

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