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Plutonian_Gal8
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posted May 10, 2015 09:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plutonian_Gal8     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If you had to nail down astrological placements/aspects of a woman for his chart, what would they be?

This guy is my Ex. I actually posted a synastry chart for he and I a few yrs back, but I've since learned my chart was wrong and has been rectified. So, while our aspects are the same of course, our houses are painting a different picture. From what I know of my Ex he's torn between wanting a traditional lifestyle with marraige and a solid home - and then he's a habitual cheater. Routine bores him and it's not hard to see why that is. So what kind of woman would come close to doing it for him?

HIS NATAL



OUR SYNASTRY - HE'S ON THE OUTSIDE


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posted May 11, 2015 12:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
you kinda already answered it yourself. he's going to be well-suited to a non-traditional woman who probably doesn't want kids/marriage right off, if at all. most of his planets scream for independence and he also has venus opp. saturn and moon opp. saturn by sign. not pretty for stability. most women who favor that lifestyle will be air/fire signs and probably have a lot of aqua/sag influence or 11th house, or a moon in hard aspect to saturn/uranus too. he has the cap sun but the other placements will trump that. she'll be uber-smart and independent though, most likely

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posted May 11, 2015 10:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plutonian_Gal8     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by starmoon:
you kinda already answered it yourself. he's going to be well-suited to a non-traditional woman who probably doesn't want kids/marriage right off, if at all. most of his planets scream for independence and he also has venus opp. saturn and moon opp. saturn by sign. not pretty for stability. most women who favor that lifestyle will be air/fire signs and probably have a lot of aqua/sag influence or 11th house, or a moon in hard aspect to saturn/uranus too. he has the cap sun but the other placements will trump that. she'll be uber-smart and independent though, most likely


Yes, I've seen the very obvious things. Wanted another eye to point out what you said "probably more air/fire women" I've heard him for YEARS speak about "desiring marriage and a stable home" but then he does that Uranian hot/cold run for the hills behavior and it amuses the hell out of me to witness such confusion. Thought maybe with growth he'll shake that. Thanks!

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Lotis White
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posted May 11, 2015 05:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When I look at the signs in your chart, and his chart, in comparison to both of your 5th, 7th, and 8th houses + the signs of the cusp rulers, it's pretty clear that you are both each other's 'type' in terms of certain personality traits. You both match certain parts of your respective visions of the ideal mate. However, that doesn't mean that it's meant to work out. I just means you catch eachother's eye easily.

He likes Aries, Sag, Aquarius (and sometimes Leo) women, with a bit of Scorpio, Capricorn, and Taurus somewhere in their charts...

5th house Aquarius, with both Venus and the Moon in this sign, ruled by Uranus in Scorpio.

7th house Aries ruled by Mars in Sag.

8th house also has Aries on this cusp but Taurus takes up most of the house.

His Venus in Aqua make his 11th house like a secondary Venus for him. So he also likes the traits of his 11th house... Leo and Capricorn (Saturn is in the 11th).

He likes strong outgoing women who also have a bit of emotional sensitivity, and stability in their natures. But he's not yet ready to handle what he thinks he wants.

There actually are guys with a lot of Air and Fire signs in their chart that do get married and settle down. But it may take them longer in some cases. Eventually, as he ages he might settle. I wouldn't rule it out completely. But it will likely take him a lot of inner work to get to this point.

In his chart his Saturn in Leo is opposite Venus in Aqua. Saturn in Leo glorifies security and stability, but his taste in women contradicts his goals for some reason. He has trouble fusing his ambition for security and his attraction to beautiful women. Maybe somebody who trines/sextiles his Venus/Saturn oppo could help him overcome this. He has to want to get over his bad habits though. It'll take self control. Basically his attraction to pretty women lets him down in his ability to handle the Saturn stuff he thinks he wants.

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Plutonian_Gal8
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posted May 12, 2015 02:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plutonian_Gal8     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lotis White:
When I look at the signs in your chart, and his chart, in comparison to both of your 5th, 7th, and 8th houses + the signs of the cusp rulers, it's pretty clear that you are both each other's 'type' in terms of certain personality traits. You both match certain parts of your respective visions of the ideal mate. However, that doesn't mean that it's meant to work out. I just means you catch eachother's eye easily.

He likes Aries, Sag, Aquarius (and sometimes Leo) women, with a bit of Scorpio, Capricorn, and Taurus somewhere in their charts...

5th house Aquarius, with both Venus and the Moon in this sign, ruled by Uranus in Scorpio.

7th house Aries ruled by Mars in Sag.

8th house also has Aries on this cusp but Taurus takes up most of the house.

His Venus in Aqua make his 11th house like a secondary Venus for him. So he also likes the traits of his 11th house... Leo and Capricorn (Saturn is in the 11th).

He likes strong outgoing women who also have a bit of emotional sensitivity, and stability in their natures. But he's not yet ready to handle what he thinks he wants.

There actually are guys with a lot of Air and Fire signs in their chart that do get married and settle down. But it may take them longer in some cases. Eventually, as he ages he might settle. I wouldn't rule it out completely. But it will likely take him a lot of inner work to get to this point.

In his chart his Saturn in Leo is opposite Venus in Aqua. Saturn in Leo glorifies security and stability, but his taste in women contradicts his goals for some reason. He has trouble fusing his ambition for security and his attraction to beautiful women. Maybe somebody who trines/sextiles his Venus/Saturn oppo could help him overcome this. He has to want to get over his bad habits though. It'll take self control. Basically his attraction to pretty women lets him down in his ability to handle the Saturn stuff he thinks he wants.



Thank you, thank you, thank you for the detailed enlightenment. I say it all the time; I'm the type that has a harder time than most to study subjects well and fully interpret information in a way that I can understand. So naturally I'm very appreciative of you and those alike who actually take the time to break things down for me to truly understand.


I will say that, I feel a deep-seated connection with my Ex. Primarily passionate. We have a good time whenever we're together. But we are by no means, suited for a long term relationship. Our views in life are so opposed. Anyhow, I'm glad I can fully get the grasp that he does indeed prefer women with that fire and air.

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