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Leo-Cancer98
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posted May 16, 2015 02:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What about Virgo's who have at least 3 personal planets in Leo?

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posted May 16, 2015 03:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
What about Virgo's who have at least personal planets in Leo?

As I see it, they make good friends, but not really the greatest long-therm partners... allthough I see a couple of famous couples. But some personal planets in leo/libra would make it much more compatible that is for sure, and there is a good chance that they will share some conjunctions because they are right next to each other... The leo could also have some placements in cancer/virgo, which would be even better.

But as in the "pure" leo/virgo energies, they are not a good match, the virgo is too critical of the leo's ego, who needs to be complimented a lot, and the virgo is a bit too cold, while the leo is much more warm-hearted and intense.

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posted May 16, 2015 03:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
[QUOTE]Originally posted by next to neptune:
As I see it, they make good friends, but not really the greatest long-therm partners... allthough I see a couple of famous couples. But some personal planets in leo/libra would make it much more compatible that is for sure, and there is a good chance that they will share some conjunctions because they are right next to each other... The leo could also have some placements in cancer/virgo, which would be even better.

Thaank you! 😊 I think I like this guy friend of mine and he's a Virgo with a late Virgo Moon (27 degrees) and Mercury, Mars & Venus in Leo.

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posted May 16, 2015 03:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
What about Virgo's who have at least 3 personal planets in Leo?

I think compatibility has more to do with just the Sun sign alone.

Its not about the Sun sign itself even. It's about the merging of the energies.

Even Linda herself often said that Asc,Moon complementary positions go a long way in alleviating much of the "incompatibility" that is inferred from the Sun sign positions alone.

Its all about how your two energies "gell".

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posted May 16, 2015 03:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geeky     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
What about Virgo's who have at least 3 personal planets in Leo?

I am a Virgo with a Leo dominated chart. I loooooooooove Leos! Love them!

I've never had one as an actual partner though because they have never reciprocated the romantic interest (beyond sex anyway).

But my Virgo energy is still there and I am not sure that we could have ever lived together if any of those friendships/sexual encounters had turned into relationships/partnerships.

The reason is that I am very introverted and quiet when at home and my Leo energy is on max thrust when I am out of the home. So at home, I like a little space and the Leo men I have know enjoy being the center of the solar system a little too much.

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posted May 16, 2015 04:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Geeky:
I am a Virgo with a Leo dominated chart. I loooooooooove Leos! Love them!

I've never had one as an actual partner though because they have never reciprocated the romantic interest (beyond sex anyway).

But my Virgo energy is still there and I am not sure that we could have ever lived together if any of those friendships/sexual encounters had turned into relationships/partnerships.

The reason is that I am very introverted and quiet when at home and my Leo energy is on max thrust when I am out of the home. So at home, I like a little space and the Leo men I have know enjoy being the center of the solar system a little too much.


Ohhh alright, I understand. I'm pretty quiet and reserved at home as well It's kind of odd because you'd expect me to be more of a Sagittarius when I'm in my home environment. Anyway, what is your Moon Sign? Which Leo influences do you have?

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posted May 16, 2015 06:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have dated pretty much only Leo females. Its super awesome but it depends on your natal chart.

I have Sag Moon, Libra Asc, Mars, Merc, Nessus, and Eros in Leo.

Cancer: Cere, Venus
Libra: Juno, Amor, Lust, Adonis
Scorpio: SN, Pluto, Saturn, Dejanira, Child
Sagittarius: Karma, Uranus
Capricorn: Neptune Rx
Aqua: Jupiter Rx
Taurus: NN, Lilith
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posted May 16, 2015 07:33 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
What about Virgo's who have at least 3 personal planets in Leo?

That would be me Moon, Venus and Uranus conjunct NN.
There needs to be the right age difference
and the inner planets cannot be conflicted by outer and inner of other person.
I did it twice in34 years, 18 months max,, not recommended, but sometimes compelling life lessons come in doses like that.
Sometimes the heart leads. Leo and Virgo can be each others best buddies and tools.
But it all depends on placements.

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posted May 16, 2015 07:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Overall compatibility of the natal charts is what matters most. Not Sun signs.

Actually I think it's quite common to be attracted to the sign next door to our Sun so to speak. This is because people often have Venus or Mercury in the next door sign, which increases the possibility that a planet in a next door sign will be ruling the 5th, 7th, or 8th house cusps. Venus and Mercury rule 4 signs between them.

For example, I'm a Capricorn who loves Sag energy in others. That's because I have Asc, Venus, and Mercury in Sag and Mercury rules my Gemini Dsc. Plus Jupiter is in the 7th house.

I'm never that surprised when I see next door Sun Signs getting involved for that reason.

About Virgo's who are think they are too quiet for Leo's at home... Compatible Moons can fix this problem, especially if they trine or sextile by degree.

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posted May 17, 2015 05:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lioninash     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Im a leo sun aqua moon female and recently broke up with a virgo sun sag moon guy. We were together for 3 years. It was fun when we first started dating but i feel like we settled in too quickly. We didnt have many experiences together, and i always felt like something was missing. In the end, i felt like he was just a good friend/father figure. I was really unhappy within the relationship so i broke up with him. He was a great guy and had a good heart but i just felt like we werent made for each other.
I do love virgos though. My bro is a virgo and we get along great.

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posted May 17, 2015 05:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lioninash:
Im a leo sun aqua moon female and recently broke up with a virgo sun sag moon guy. We were together for 3 years. It was fun when we first started dating but i feel like we settled in too quickly. We didnt have many experiences together, and i always felt like something was missing. In the end, i felt like he was just a good friend/father figure. I was really unhappy within the relationship so i broke up with him. He was a great guy and had a good heart but i just felt like we werent made for each other.
I do love virgos though. My bro is a virgo and we get along great.

Aww that's cute! Even though you ended up breaking up with him What are your Mercury, Venus & Mars signs?

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posted May 17, 2015 05:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Virgo28:
I have dated pretty much only Leo females. Its super awesome but it depends on your natal chart.

I have Sag Moon, Libra Asc, Mars, Merc, Nessus, and Eros in Leo.

Cancer: Cere, Venus
Libra: Juno, Amor, Lust, Adonis
Scorpio: SN, Pluto, Saturn, Dejanira, Child
Sagittarius: Karma, Uranus
Capricorn: Neptune Rx
Aqua: Jupiter Rx
Taurus: NN, Lilith


Yeah, I'm starting to believe that Sun & Moon sign compatibility don't matter as much I thought they did. Thank you

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posted May 19, 2015 05:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lioninash     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Leo-Cancer 98, my mercury is leo, mars in gemini, venus in virgo.
His mercury in virgo, mars in virgo and venus in leo.

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posted May 19, 2015 09:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've Always liked Virgo and vice versa. Their refined way etc. I'm a Leo with virgo Asc/Merc exactly conjunct. So it doesn't rule my 5th/7th/8th. I mostly relate to the first decan Virgo as that's where my Asc/Merc is.

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posted May 19, 2015 10:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I married a Virgo, with an Aries moon Leo Venus.

What I really liked most about him, was how handy he is. He could build anything or fix any thing. He was always helping neighbors. Etc. he loves helping people.

What bothered me the most, was I could never do anything right. I put the toilet paper on wrong, I got out of the shower wrong. I drove to his sisters house the "wrong way"
He always felt if it wasn't his way, it was wrong. I would try to xplain, there's more than one way of doing things, neither is wrong as long as you get the same results.
I never could understand that.
A Leo needs attention, not constant criticism.
I got to the point, where I just stopped doing anything, cuz I didn't want to hear how wrong it was.

We were together for 12 years.

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posted May 23, 2015 07:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Soltze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would say yes. My mother is Virgo Sun and my father is Leo Sun.
If you have plenty of sextiles and trines in the sinastry like them.
Funny part? My dad's only planet in Virgo is Pluto, my mom's only planet in Leo: Yeah Pluto.

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posted July 10, 2015 05:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NYCdodger     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well when it comes to the PURE energy of the signs (not talking about natal charts) it depends.

I've dealt with Virgos who were really cool, helpful, humble and easy to talk to and get along with. And I've met some Virgos who were really judgmental, ignorant/closed-minded and critical of others without even getting to know them. they loved to jab at your negative qualities.

My really close friend is a Virgo and she's AWESOME, but we also have conjunct moon signs in Libra and she's the best! Years ago i knew this virgo kid with his moon in Aries and he had the worst inferiority complex ever. I hate people who act like they have something to prove to others (I'm a Leo so I'm big on dignity). He was intimidated by me and saw me as a threat even when i had good, warm intentions. But at that time I've learned that people are going to see whatever they choose to see so it's not my problem (I love Aries moons by the way, but I guess an Aries moon with a Virgo Sun isn't best)

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posted June 25, 2020 03:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Seimei:
Leo and Virgo can be each others best buddies and tools.
But it all depends on placements.

My crush is a Double Virgo a 1st House Leo Stellium!

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3rd House Leo Mercury
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posted June 25, 2020 04:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lioninash:
Im a leo sun aqua moon female and recently broke up with a virgo sun sag moon guy. We were together for 3 years. It was fun when we first started dating but i feel like we settled in too quickly. We didnt have many experiences together, and i always felt like something was missing. In the end, i felt like he was just a good friend/father figure. I was really unhappy within the relationship so i broke up with him. He was a great guy and had a good heart but i just felt like we werent made for each other.
I do love virgos though. My bro is a virgo and we get along great.

What are yours and your ex’s Ascendants? Do either of you have planets in your 5th or 7th House?

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posted June 25, 2020 04:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Geeky:

The reason is that I am very introverted and quiet when at home and my Leo energy is on max thrust when I am out of the home. So at home, I like a little space and the Leo men I have know enjoy being the center of the solar system a little too much.


Which degree is your Virgo Sun at? Is it your sole Virgo placement? Which personal planets do you have in Leo? In regards to your home introversion, which sign is on your 4th House cusp? Do you have any planets in it?

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posted June 25, 2020 11:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stretch     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I think I like this guy friend of mine and he's a Virgo with a late Virgo Moon (27 degrees) and Mercury, Mars & Venus in Leo.

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Your Cancer rising would explain your introversion at home. Cancers are real homebodies.

Depending upon how strong your homebody qualities are and how strong his leo qualities are, you may be able to meet somewhere in the middle to find compatibility.

It would be interesting to see a full synastry chart for the two of you done. I find that house placements are just as important as sign compatibility. And more important than either of those (in my personal experience) is the aspects made between your planets, especially conjunctions.

My husband and I shouldn't get along if you only look at the big 3 (sun, moon, ASC). I'm a Libra with Aries moon and Sag ascendant. He's a Cancer with Virgo moon and Capricorn ascendant. My Libra sun and Aries moon are not only in opposition to each other, but shouldn't get along with Cancer or Capricorn (his sun and asc). But, it works for us anyway. His Asc is conjunct my north node, so this gives us a "fated" feel. His mars is conjunct my sun which gives us that physical connection and this is also enhanced by his Venus/Mercury conjunction being in my 8th house. There are other positive synastries, but this is enough to make the point.

It is true that our "big 3" incompatibilities do surface. I do feel bored sometimes and like he doesn't mentally move fast enough to keep up with me. And he feels like I am moving all over the place and making him nervous sometimes. He once said to me, "Can't you relax?" And I said, "NO! That isn't relaxing for me!" Ha ha! But no one is a perfect match and we accept that we are each different. We have enough strengths and compatibilites together that we can work though the areas where we are less well matched.

In short, don't be put off just because of the surface features. Really dig deep with a synastry chart.

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posted June 25, 2020 11:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Stretch:
Your Cancer rising would explain your introversion at home. Cancers are real homebodies.

Depending upon how strong your homebody qualities are and how strong his leo qualities are, you may be able to meet somewhere in the middle to find compatibility.

It would be interesting to see a full synastry chart for the two of you done. I find that house placements are just as important as sign compatibility. And more important than either of those (in my personal experience) is the aspects made between your planets, especially conjunctions.

My husband and I shouldn't get along if you only look at the big 3 (sun, moon, ASC). I'm a Libra with Aries moon and Sag ascendant. He's a Cancer with Virgo moon and Capricorn ascendant. My Libra sun and Aries moon are not only in opposition to each other, but shouldn't get along with Cancer or Capricorn (his sun and asc). But, it works for us anyway. His Asc is conjunct my north node, so this gives us a "fated" feel. His mars is conjunct my sun which gives us that physical connection and this is also enhanced by his Venus/Mercury conjunction being in my 8th house. There are other positive synastries, but this is enough to make the point.

It is true that our "big 3" incompatibilities do surface. I do feel bored sometimes and like he doesn't mentally move fast enough to keep up with me. And he feels like I am moving all over the place and making him nervous sometimes. He once said to me, "Can't you relax?" And I said, "NO! That isn't relaxing for me!" Ha ha! But no one is a perfect match and we accept that we are each different. We have enough strengths and compatibilites together that we can work though the areas where we are less well matched.

In short, don't be put off just because of the surface features. Really dig deep with a synastry chart.


Ohh, I see. Makes sense! This whole time I thought it was because I had Virgo on The 4th House cusp, haha.

Aww thanks girrll! I’m soo happy you and the hubby made it work! Below are our birthdate details, if you care to investigate our synastry, and enlighten me more. I love learning from wiser people more knowledgeable than I am. You are a lovely writer too!
E.M: August 4th 1998 @ 3:17am in Montreal, QC.
J.J: August 24th 1998 @ 4:05am in Brazzaville, Congo.
I’ll remove it within 36 hours!

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2nd House Leo Sun
3rd House Leo Mercury
6th House Sagittarius Moon & Pluto
1st House Cancer Venus & Mars
9th House Pisces Jupiter conjunct MC.

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posted June 25, 2020 11:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Stretch:
Your Cancer rising would explain your introversion at home. Cancers are real homebodies.

Depending upon how strong your homebody qualities are and how strong his leo qualities are, you may be able to meet somewhere in the middle to find compatibility.

It would be interesting to see a full synastry chart for the two of you done. I find that house placements are just as important as sign compatibility. And more important than either of those (in my personal experience) is the aspects made between your planets, especially conjunctions.

My husband and I shouldn't get along if you only look at the big 3 (sun, moon, ASC). I'm a Libra with Aries moon and Sag ascendant. He's a Cancer with Virgo moon and Capricorn ascendant. My Libra sun and Aries moon are not only in opposition to each other, but shouldn't get along with Cancer or Capricorn (his sun and asc). But, it works for us anyway. His Asc is conjunct my north node, so this gives us a "fated" feel. His mars is conjunct my sun which gives us that physical connection and this is also enhanced by his Venus/Mercury conjunction being in my 8th house. There are other positive synastries, but this is enough to make the point.

It is true that our "big 3" incompatibilities do surface. I do feel bored sometimes and like he doesn't mentally move fast enough to keep up with me. And he feels like I am moving all over the place and making him nervous sometimes. He once said to me, "Can't you relax?" And I said, "NO! That isn't relaxing for me!" Ha ha! But no one is a perfect match and we accept that we are each different. We have enough strengths and compatibilites together that we can work though the areas where we are less well matched.

In short, don't be put off just because of the surface features. Really dig deep with a synastry chart.


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2nd House Leo Sun
3rd House Leo Mercury
6th House Sagittarius Moon & Pluto
1st House Cancer Venus & Mars
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posted June 27, 2020 02:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeoSagRisingTaurusMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
What about Virgo's who have at least 3 personal planets in Leo?

Haha girl almost same situation here. He's a Cancer with 3 personal planets in Leo, 1st house stellium!


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My natal chart with asteroids http://i.imgur.com/1IG2Im4.png

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Sappho biquintile Sun
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