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Topic: compitability vs attraction ?
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New2014
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posted May 18, 2015 07:05 AM
  
I need your opinion please
Is it right that compitability us inversely related to attraction ?
I have most of my planets compitabile with my crush but not in masculine feminine attraction
For example I have sun in taurus she have sun in cancer
I have venus aries she have venus gemini
you can see it is not sun - moon or mars - venus aspects (I.e. not masculine feminine)
I hope I my point is clear
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Selene
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posted May 18, 2015 07:38 AM
I am mostly attracted to those who are most incompatible to me in terms of general rules of compatibility. Story of my life. LOL. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted May 18, 2015 10:19 AM
Attraction governs the 1st stages and often comes as a strong force/momentum.Compatibility however,is what is hoped for. Often not always smooth. I always think of attraction as seeing something shiny and sparkly. But compatibility is when you realize that you have found GOLD!!!! I think sextile connections are very helpful in overall compatibility. They usually favor communication a lot. What do both your charts look like? Am curious actualy IP: Logged |
New2014
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posted May 18, 2015 11:08 AM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Attraction governs the 1st stages and often comes as a strong force/momentum.Compatibility however,is what is hoped for. Often not always smooth. I always think of attraction as seeing something shiny and sparkly. But compatibility is when you realize that you have found GOLD!!!! I think sextile connections are very helpful in overall compatibility. They usually favor communication a lot. What do both your charts look like? Am curious actualy
Here it is http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?cid=pgtfile9bT7l5-u1428506357&lang=e&gm=a1&nhor=1&nho2=2&btyp=61&mth=ast&sday=18&smon=5&syr=2015&hsy=-1&zod=&orbp=&rs=0&ast=
unfortunately I dnt know her exact time of birth so only my own houses ( sun in taurus ) is valid
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midnightvenus
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posted May 18, 2015 11:11 AM
I'm curious about the reasons why you chose the asteroids you did.
Why Nessus, Eros and Pholus, and not Eros-Psyche and Isis-Osiris (romantic asteroids)?IP: Logged |
New2014
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posted May 18, 2015 11:22 AM
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Originally posted by midnightvenus:
I'm curious about the reasons why you chose the asteroids you did.
Why Nessus, Eros and Pholus, and not Eros-Psyche and Isis-Osiris (romantic asteroids)?
I am interested in eros and trying yo discover the others as I dnt know them well
hope you can also help me with my original question IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted May 18, 2015 02:20 PM
You guys share quite a few oppositions- so no wonder the strong attraction;Moon opposite Moon(she)
Mars opposite Mars(she)
Mercury opposite Jupiter(she) You also have some square aspect action. Her Venus squares your Mars
Your Venus squares her Mercury So the sextile aspects tend to "smooth out" these challenges.
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New2014
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posted May 18, 2015 11:29 PM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
You guys share quite a few oppositions- so no wonder the strong attraction;Moon opposite Moon(she)
Mars opposite Mars(she)
Mercury opposite Jupiter(she) You also have some square aspect action. Her Venus squares your Mars
Your Venus squares her Mercury So the sextile aspects tend to "smooth out" these challenges.
Thanks for reply, I have another question please ; do you think the idea of having incompatible mars - venus she (pisces - gemini she ) and same in sun - moon she (taurus - gemini she) is disabling ?
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Aries23Degrees
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posted May 19, 2015 02:30 PM
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Originally posted by New2014:
Thanks for reply, I have another question please ; do you think the idea of having incompatible mars - venus she (pisces - gemini she ) and same in sun - moon she (taurus - gemini she) is disabling ?
Thanks in advance
Your personality is very optimistic. You generally would like to ground yourself a lot more(Sun). But the Asc in Leo/Moon in Sag combo,keeps on feeding you grand ideas that keep you flying high. The problem with Venus/Mars square is that the energy you two express is at odds. And it is usually expressed at the same time i.e When you feel like being romantic(Mars in Pisces). She feels like she wants to have a light breezy conversation(Gemini) When she feels like doing something "naughty"(Gemini), you are just not in the same head space and want solitude(Pisces). This could be further complicated by her Mars in Virgo; on one hand she can turn you on by doing nice things for you. On the other hand she can turn you off by being overly critical and exacting. The opposition is never easy. It bonds the people together for better or for worse. IP: Logged |
New2014
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posted May 20, 2015 02:03 AM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Your personality is very optimistic.You generally would like to ground yourself a lot more(Sun). But the Asc in Leo/Moon in Sag combo,keeps on feeding you grand ideas that keep you flying high. The problem with Venus/Mars square is that the energy you two express is at odds. And it is usually expressed at the same time i.e When you feel like being romantic(Mars in Pisces). She feels like she wants to have a light breezy conversation(Gemini) When she feels like doing something "naughty"(Gemini), you are just not in the same head space and want solitude(Pisces). This could be further complicated by her Mars in Virgo; on one hand she can turn you on by doing nice things for you. On the other hand she can turn you off by being overly critical and exacting. The opposition is never easy. It bonds the people together for better or for worse.
Thank you
I have a question does the square between mars and venus count inspite the fact it is not exact ?
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Aries23Degrees
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posted May 20, 2015 06:08 AM
There is much debate with regards to orbs.I always think that the close square aspect shows itself up more readily at the very beginning. But the wider aspect shows itself over time; you feel a "disconnect", but it is always not clear why there is.
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