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Lerena
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posted May 18, 2015 11:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lerena     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have been looking at the synastry chart between my boyfriend and I. My synastry chart here looks rather messy, but it looked messier before I decreased the orb to 50%. Before we go on, I did choose some asteroids for this and I thought it would help to have their meanings here.

Knight is in this chart, because I thought it would show something about the relationship. My boyfriend does remind me of a knight. Anteros is here for the same reason Knight is.

Knight - how one is a knight, being protective, etc
Anteros - inspiring feelings and returning them
Boda - wedding day
Union - union between two people
Concordia - agreement
Felicitas - happiness
Valentine - sacrifice for the sake of love

Groom - For him, this represents what kind of groom he is and for me this represents the groom I want

Briede - "bride" I'm guessing. For him, this represents the bride he wants and for me it represents what kind of bride I am

Destinn - I assume this asteroid is about "destiny." I forgot to take it out of the chart, but it is aspected so I thought I'd leave it in

I want to know if my boyfriend and I are likely to get married and if so what is indicated about the marriage (this second bit might require me to make another chart but let me know if this is the case).

I'm interested in whether he's likely to be happy being married to me (if the marriage indicators are there) and our synastry. I provided three charts: a general synastry chart with no asteroids, a synastry chart with asteroids, and our composite chart.

I appreciate any and all input.

In the chart, I'm in the "inside" circle (blue) and my boyfriend is in the "outside" circle (red).

Update: This post has updated images in Placidus. I previously used Whole Sign, because it's the system I find describes me in the most accurate light. However, I updated these images since Placidus seems to be easier to use.

Synastry chart (no asteroids):

Synastry chart (asteroids):

Composite chart (asteroids):

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astra7
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posted May 19, 2015 07:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astra7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You will find that most of us find it easier to read placidus house chart rather than equal house.

But just by looking at some aspects, I don't know which is you but, you have very nice aspects like Venus trine Sun, NN on Asc, Venus trine Asc, anti-Vertex conj. Moon, Saturn trine Moon etc. Only concerns is Saturn in blue is unaspected so the glue is one sided.

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Lerena
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posted May 19, 2015 07:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lerena     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I will make charts in Placidus. Thank you for telling me that. I didn't realize that most people on the forum would find it easier to interpret Placidus instead of Whole Sign. Placidus isn't my ideal house system, but I do want to make it easier on others to help me.

While I am making the charts in Placidus, I want to reply to what you said about my Saturn being unaspected. Does this indicate that his feelings are stronger than mine are?

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EmGem
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posted May 19, 2015 09:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lerena, it is said that you need saturn in synastry for more of a chance of the relationship to be longer lasting. It's what makes people stay in the rel and make it work. It's the glue. So some saturn aspects between the two is preferable.

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Lerena
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posted May 19, 2015 10:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lerena     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Saturn doesn't feel like it would be untouched though. We have been together for almost 10 months now and have known each other longer than that. I admit that 10 months isn't that long, but I do hope that my boyfriend and I can overcome any problem that comes our way.

I am certainly 100% willing to commit to him and settle down when the time comes. No problem in this world could make me leave him unless he himself decided to end the relationship.

Is Saturn the only strong indicator of being committed to a relationship for the long-term?

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