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Aurora_girl1990
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posted May 20, 2015 11:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aurora_girl1990     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi,I've been friends with this guy(in real life) for about 6 years now.He's a college friend and we met in college.I managed to get his birth information a couple of years ago but finally decided to post the charts up.I wonder what do you see between us?Just good friends or potential for something more?

My chart:

His chart:

Synastry:


Composite:

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Aurora_girl1990
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posted May 22, 2015 12:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aurora_girl1990     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump.If anyone could take a look and give their opinion i would really appreciate it.Thanks

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stillatlarge
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posted May 22, 2015 05:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for stillatlarge     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wouldn't count on anything but preachy passive aggressive attacks here. Didn't used to be this way. I don't know what makes them so negative and judgmental now. This place used to be full of great, insightful, generous people.

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LeeLoo2014
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posted May 22, 2015 06:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by stillatlarge:
I wouldn't count on anything but preachy passive aggressive attacks here. Didn't used to be this way. I don't know what makes them so negative and judgmental now. This place used to be full of great, insightful, generous people.

It was a decision made by 3 moderators of this forum not to discuss a child abuse synastry between a 4 year old girl and an adult male as long as the OP does not perceive this as 100% wrong. Consequently, the thread was moved to Sweat Peas for the OP to discuss child abuse. It was a very tough decision because the last thing you want to do with a victim is to victimize or marginalize them even more.

But it is completely unethical to encourage someone to believe there can be a silver lining in their torture and abuse. It is also unethical and dangerous to suggest that on a public forum, unethical towards children, parents, potential victims, other victims and potential rapists and abusers, and everyone else out there.

If you or anyone else have a problem with this decision, please open a thread in Sweat Peas or Lindaland Central and discuss it. I won't accept to be harassed for my decision by people condoning violence.

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stillatlarge
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posted May 22, 2015 07:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for stillatlarge     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know what you're talking about. I was in no way referring to anything like that, never even on my radar.

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Aurora_girl1990
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posted May 22, 2015 07:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aurora_girl1990     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Would you kindly please take this discussion elsewhere?I would like some thoughts on my synastry.Thanks

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LeeLoo2014
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posted May 22, 2015 07:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by stillatlarge:
I don't know what you're talking about. I was in no way referring to anything like that, never even on my radar.

I apologize then. It sounded like this, things have been tense here lately; at least we got to clarify this.


Aurora, this looks like a good synastry to me, I suspect it brings your 8th house very much to the fore, with that 12th house overlay.

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starmoon
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posted May 22, 2015 08:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
you said you "managed to get his birth time" - is it accurate? or did you/he guess? the reason i'm asking is because the synastry looks quite good, but a majority of the good stuff comes from knowing the exact TOBs (specifically, how planets align to the angles). if the TOB is off by any amount some of those better connections would either disappear or get much wider

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Aurora_girl1990
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posted May 22, 2015 09:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aurora_girl1990     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by starmoon:
you said you "managed to get his birth time" - is it accurate? or did you/he guess? the reason i'm asking is because the synastry looks quite good, but a majority of the good stuff comes from knowing the exact TOBs (specifically, how planets align to the angles). if the TOB is off by any amount some of those better connections would either disappear or get much wider

I asked him specifically for his birth time and place of birth and he told me.And i also validated it on my own(to a reasonable level by comparing his hindu moon sign and his name which for hindus is usually based off their moon sign position).So yes it's accurate.

May i ask what do you see in the synastry starmoon?And is there potential for us to be more than just friends?

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Aurora_girl1990
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posted May 22, 2015 09:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aurora_girl1990     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I apologize then. It sounded like this, things have been tense here lately; at least we got to clarify this.


Aurora, this looks like a good synastry to me, I suspect it brings your 8th house very much to the fore, with that 12th house overlay.


Thank you leeloo,do you see any potential for us to be more than just friends?

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posted May 23, 2015 12:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aurora_girl1990     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
bump

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Aurora_girl1990
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posted May 24, 2015 09:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aurora_girl1990     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
bump please

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LeeLoo2014
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posted May 24, 2015 09:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey, what's with the impatience? Is he running or something?
He can't run from you, this one, look at the Fixed Cross "caught" with the angles.
Yes, I definitely see potential for romance as well, it's a hot chart The superposition of the fixed cross on your angles is totally awesome.

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Aurora_girl1990
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posted May 25, 2015 12:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aurora_girl1990     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Hey, what's with the impatience? Is he running or something?
He can't run from you, this one, look at the Fixed Cross "caught" with the angles.
Yes, I definitely see potential for romance as well, it's a hot chart The superposition of the fixed cross on your angles is totally awesome.

Nah he's not running from me.It seems like i've been friendzone with him.He hasn't made a move to ask me out or anything in the 6 years we've known each other but i've always felt an attraction to him and i do feel he feels it back just that something is holding him back from expressing it.

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Aurora_girl1990
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posted May 25, 2015 09:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aurora_girl1990     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
bump.Any thoughts?

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starmoon
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posted May 25, 2015 10:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i don't like working with composites, so i'll just comment on the synastry, which is good. you said the TOB is accurate so, you can see that his moon is right on your DSC and his sun is on your ASC. from your perspective that'd make him an ideal partner :-) any time a planet touches the angle the angle person really takes notice because it awakens feelings like this person could be an ideal partner. it's interesting to have his sun/moon fall on your angles that way, and they do so because of his own natal opposition. you've got this reciprocally too - your moon right on his ASC, and your venus/mars in his 1st, so it'd be assumed he'd feel similarly towards you as a great partner. generally, for a guy, it also means he'd be attracted physically to you since venus/mars represent our beauty ideals. you've also got your ASC/DSC in the same signs as each other - they angles aren't conjunct, but the very fact they fall into the same sign is beneficial. the venus/mars/desc all on his moon is (usually) a very strong marriage indicator. it definitely looks like something romantic should be going on here! :-) if it's not, then look at his natal more closely. he has moon opp. sun, which can lead to that push/pull in terms of feelings - wanting something but not going for it, then going for it, and changing your mind. he also has venus opposite saturn by sign, which could be inhibiting taking any leaps of faith with a relationship; think of saturn as restricting what venus wants (love/relationships). and saturn is sitting in capricorn, its ruler, and conjunct to uranus, which also sits opp. venus. venus/uranus wants a very free approach to relationships and doesn't want to be tied down, and paired with all the aqua in your charts that might be a factor. aqua men can make their women wait a very long time for affection and interest, but 6 years? way too long.. he must really just enjoy the aqua friendship

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posted May 26, 2015 02:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aurora_girl1990     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by starmoon:
i don't like working with composites, so i'll just comment on the synastry, which is good. you said the TOB is accurate so, you can see that his moon is right on your DSC and his sun is on your ASC. from your perspective that'd make him an ideal partner :-) any time a planet touches the angle the angle person really takes notice because it awakens feelings like this person could be an ideal partner. it's interesting to have his sun/moon fall on your angles that way, and they do so because of his own natal opposition. you've got this reciprocally too - your moon right on his ASC, and your venus/mars in his 1st, so it'd be assumed he'd feel similarly towards you as a great partner. generally, for a guy, it also means he'd be attracted physically to you since venus/mars represent our beauty ideals. you've also got your ASC/DSC in the same signs as each other - they angles aren't conjunct, but the very fact they fall into the same sign is beneficial. the venus/mars/desc all on his moon is (usually) a very strong marriage indicator. it definitely looks like something romantic should be going on here! :-) if it's not, then look at his natal more closely. he has moon opp. sun, which can lead to that push/pull in terms of feelings - wanting something but not going for it, then going for it, and changing your mind. he also has venus opposite saturn by sign, which could be inhibiting taking any leaps of faith with a relationship; think of saturn as restricting what venus wants (love/relationships). and saturn is sitting in capricorn, its ruler, and conjunct to uranus, which also sits opp. venus. venus/uranus wants a very free approach to relationships and doesn't want to be tied down, and paired with all the aqua in your charts that might be a factor. aqua men can make their women wait a very long time for affection and interest, but 6 years? way too long.. he must really just enjoy the aqua friendship

Thank you for your interpretation starmoon.Me,personally feels that he does feel the attraction for me as i do for him but something holding him back.I think it's my weight.I'm slightly overweight and as a leo sun he has the tendency to want someone whom he can look good with you know?And yeah,thanks for the interpretations.I'm thinking about losing weight so we'll see if my theory is right after i lose some weight :P And yes i do see him as an ideal partner.

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posted May 27, 2015 06:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aurora_girl1990     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Any more thoughts?Gleam something about our connection from the synastry?Ie are we karmic partners,soulmates etc?

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posted May 28, 2015 03:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aurora_girl1990     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What about the composite chart?any thoughts on that?

Edit:What about composite Alma exactly on the Galactic center?

Or Composite DNA on Sirius Exact!

Or the fact that composite sun conjunct Pallas(orb 1)which then conjuncts Aldebaran(orb 1).

Which means that sun conjunct Aldebaran orb 2 degrees 5 minutes.

Or Composite Jupiter Conjunct Sirius Exact,Which then conjuncts chiron(orb 2 degrees 7 minutes).

Or the fact that Composite ceres exactly conjunct both Procyon and Pollux.

Or that composite vertex is on Betelgeuse?

Or that Composite Mercury is on Capella.

Or this one,composite Angel on Regulus(orb 1.5)??What could that mean?It seems significant!

Any thoughts on the above Configurations?

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posted May 28, 2015 08:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
you might want to type some of those aspects into Google and see what links you can find. people cannot respond to requests immediately and it takes time for them to look at the charts you posted. be patient, and in the meantime do some searching on your own.

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Aurora_girl1990
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posted May 28, 2015 09:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aurora_girl1990     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by starmoon:
you might want to type some of those aspects into Google and see what links you can find. people cannot respond to requests immediately and it takes time for them to look at the charts you posted. be patient, and in the meantime do some searching on your own.

Alright,thank you starmoon

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Aurora_girl1990
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posted May 31, 2015 12:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aurora_girl1990     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted May 31, 2015 03:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
It was a decision made by 3 moderators of this forum not to discuss a child abuse synastry between a 4 year old girl and an adult male as long as the OP does not perceive this as 100% wrong. Consequently, the thread was moved to Sweat Peas for the OP to discuss child abuse. It was a very tough decision because the last thing you want to do with a victim is to victimize or marginalize them even more.

But it is completely unethical to encourage someone to believe there can be a silver lining in their torture and abuse. It is also unethical and dangerous to suggest that on a public forum, unethical towards children, parents, potential victims, other victims and potential rapists and abusers, and everyone else out there.

If you or anyone else have a problem with this decision, please open a thread in Sweat Peas or Lindaland Central and discuss it. I won't accept to be harassed for my decision by people condoning violence.


I agree with you 110%, Lee.

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Aurora_girl1990
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posted May 31, 2015 04:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aurora_girl1990     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
bump

Aubyanne,could you please take a look at my charts And do let me know if you think this person is the one i'm supposed to love 'unconditionally' to heal the karma that's holding me back.Thanks

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Aurora_girl1990
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posted June 02, 2015 02:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aurora_girl1990     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump for Aubyanne.If you could take a look at the charts above and let me know if you think he's the one i'm supposed to love unconditionally i'd really appreciate it.Thanks

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