posted May 21, 2015 05:13 AM            

I thought that I half-remembered his TOB and it came up as Scorpio rising, which seemed right because the whole relationship has been quite Plutonic (Rebirth! Sex! Intensity!).

When I saw it I thought something along the lines of "Oh well, that unaspected moon make sense". It didn't look good but it perhaps explained it in terms of my being unable to really access his emotional side.

I posted it on here a couple of days ago, but (a few cups of tea with his mum later) I've since found out that I got his tob completely wrong, by about eighteen hours! So here's the new synastry chart.

and the aspects

Now it doesn't make any sense again! His moon looks happier but totally not sure about those house overlays.

posted May 21, 2015 05:44 AM            

I still have to deal with him and the whole relationship has always (and still does!) muddled me. Difficult to move on from, partly because it just is but also partly because it seems to contain a lot of contradictory elements.

If anyone could shed some light on anything that seems a bit odd then I'd be dead grateful Otherwise I guess I can just put it down to some truly manky cardinal transits

posted May 29, 2015 05:00 AM            

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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

LeeLoo's Esotericorner

posted May 31, 2015 04:17 PM            

Also hardly any conjunctions whatsoever. Turns out my Amor is conjunct his NN (within a degree), which seems like it would be a good thing but I don't really know.

posted May 31, 2015 06:09 PM            

I rarely see something like this not to work

posted May 31, 2015 06:29 PM            

The Sun-Moon aspects are ridiculously tight, they're something like 00.00'45" and 00.10'.

I'll have to go back and have a look (I did that thing where you send yourself cross-eyed looking at it and then say "Enough!" and leave it alone for a while), but I do know that that there's a dw with Juno-Jupiter and Venus-Pluto (although one of those is on a wider orb).

posted June 01, 2015 08:13 AM            

Orb of 0-1*, Sun-Moon, Moon-Vesta, Mars-Vesta.

Orb of 1-2*, Sun-Mars, Sun-Uranus, Moon-Venus, Moon-BML, Uranus-Vesta and Uranus-BML.

Orb of 2-3*, Venus-Mars, Jupiter-MC, Jupiter-Juno.

Orb of 3-5*, Venus-MC, Mars-BML, Saturn-NN, Mars-Jupiter and Jupiter-Saturn (although not incredibly surprising as my J and S are conj).

I'm working on the assumption that a combination of the closest orbs, the most personal planets and the major aspects are the most influential... also off to look up Black Moon Lilith and in particular Vesta, as I've read a lot of fairly contradictory things about her.

Mostly I'm posting this so that people can let me know if they see that I'm getting something horribly wrong (keen to learn, but there's only so much you can teach yourself off the internet!)