cleanliness is next to godliness--a virgo/pisces contemplation

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yungang_grotto Knowflake Posts: 56 From: Registered: Mar 2014	posted June 08, 2015 08:56 PM What have your experiences been along the virgo/pisces axis, in relationship or natally? I am really intrigued by my present lover's virgo sun conjunct my South node... But can't write now, gotta go bathe! IP: Logged
bansheequeen Knowflake Posts: 974 From: Beachville, USA Registered: Jan 2012	posted June 08, 2015 10:58 PM I'm drowning in it lol. It seems like I go back and forth between playing Virgo and Pisces. Sometimesi feel like the one running after my partner cleaning up after him, telling his what's best for him and disapproving of his escapist habits, saving him from himself, saving him from crappy life situations. Other times my partner is the one doing all that with me. It goes back and forth seamlessly and unexpectedly. Usually one person is th delusional dreamer and the other has to take care of real world things while they dream and tray to escape life. Drugs, vacations, blowing off work to lay in bed, crimes, getting in trouble together, dragging eachother out of the mess they've made, fixing each others lives, mind control, telepathy, hypnosis, ghosts, tragedy, sickness, one person being locked up, one person being helpless. We can read eachothers minds. A lot of times we think exactly the same thing at the same time. Even when physically apart. I feel like I also seek that dynamic, where we are completely dependent on eachother. And I seek to merge completely with someone, I feel like the ultimate love would be to rip away our exteriors and become one. I like sex to feel like we are one entity with one breath one mind shared between two sets of eyes. IP: Logged
yungang_grotto Knowflake Posts: 56 From: Registered: Mar 2014	posted June 09, 2015 12:02 AM Thank you for sharing this! It sounds like your relationship probably has some strong Pluto running through it/like a vein in the earth... That intuitive sensing and sharing and knowing has its roots running all through both of you, in beautiful intricate ways (would love to see the chart!)... waxing poetic because it's all I can do at this time! I'm also experiencing the dynamic as-well-fluid, and dynamic. I'm appreciating the re-grounding in my Virgo South node, from which I have been resolutely running for a while, to the point where a healer recently pointed out to me that my left brain is under developed... As much as I do want to move away from undue criticism and judgment, I need to embrace the sacred truths which are ascertained with analytical purity... And I'm being blown away by what this Virgo sun is bringing to the table... What an incredible mind he has! IP: Logged
Orange Knowflake Posts: 2174 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009	posted June 09, 2015 12:25 AM I am a Virgo, and he has a Virgo Moon and Virgo Rising. He is worst in the compulsive cleaning department. I do wash my hands all too often, but he sanitizes his hands if he accidentally touches another's skin, like while gesticulating during a conversation. If he brushes his fingers against your arms, be sure he would be sanitizing thoroughly immediately after. A basket case. Adorable, thou. My Virgo Sun watches his quirks from aside like an old master watching his apprentice, and nods in agreement. IP: Logged
Voix_de_la_Mer Knowflake Posts: 1509 From: You. Registered: Aug 2011	posted June 09, 2015 08:23 AM Virgo MOON here, living with a Pisces MOON (both Aquarius SUNs) I have put laundry baskets in every room in the house, and SOMEHOW there are STILL clothes on the floor. You know, NEXT to the laundry basket. What IS that nonsense! Oh, and he hasn't cleaned the bathroom ONCE since we moved here 2 years ago. I'm not anal, but really, its like he is above such earthly tasks without a reminder. Then, of course, I feel like a nag! But, he looks at me sideways, and I am wetting myself with laughter. We have these wee noises we have whole conversations with. And then the world is right again IP: Logged
yungang_grotto Knowflake Posts: 56 From: Registered: Mar 2014	posted June 09, 2015 10:50 AM laughed so hard at that... Yes! lol... I just got told my dreads are v going to give me a staph infection. I told him my dreads are clean--the spirit of them is clean! I wrote a poem this morning. It goes like this milk + blood + sweat and mud, all the spirit goes through milk, blood, sweat, mud, all the spirit grows through.... IP: Logged
yungang_grotto Knowflake Posts: 56 From: Registered: Mar 2014	posted June 09, 2015 11:09 AM However his Virgo sun is deeply comforting to me because I do have those tendencies towards compulsion and paranoia and he is much better integrated with it, it being his sun IP: Logged
Voix_de_la_Mer Knowflake Posts: 1509 From: You. Registered: Aug 2011	posted June 09, 2015 11:14 AM quote: Originally posted by yungang_grotto: laughed so hard at that... Yes! lol... I just got told my dreads are v going to give me a staph infection. I told him my dreads are clean--the spirit of them is clean! I wrote a poem this morning. It goes like this milk + blood + sweat and mud, all the spirit goes through milk, blood, sweat, mud, all the spirit grows through.... Haha! That statement is a beauty. You should sing your poem to him with candlelight IP: Logged
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 3180 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012	posted June 09, 2015 01:38 PM I have an earth singleton but I am OCD about cleaning to the point where I can barely handle living with another human... the only person male OR female I've ever been satisfied sharing a household with was my Capricorn ex who had a 6th-house stellium, and that relationship got torn down because of emotional issues and volatility. It's too bad because my new roommate (a Pisces with a Virgo moon) is driving me CRAZY he's so lazy! Great company and great fun but I'm constantly cleaning up after him. I don't know what to attribute this to? I always assumed it was too much fixed energy, I never would have thought it could be my Pisces moon. IP: Logged
Voix_de_la_Mer Knowflake Posts: 1509 From: You. Registered: Aug 2011	posted June 09, 2015 02:29 PM quote: Originally posted by Aquacheeka: I have an earth singleton but I am OCD about cleaning to the point where I can barely handle living with another human... the only person male OR female I've ever been satisfied sharing a household with was my Capricorn ex who had a 6th-house stellium, and that relationship got torn down because of emotional issues and volatility. It's too bad because my new roommate (a Pisces with a Virgo moon) is driving me CRAZY he's so lazy! Great company and great fun but I'm constantly cleaning up after him. I don't know what to attribute this to? I always assumed it was too much fixed energy, I never would have thought it could be my Pisces moon. Haha. I live with a Pisces MOON, and he used to whine about his housemates not cleanign this or that enough, or in the right way. Read my post above about his laundry issues! And 2 YEARS not cleaning the bathroom! I can't even IMAGINE how bad his housemates must have been. But yeah, I'd expect better from a Virgo MOON myself IP: Logged
astra7 Knowflake Posts: 699 From: I live at 667 Registered: Sep 2014	posted June 10, 2015 08:31 AM quote: Originally posted by Orange: I am a Virgo, and he has a Virgo Moon and Virgo Rising. He is worst in the compulsive cleaning department. I do wash my hands all too often, but he sanitizes his hands if he accidentally touches another's skin, like while gesticulating during a conversation. If he brushes his fingers against your arms, be sure he would be sanitizing thoroughly immediately after. A basket case. Adorable, thou. My Virgo Sun watches his quirks from aside like an old master watching his apprentice, and nods in agreement. I take it he won't be becoming a massage therapist then! LOL IP: Logged
astra7 Knowflake Posts: 699 From: I live at 667 Registered: Sep 2014	posted June 10, 2015 08:32 AM quote: Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer: Virgo MOON here, living with a Pisces MOON (both Aquarius SUNs) I have put laundry baskets in every room in the house, and SOMEHOW there are STILL clothes on the floor. You know, NEXT to the laundry basket. What IS that nonsense! Oh, and he hasn't cleaned the bathroom ONCE since we moved here 2 years ago. I'm not anal, but really, its like he is above such earthly tasks without a reminder. Then, of course, I feel like a nag! But, he looks at me sideways, and I am wetting myself with laughter. We have these wee noises we have whole conversations with. And then the world is right again Wow! Really?! :O IP: Logged
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 3180 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012	posted June 10, 2015 09:09 AM Sometimes I think women and (straight) men were not meant to live together. IP: Logged
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 2603 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013	posted June 10, 2015 04:02 PM I am virgo sun with pisces moon (libra mercury), and my boyfriend is libra sun, pisces moon (virgo mercury)! I am definitely the most orderly and economically out of the two of us. I am the one trying to make him clean up after himself, and helping him with practical stuff:P He is the adorable sweet heart and romantic guy who makes me laugh, always listens and is always very caring He has no sense of time though, so he is like living in his own world:P I don't mind about this at all, maybe it's also my own pisces moon that does this... but I like that he is so soft, chaotic and the creative one We are both very sensitive, emotional and cuddly... it's a really nice combo I think! We are also the kind of couple who finish each others sentence, and knows exactly what the other is thinking... we have some strange kind of telepathic thing going on too:P It's the coolest relationship I've ever been in:P IP: Logged
charlie Knowflake Posts: 3117 From: Registered: Jun 2012	posted June 11, 2015 05:39 AM Virgo Asc, Mars here with Sun, Venus, Mars, Mercury and Asc in Virgo 12H progressed chart. I HATE filth. My house is cleaned every day. My clothes are clean. Shoes are clean. I shower 2-3 times daily. My SO is a Pisces Asc, Venus with Pluto in Virgo. He is worse.. IP: Logged
Doux R�ve Moderator Posts: 9311 From: Registered: Dec 2010	posted June 11, 2015 09:07 AM I have a Virgo Moon and a 6H stellium, and I can't feel really relaxed or at ease unless everything is clean and in its right place. I also hate feeling unclean, myself (physically speaking, but also in a more "moral" sense). Interestingly, other people's "filth" bothers me more than mine, so whenever I'm at someone's place and it's not clean, I automatically want to clean it up and put some order. However I can be lazy when it comes to my own room/home. Go figure. My ex had a Sun/Mars conjunction (in Cancer) in the 6H and he was also into being clean and all that; however at the time it bothered me more than anything. Now that I'm seeing someone who's exactly the opposite, I realize it's something that bothers me as well, but at the same time, I don't mind cleaning or tidying things up. It's a mixed bag. IP: Logged
bansheequeen Knowflake Posts: 974 From: Beachville, USA Registered: Jan 2012	posted June 13, 2015 01:07 AM quote: Originally posted by yungang_grotto: Thank you for sharing this! It sounds like your relationship probably has some strong Pluto running through it/like a vein in the earth... That intuitive sensing and sharing and knowing has its roots running all through both of you, in beautiful intricate ways (would love to see the chart!)... waxing poetic because it's all I can do at this time! I'm also experiencing the dynamic as-well-fluid, and dynamic. I'm appreciating the re-grounding in my Virgo South node, from which I have been resolutely running for a while, to the point where a healer recently pointed out to me that my left brain is under developed... As much as I do want to move away from undue criticism and judgment, I need to embrace the sacred truths which are ascertained with analytical purity... And I'm being blown away by what this Virgo sun is bringing to the table... What an incredible mind he has! Yeah we have some Pluto aspects. but I have been in plutonic relationships before and this feels... Different. More easy in the obsession and codependency lol. Yeah, I do find myself "grounding" with my Virgo south node too. Like wait, I'm binge drinking but lemme make the bed so I can crawl into it all cozy when I feel like crap later. But mostly. Like you I want to get away from the negative Virgo energy towards more neptunian energy. If I feel like someone is being really critical and demanding perdition out of me, especially with family and work I tend to tune them out and think about moving to another country or quitting haha. I'm not going to, I am a Virgo rising after all, but in my mind I escape but thinking wishful thoughts. IP: Logged
bansheequeen Knowflake Posts: 974 From: Beachville, USA Registered: Jan 2012	posted June 13, 2015 01:12 AM quote: Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer: Virgo MOON here, living with a Pisces MOON (both Aquarius SUNs) I have put laundry baskets in every room in the house, and SOMEHOW there are STILL clothes on the floor. You know, NEXT to the laundry basket. What IS that nonsense! Oh, and he hasn't cleaned the bathroom ONCE since we moved here 2 years ago. I'm not anal, but really, its like he is above such earthly tasks without a reminder. Then, of course, I feel like a nag! But, he looks at me sideways, and I am wetting myself with laughter. We have these wee noises we have whole conversations with. And then the world is right again oh my god hahaha that sounds like our house! Except neither of us really cares and we just dump clean clothes on the floor too. for a while I was convinced we just needed more laundry baskets... But now I feel like the more laundry baskets I buy, the more dirty clothes show up lol IP: Logged
bansheequeen Knowflake Posts: 974 From: Beachville, USA Registered: Jan 2012	posted June 13, 2015 01:14 AM quote: Originally posted by next to neptune: I am virgo sun with pisces moon (libra mercury), and my boyfriend is libra sun, pisces moon (virgo mercury)! I am definitely the most orderly and economically out of the two of us. I am the one trying to make him clean up after himself, and helping him with practical stuff:P He is the adorable sweet heart and romantic guy who makes me laugh, always listens and is always very caring He has no sense of time though, so he is like living in his own world:P I don't mind about this at all, maybe it's also my own pisces moon that does this... but I like that he is so soft, chaotic and the creative one We are both very sensitive, emotional and cuddly... it's a really nice combo I think! We are also the kind of couple who finish each others sentence, and knows exactly what the other is thinking... we have some strange kind of telepathic thing going on too:P It's the coolest relationship I've ever been in:P Moon signs both in the same water sign! I bet that would be the most understanding and telepathic relationship ever! IP: Logged

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