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Gabby
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posted June 12, 2015 12:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm trying to figure out why I like this guy so much and why we don't seem to have friction between us.
Our synastry isn't anything amazing, but yet I feel very drawn and on the same page with him.
Is this not going to be a lasting thing because of the lack of "amazing aspects"?
The other thing I don't see to much of is terrible hard aspects between us, which I always have the terribly harsh aspects with the guys whose charts I have these " amazing aspects".
So I'm kind of liking the ease and comfort of this, it feels laid back.

Honestly maybe it's the fact that we have virgo, his Sun/Mars and my Moon...all ruled by Merc
And then both libra AC along with my Pluto/Venus and his Pluto/Merc
We both have tight Pluto connections , mine Pluto conjunct AC/Venus and his Pluto conjunct Merc/Sun

I'm not sure but we seem very much alike!!

His AC is exact on my Sun/Moon midpoint, his NN makes a t-square with his AC/DC angle...any thoughts on our synastry?

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posted June 12, 2015 12:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted June 12, 2015 03:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YellowGerbera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think you guys got good stuff going on...?

Venus/Uranus is electrifying and with Jupiter i think it's gonna be fun!
Mars/Moon is HOT!
Moon oppositions can be nice I feel. Might need some emotional maturity but you can learn lots from each other. Vesta and Pallas can prolly help you with that.

His AVx is close to your NN or is it on your Sun/Merc??

His Neptune is on your Sun, and his venus trine your sun... he can easily idealize you as his perfect lover..

Your Saturn on his MC - I dunno how this will manifest for you two.. might just need some caution on your side to not be too critical of him and his future outlook? Your Chiron on his Dsc... Yeah.. this is not easy but there will certainly be a deep connection and understanding between you two.

Like you said personal points are well activated so even if the sparks fade, I think you two will prolly have long-term friendship at least..

Your composite looks very happy and friendly! There is that mars square mercury but I think you have enough friendly aspects to help you work through it. Also, I like that composite Vx is in 7H!

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posted June 12, 2015 03:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you so much YellowGerbera!
I do feel quite an ease with him, I love that! The Chiron on DC does worry me a bit, I'm hoping in the fact that his Venus, my Jupiter and my Neptune all making a grand trine to that comp Chiron/DC indicates that maybe this relationship will help both of us heal our Chiron wound, since comp Chiron is the midpoint for both our Chirons. Maybe that indicates a main focus of the relationship is to bring healing, love and positivity to that wound. I hope that's what it means!!

Wow, we have a Moon/Pallas DW, thanks for pointing that out!
I also did not notice but your right my Sun/Merc is on his Anti-Vertex also 6 degrees from my NN
And his AC is on my anti-Vertex (not tight though 4 degrees)

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posted June 12, 2015 04:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is a really cute aspect...our names are conjunct on my Pluto/Venus midpoint..

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posted June 12, 2015 04:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aww look at him lighting up your 12th house.

Things might get a bit deeper once he starts digging!

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posted June 12, 2015 04:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
Aww look at him lighting up your 12th house.

Things might get a bit deeper once he starts digging!


I had not thought about that...he does put a lot of stuff in my 12th. I let him read one of my poem and mentioned it was published on a site.
So instead of going to sleep that night he went and read all my poetry and everything else I'd written. He didn't freak out or say it was to sad....he said, I love your depth it's one of the most beautiful things about you.
Then said I hope I can help you write the last chapters with a happy ending to your story.

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posted June 12, 2015 04:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Gabby:
I had not thought about that...he does put a lot of stuff in my 12th. I let him read one of my poem and mentioned it was published on a site.
So instead of going to sleep that night he went and read all my poetry and everything else I'd written. He didn't freak out or say it was to sad....he said, I love your depth it's one of the most beautiful things about you.
Then said I hope I can help you write the last chapters with a happy ending to your story.

Wow. That ... that's such an incredible rarity, Gabby. It truly is. There's something special about that.

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posted June 12, 2015 04:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YellowGerbera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
Aww look at him lighting up your 12th house.

Things might get a bit deeper once he starts digging!


Oh yeah! I totally agree.

I can see them really growing together. I think they will definitely be in each other's life, deeply influencing each other..

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posted June 12, 2015 04:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YellowGerbera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Gabby:
I had not thought about that...he does put a lot of stuff in my 12th. I let him read one of my poem and mentioned it was published on a site.
So instead of going to sleep that night he went and read all my poetry and everything else I'd written. He didn't freak out or say it was to sad....he said, I love your depth it's one of the most beautiful things about you.
Then said I hope I can help you write the last chapters with a happy ending to your story.

This is so cute!
Sounds like you two are both mutually admiring and inspired by each other!

Btw, his Juno is on your AVx! His commitment comes easily to you

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posted June 12, 2015 05:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Wow. That ... that's such an incredible rarity, Gabby. It truly is. There's something special about that.

I was speechless...I've never seen a guy so openly want to know and accept the sadness I've experienced.
Usually it stresses them out or hurts them and they try to handle it, they don't think it's something that makes me beautiful. Lol
I guess that's his Sun, Mars, Pluto, Merc in my 12th, he has no fear of that stuff.
But what I like is his 12th house placements don't tightly touch my ultra sensitive virgo moon(only Pallas tightly conjunct)...his planets are just close enough to connect but without putting inescapable pressure on my moon.

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posted June 12, 2015 05:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by YellowGerbera:
Oh yeah! I totally agree.

I can see them really growing together. I think they will definitely be in each other's life, deeply influencing each other..


That sounds so nice!!
I put a lot in his 12th also...Venus, Pluto, AC

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posted June 12, 2015 05:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YellowGerbera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Gabby:
That sounds so nice!!
I put a lot in his 12th also...Venus, Pluto, AC

Oh you're right!
I also like that his Adonis is on your Venus

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posted June 12, 2015 05:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by YellowGerbera:
This is so cute!
Sounds like you two are both mutually admiring and inspired by each other!

Btw, his Juno is on your AVx! His commitment comes easily to you


I can definitely see this, he's asked if someday I'd be willing to move if he bought me a house where he lives.
Until then hes flying to see me every 2 weeks.

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posted June 12, 2015 05:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YellowGerbera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Gabby:
I can definitely see this, he's asked if someday I'd be willing to move if he bought me a house where he lives.
Until then hes flying to see me every 2 weeks.

Awww!! Can you two get any cuter???

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posted June 12, 2015 05:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Oh you're right!
I also like that his Adonis is on your Venus

I had not thought about that, nice! That would be a similar energy to Aphrodite/Adonis wouldn't it. That's really nice!
Adonis is ontop of our names Erika/Gregory conjunction on my Pluto/Venus midpoint.

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posted June 12, 2015 05:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Awww!! Can you two get any cuter???

I've never had a guy go so far out of his way for me, do all the work and pay for everything.....the first time he came to see me he bought me a passport and a phone plan that included international so it wouldn't cost me anything to call him.

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posted June 12, 2015 06:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YellowGerbera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I've never had a guy go so far out of his way for me, do all the work and pay for everything.....the first time he came to see me he bought me a passport and a phone plan that included international so it wouldn't cost me anything to call him.

Oh wow!! Incredible!!
Enjoy the pampering Enjoy the moment!! So happy for you Gabby!!

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posted June 12, 2015 06:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Oh wow!! Incredible!!
Enjoy the pampering Enjoy the moment!! So happy for you Gabby!!

Thank you!! Hope it lasts!

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posted June 12, 2015 06:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I was speechless...I've never seen a guy so openly want to know and accept the sadness I've experienced.
Usually it stresses them out or hurts them and they try to handle it, they don't think it's something that makes me beautiful. Lol
I guess that's his Sun, Mars, Pluto, Merc in my 12th, he has no fear of that stuff.

Huh. You know, I never quite thought about that as being 12H overlay, but it certainly fits. My boyfriend goes out of his way for me constantly -- without expectation of reward of any kind. The mere fact a schizoid would be in a relationship is miraculous enough. His actions do consistently show his desire to be. And to even consent to the insanity of being in love? Wow!

There's a kind of reciprocal balance to it, I think. My MOON, MERC, URA, and MARS in his 12H, with his VENUS, KARMA, JUPITER, and JUNO in mine. I think it's how his VENUS-KARMA conjoins my NNODE, and the fact that my MOON is undoubtedly illuminating.

Complicated at the start, and took plenty of straightforward communication which wasn't the easiest to manage. But we've always been warm, generous, and exceptionally understanding with each other. There's definitely a deep compassion to the 12H.

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posted June 12, 2015 06:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YellowGerbera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Huh. You know, I never quite thought about that as being 12H overlay, but it certainly fits. My boyfriend goes out of his way for me constantly -- without expectation of reward of any kind. The mere fact a schizoid would be in a relationship is miraculous enough. His actions due consistently show his desire to be. And to even consent to the insanity of being in love? Wow!

There's a kind of reciprocal balance to it, I think. My MOON, MERC, URA, and MARS in his 12H, with his VENUS, KARMA, JUPITER, and JUNO in mine. I think it's how his VENUS-KARMA conjoins my NNODE, and the fact that my MOON is undoubtedly illuminating.

Complicated at the start, and took plenty of straightforward communication which wasn't the easiest to manage. But we've always been warm, generous, and exceptionally understanding with each other. There's definitely a deep compassion to the 12H.


Totally agree!

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posted June 12, 2015 06:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Huh. You know, I never quite thought about that as being 12H overlay, but it certainly fits. My boyfriend goes out of his way for me constantly -- without expectation of reward of any kind. The mere fact a schizoid would be in a relationship is miraculous enough. His actions due consistently show his desire to be. And to even consent to the insanity of being in love? Wow!

There's a kind of reciprocal balance to it, I think. My MOON, MERC, URA, and MARS in his 12H, with his VENUS, KARMA, JUPITER, and JUNO in mine. I think it's how his VENUS-KARMA conjoins my NNODE, and the fact that my MOON is undoubtedly illuminating.

Complicated at the start, and took plenty of straightforward communication which wasn't the easiest to manage. But we've always been warm, generous, and exceptionally understanding with each other. There's definitely a deep compassion to the 12H.


I can definitely see your line if thinking here!!
Your right seeing the beauty in the other as you come to know their pain and fears of their 12th house, this isn't the typical reaction when it comes to 12th house overlays in synastry.
Maybe it is the mutual 12th house overlays that give the balance and make both parties feel safe expressing their 12th houses to each other and the ability to see the beauty and depth they have attained due to what they have experienced and hold in their 12th house.

You have....
Your MOON, MERC, URA, and MARS in his 12H
His VENUS, KARMA, JUPITER, and JUNO in your 12th

We have---
My AC, Karma, Pluto, Vertex, Venus in his 12th
His Mars, Sun, Pluto, Merc in my 12th
His Karma/Vertex is in my 8th


That's very interesting to think about, perhaps 12th isn't so scary as long as it's mutually overlapped.

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posted June 12, 2015 07:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Especially with VENUS and MARS involved. There's a natural reciprocity there, if properly 'decoded', so to speak.

He's been the only one to engender and incite feelings of true surrender in me. I feel it was through this genuine selflessness. I was overwhelmed at first. It made me finally confront how much my dysfunctional and imbalanced interactions with men led to my eventually giving in and determining my value in what I was able to offer sexually.

To at last be with a man who wanted nothing in return, and realise it was legitimate ... it made my head spin. He was horrified to discover the 'depth of which I had been taken advantage', and I swear until that moment, it hasn't even really registered for me, either.

I finally begun therapy myself, and my marriage entered a long, hard winter. I was distressed to realise what my mother had warned all along: that my husband was no different, and possibly worse. Man, it was hard. I'd found a renewed sense of personal esteem and understanding. A deep self-awareness that only comes from fighting to be who you are. He was still lost, selfish, and seeing the world through a lens of exchange; 'I'll do for you if you do for me.' He didn't even believe that unconditional love could exist, so I strove to show him it does.

Things are much different now. We've both come a long way. But it truly started with a moment of such compassionate kindness in regards to a subject and area of experience I hadn't even realised had become so corrupted due to mishandling and abuse, that it reconnected me with the deepest part of my self, and I FINALLY learnt to heal. Moreover, I fought for it. And I slowly began to win.

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posted June 12, 2015 07:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Especially with VENUS and MARS involved. There's a natural reciprocity there, if properly 'decoded', so to speak.

He's been the only one to engender and incite feelings of true surrender in me. I feel it was through this genuine selflessness. I was overwhelmed at first. It made me finally confront how much my dysfunctional and imbalanced interactions with men led to my eventually giving in and determining my value in what I was able to offer sexually.

To at last be with a man who wanted nothing in return, and realise it was legitimate ... it made my head spin. He was horrified to discover the 'depth of which I had been taken advantage', and I swear until that moment, it hasn't even really registered for me, either.

I finally begun therapy myself, and my marriage entered a long, hard winter. I was distressed to realise what my mother had warned all along: that my husband was no different, and possibly worse. Man, it was hard. I'd found a renewed sense of personal esteem and understanding. A deep self-awareness that only comes from fighting to be who you are. He was still lost, selfish, and seeing the world through a lens of exchange; 'I'll do for you if you do for me.' He didn't even believe that unconditional love could exist, so I strove to show him it does.

Things are much different now. We've both come a long way. But it truly started with a moment of such compassionate kindness in regards to a subject and area of experience I hadn't even realised had become so corrupted due to mishandling and abuse, that it reconnected me with the deepest part of my self, and I FINALLY learnt to heal. Moreover, I fought for it. And I slowly began to win.


I'm so happy you found him and have found your desire and ability to heal. Your very lucky and obviously wanted it enough to do the work! I know these struggles are hard but in the end they are what makes you special in ways no one else can ever copy, they make you 1 of kind Aubryanne! 😊

Very interesting that we are both having similar experiences with these 12th house overlays. Might open new understandings of 12th synastry.
We should start a thread and see how many ppl have had 12th house balanced overlays that brought out an ease and opened up the 12th house without the typical gut wrenching fears and pain.

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posted June 12, 2015 08:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I'm so happy you found him and have found your desire and ability to heal. Your very lucky and obviously wanted it enough to do the work! I know these struggles are hard but in the end they are what makes you special in ways no one else can ever copy, they make you 1 of kind Aubryanne! 😊

Very interesting that we are both having similar experiences with these 12th house overlays. Might open new understandings of 12th synastry.
We should start a thread and see how many ppl have had 12th house balanced overlays that brought out an ease and opened up the 12th house without the typical gut wrenching fears and pain.


Thanks, Gabby. I appreciate it. It's been rough, to be sure. And so many people don't understand. They misjudge, are prejudicial outright, or don't even bother to get the full story. I've finally got to where I don't even bother trying to explain, or even care. We're happy, growing, learning, and evolving in ways we never could otherwise. It's one, big, complicated, and surprisingly functional 'family'.

I think a new thread on 12H synastry when it's more balanced is a great idea.

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