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Topic: Question about love reunion.
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12muddy
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posted June 14, 2015 08:42 AM
  
I didn't know how to word the question, so I use "love reunion" because of a lack for a better word. I don't know what to call this, so I will just explain the best I can, and I'll ask some questions at the end. I'd like to thank anyone who takes the time to read and/or answer. So. We met as children briefly under circumstances that left impacts on both of our lives. We met again when we were older and got married. During the course of our marriage, there were times when we had to live apart due to external factors. But we didn't have to live apart for long. Now, just as we thought everything has somewhat "settled", we have to live apart again, this time also due to external factors. But this time we don't know when we can get back together. It's strange, we both at some points in our life together, feel that it is as if the universe or whatever above is trying to pull us apart. I'd like to ask what in the natal, synastry, composite, etc... that may lead to this. I have a 12th house stellium, is it my lesson to learn that I can't always go against the flow and bend it to my will? Just the idea of having to live apart stabs at me like a million knives. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted June 14, 2015 11:13 AM
Wow 12, I'm so sorry!!
Such an interesting questioning and such a hard and rare thing for you to deal with. I do think your 12th house stellium is definitely desiring to teach you how to believe in your love even if it's not physically the way you want it to be, it's wanting you to overcome this feeling of isolation and instead feel your love at a higher vibration. Does your 12th house placements aspects Neptune at all?
I might think Saturn would create this to, maybe Saturn in 4th, 5th or 11th of composite? IP: Logged |
comdoc
Knowflake Posts: 136
From: Tucson
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 14, 2015 11:34 AM
Hi 12,Synastry wheels out of sync (ASC's square, semisextile, inconjunct) can create these conditions. Look at progressions to both charts. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted June 14, 2015 11:48 AM
Could you post your charts so we could see where the issues might be? IP: Logged |
meissieri
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From: Neptune with Faith, Bella, Muddy and Doux. Commuting between that and Chiron.
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted June 14, 2015 01:08 PM
Whaaaat??? You have to live apart right now? Oh dear, Muddy, I'm so sorry, I didn't know you had to live apart and had to do so before as well.  That's really awful and I know how much he means to you, and the things you've gone through together. Again, I'm just really sorry - that's got to suck and just hurt a lot. *hug* As for your question, yes, I think it's possibly a 12th house thing. I've experienced breaks from other people too, and not because it was my choice. I guess the 12th house is all about isolation now and then. But outside sources could be Saturn (blockage/hindering you from what you want for now) or even Uranus for those breaks happening so suddenly. I believe tUranus has separated from your Moon, right? Do you remember what things were like when it was exact? Again... ugh, damn, I really hate hearing this, you guys are just lovely together from all the things you've told me. It always made me smile reading it at least. I'm crossing my fingers for you IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted June 15, 2015 02:04 PM
Gabby: You're spot on about saturn placements. In composite chart we have saturn in the 11th house oppose moon.And yes, my 12th house neptune does aspect some of my 12th house planets. His 12th house neptune does also aspect my stellium. Thank you for your reply. I'll add the charts later. Gotta dash now. Comdoc: Hello and thank you for your input. Our ascendant conjunct so the synastry wheels are in sync. I'll add our progressed natal charts later. Rie: hey sweet <3 Yeah a part of me doesn't feel too bad since I know he's with me, just not in person during this time. But the other part of me gets tangled up in a storm of emotions. When t-uranus was on my moon, it wasn't too bad actually. We moved and started a new life in an old place that's all. IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted June 18, 2015 05:30 PM
It's done. We'll both move. I'll do the waiting this time lol. I felt really bad but today I'm feeling a little better.IP: Logged | |
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