posted July 01, 2015 02:43 AM            

Wondering if any of you could help me figure out why I'm so drawn to this particular individual...argh.

I really don't understand why I haven't cut this solely physical relationship off like I have others. We initially met online in November and in person in December after several weeks of random texts which included multiple pictures of himself an his family. To be honest, I found this tendency to overshare both alarming yet intriguing...like honey to a fly. I immediately felt an incredible attraction for him and we ended up having sexual relations that same night (which i initiated). After that I felt that he became distant and rather indifferent. However, he'd pop-up out of the blue with a hello text and more pics with family/friends. In all the months since, we've only met three more times and we have what to this day is by far the best sex of my life. Ironically enough, casual relationship are not at all my style, but I've made allowances in my behavior for him that I've never done for another. The one time I asked him if he only wanted sex he completely avoided answering the question (which was answer enough), eventhough I would have been fine with either response if only to satisfy my curiosity.

I'm completely ignorant on charts and synastry but I've read enough to know that we have compatible sun signs. All the females in my family are scorpios and compared to them I definitely don't fit the "typical" mold.

I don't expect anyone to tell me what he is thinking or feeling, and I've accepted it for what it is. I'm just really bewildered by my reaction to him and his incredibly frustrating behavior. Thanks a million to anyone who's willing to take a peek and provide some interpretations!

Below is my chart with date and time:

Unfortunately, I don't know his time of birth so entered the generic noon time:

posted July 01, 2015 07:36 AM            

Both binding and also when I've experienced squares, even though they can be tough they can also bind and make it hard to walk away.

posted July 01, 2015 02:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Wonder if it's the MARS-NEP in your 8H. I think that depends on what makes it 'the best sex by far'. Wish we could know what the NEP rules in his chart.

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Thanks for the reply, Aubyanne. Without trying to be graphic, the sex is good for me because it's completely uninhibited and intense. He's very generous, attentive, assertive and accepting.

posted July 01, 2015 02:46 PM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
Could be many things.
A couple that I see is possibly your mercury / mars (hard to see which it is) square Saturn.
Also your Pluto square moon.

Both binding and also when I've experienced squares, even though they can be tough they can also bind and make it hard to walk away.

Just my 2 cents worth.

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posted July 01, 2015 02:50 PM            

When Pluto is in 7th, we tend to be attracted/drawn to mysterious, difficult to figure out types that can be downright dodgy and into mind-games.

Its not that we are attracted to them per se. But they kinda salivate the inner detective in you and you see a puzzle that you are just itching to solve etc. Sort of like reading a mystery novel and being enraptured with who dunnit scenario.

You are not really interested in who it is that is the guilty party. But it keeps your mind occupied to do all that poking around for the "truth" etc. He is that to you right now.

The good news is that when transiting Uranus hits your Asc and opposes your Dsc, you may get a new perspective.

If that still don't do it, transiting Pluto will have a go at your Asc/Dsc point and you will want that person out of your system once you really feel who they are.

Right now I think that you still are holding out hope for them to "change" etc.

For the time being, don't beat yourself up about it.Let yourself go through the motions of it but be mindful that it is temporary.

posted July 01, 2015 03:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Your Pluto in 7th. Done !!! Next...

When Pluto is in 7th, we tend to be attracted/drawn to mysterious, difficult to figure out types that can be downright dodgy and into mind-games.

Its not that we are attracted to them per se. But they kinda salivate the inner detective in you and you see a puzzle that you are just itching to solve etc. Sort of like reading a mystery novel and being enraptured with who dunnit scenario.

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Ah, geez. That definitely sounds like me...haha. Now I'm looking forward to shaking it off and leaving it behind for my peace of mind.

Thanks for taking the time to give me some input. This is my first time posting my chart anywhere so no repetition. Therefore, apology not accepted. 😉 😁