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Topic: Why does he like her so much?!
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lightbones Newflake Posts: 21 From: Registered: Dec 2014
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posted July 04, 2015 02:31 AM
One of my good guy friends is completely enamored with this girl and has been for years and I don't understand why because his Venus is completely unaspected! IP: Logged |
sunflower-moon Knowflake Posts: 234 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 04, 2015 02:38 AM
Dang, do they have Eros/Eros, Psyche/Psyche and then Eros/Psyche and Eros/Psyche? Her Gemini MC might give him the "Gemini-ness" he finds attractive. His Venus is in the 6th house and she has Venus in Virgo, so that might resonate with him. Plus his Virgo Aphrodite on her Venus/ASC.
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geminigal2805 Knowflake Posts: 1285 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted July 04, 2015 03:43 AM
I dont know astrology but look at all those personal planets falling into his 7th and 8th house.. sun-sun, moon-moon, mars- venus... I wonder what her jupiter on his Lust could mean???IP: Logged |
Lotis White Moderator Posts: 1943 From: USA Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 04, 2015 05:43 AM
quote: Originally posted by geminigal2805: I dont know astrology but look at all those personal planets falling into his 7th and 8th house.. sun-sun, moon-moon, mars- venus... I wonder what her jupiter on his Lust could mean???
Yep. Her planets are all falling into his 7th and 8th houses (shows she's his type in terms of personality), and his Mars is trine her Venus (so he feels he could easily act out his Male role around her while she would act out the female role. It's a very natural flowing attraction). Sun/Sun and Moon/Moon gives a strong affinity, and the Moon/Moon trine is particularly attracting for him because the Moon is his 7th house ruler. Her Mercury conjunct his Vertex means that her mannerisms and the things she says would really stick in his mind and resonate with his preferences. I think it's very obvious why he likes her astrologically speaking. IP: Logged |
angel4845 Knowflake Posts: 1003 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Oct 2014
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posted July 04, 2015 01:57 PM
valentine destinn and northnode (5th/1st) is a biggie there...plus other aspects that others had mentioned.------------------ Sun Capricorn, Moon Aries, Libra Rising IP: Logged |
Peluches Knowflake Posts: 1178 From: Vαleŋtiŋe ~ Registered: Jul 2014
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posted July 04, 2015 02:49 PM
I think the best way to determine who loves the other more and why is by looking at the composite's synastry with each of the natal.His significant points would be his EROS/PSYCHE conjunction (and midpoint), which happens to fall on his SUN/MOON midpoint too, if I'm not mistaken. Hers would be her SUN/MOON midpoint falling (granted, a little widely) on her VX Axis, and her VENUS/MARS on her ASC/DSC Axis. And, as Angel mentioned, NN-DESTINN on VALENTINE is very sweet and certainly plays a part here. So, check for hard aspects from the composite to all the abovementioned points, as well as the other angles and personal planets/luminaries. IP: Logged |
GemBird82 Knowflake Posts: 686 From: Female bird from France Registered: Feb 2014
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posted July 04, 2015 02:51 PM
Her Venus conj His Aphrodite Aphro is exactly conj Angel / a Karmic clueHis South Node conj Her Moon His NN/Destinn conj Her Valentine His Karma is conj Her Alma/Amor His DSC is conj Her Karma ( if this dude would read this or know about her chart, he'd propably think about marriage lol ) Vesta is highly aspected. His Vesta conj Her Destinn His Amor conj Her Vesta overall, I think it's a Node thing IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Knowflake Posts: 13108 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted July 04, 2015 06:05 PM
There is also a Venus sextile Mars here, so they have a Venus/Mars DW.His Venus is peregrine though, and I'm not sure a widish sextile will do it for him, in the long run. ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... AstroMandala Summer Readings IP: Logged |
lightbones Newflake Posts: 21 From: Registered: Dec 2014
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posted July 04, 2015 07:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by sunflower-moon: Dang, do they have Eros/Eros, Psyche/Psyche and then Eros/Psyche and Eros/Psyche? Her Gemini MC might give him the "Gemini-ness" he finds attractive. His Venus is in the 6th house and she has Venus in Virgo, so that might resonate with him. Plus his Virgo Aphrodite on her Venus/ASC.
Yes, I think their Eros/Psyche aspect each other.
His Eros is Taurus 25 His Psyche is Taurus 26 Her Eros is Scorpio 27 Her Psyche is Cancer 27 So I guess the sextile/opposition is present. IP: Logged |
lightbones Newflake Posts: 21 From: Registered: Dec 2014
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posted July 04, 2015 07:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by Peluches: I think the best way to determine who loves the other more and why is by looking at the composite's synastry with each of the natal.His significant points would be his EROS/PSYCHE conjunction (and midpoint), which happens to fall on his SUN/MOON midpoint too, if I'm not mistaken. Hers would be her SUN/MOON midpoint falling (granted, a little widely) on her VX Axis, and her VENUS/MARS on her ASC/DSC Axis. And, as Angel mentioned, NN-DESTINN on VALENTINE is very sweet and certainly plays a part here. So, check for hard aspects from the composite to all the abovementioned points, as well as the other angles and personal planets/luminaries.
Yeah, his Eros/Psyche midpoint and Sun/Moon are at Taurus 26 and 27 and their composite Moon is Taurus 28 so maybe that could explain a big part of it for him!
Her Sun/Moon midpoint is Cancer 25 and the composite Venus is Cancer 26. I don't see anything with her Venus/Mars midpoint but the composite Venus is widely on the vertex (4 deg) and composite Saturn/NN is on her anti-vertex by about 2 deg. I understand the attraction a little more now, thank you! Do you think it would still be more strongly felt for him? It seems that way to me. They've never "officially" been an item because she's very independent but is also somewhat resistant with him. I'm always concerned about him because I don't want him to get hurt and I don't know if she'll ever come around like he thinks she will lol. IP: Logged |
lightbones Newflake Posts: 21 From: Registered: Dec 2014
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posted July 04, 2015 07:34 PM
I've also realized his draconic Eros/Psyche midpoint and Sun/Moon are at Cancer 18 and 19 which falls on all the tropical Cancer placements they both have. His Sun, Jupiter, Chiron, Amor, etc. and her Sun, SN, Vesta, etc.Could this explain his attraction as well? IP: Logged |
lightbones Newflake Posts: 21 From: Registered: Dec 2014
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posted July 04, 2015 07:36 PM
Thank you all for the responses! I feel like I've learned a lot about what to look for in romantic relationships in general, not just this one! I'm still in the learning process. IP: Logged |
Seimei Knowflake Posts: 451 From: LafaLott,La.U.S.A. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted July 04, 2015 09:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by lightbones: One of my good guy friends is completely enamored with this girl and has been for years and I don't understand why because his Venus is completely unaspected!
They may be a slew of asteroid connection, such as Karma and Alma.Lust and Valentine. BUT FIRST you say unaspected and that form of chart is hard for me to read but what is her Venus/Mars midoint loost sqaure to His venus to me,, THAT IS HAWT. a square there gives much creative and sexual tension I would look at the charts in a 45 or 90 degree biwheel, all midpoints really with sun moon venus mars and node, plus asc and MC IF BIRTH TIMES ARE KNOWN correct. If Venus is at midpoint of the other persons sun/mars even indirectly say 45,90,135 degrees(1.5orb) than not truly unaspected ------------------ Seimei, Jupiter Nadir IP: Logged |
sunflower-moon Knowflake Posts: 234 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 04, 2015 11:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by lightbones: Yes, I think their Eros/Psyche aspect each other.His Eros is Taurus 25 His Psyche is Taurus 26 Her Eros is Scorpio 27 Her Psyche is Cancer 27 So I guess the sextile/opposition is present.
I've never seen a couple have all that between Eros & Psyche! That's gotta be significant. Maybe someone else can shed some light on that. It's also interesting that they have Saturn conjunct NN both ways and her Moon is on his SN while his Sun is on her SN. Definitely seems to be a significant relationship for both of them. May be a bit more intense for him just due to the house overlays alone. That's a lot of 8th house activity.
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Lotis White Moderator Posts: 1943 From: USA Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 05, 2015 01:05 AM
I agree that the DW Eros/Psyche connections are bound to be significant. In my experience and observation Eros/Psyche is like a milder version of a Venus/Mars aspect (which they have anyway), it has a romantic vibe to it. IP: Logged |