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lightbones
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posted July 04, 2015 02:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lightbones     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
One of my good guy friends is completely enamored with this girl and has been for years and I don't understand why because his Venus is completely unaspected!

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posted July 04, 2015 02:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sunflower-moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dang, do they have Eros/Eros, Psyche/Psyche and then Eros/Psyche and Eros/Psyche?


Her Gemini MC might give him the "Gemini-ness" he finds attractive. His Venus is in the 6th house and she has Venus in Virgo, so that might resonate with him. Plus his Virgo Aphrodite on her Venus/ASC.

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geminigal2805
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posted July 04, 2015 03:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for geminigal2805     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I dont know astrology but look at all those personal planets falling into his 7th and 8th house.. sun-sun, moon-moon, mars- venus... I wonder what her jupiter on his Lust could mean???

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Lotis White
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posted July 04, 2015 05:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by geminigal2805:
I dont know astrology but look at all those personal planets falling into his 7th and 8th house.. sun-sun, moon-moon, mars- venus... I wonder what her jupiter on his Lust could mean???

Yep. Her planets are all falling into his 7th and 8th houses (shows she's his type in terms of personality), and his Mars is trine her Venus (so he feels he could easily act out his Male role around her while she would act out the female role. It's a very natural flowing attraction).

Sun/Sun and Moon/Moon gives a strong affinity, and the Moon/Moon trine is particularly attracting for him because the Moon is his 7th house ruler. Her Mercury conjunct his Vertex means that her mannerisms and the things she says would really stick in his mind and resonate with his preferences.

I think it's very obvious why he likes her astrologically speaking.

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angel4845
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posted July 04, 2015 01:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
valentine destinn and northnode (5th/1st) is a biggie there...plus other aspects that others had mentioned.

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posted July 04, 2015 02:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peluches     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think the best way to determine who loves the other more and why is by looking at the composite's synastry with each of the natal.

His significant points would be his EROS/PSYCHE conjunction (and midpoint), which happens to fall on his SUN/MOON midpoint too, if I'm not mistaken. Hers would be her SUN/MOON midpoint falling (granted, a little widely) on her VX Axis, and her VENUS/MARS on her ASC/DSC Axis. And, as Angel mentioned, NN-DESTINN on VALENTINE is very sweet and certainly plays a part here.

So, check for hard aspects from the composite to all the abovementioned points, as well as the other angles and personal planets/luminaries.

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posted July 04, 2015 02:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemBird82     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Her Venus conj His Aphrodite
Aphro is exactly conj Angel / a Karmic clue

His South Node conj Her Moon
His NN/Destinn conj Her Valentine
His Karma is conj Her Alma/Amor
His DSC is conj Her Karma ( if this dude would read this or know about her chart, he'd propably think about marriage lol )

Vesta is highly aspected.
His Vesta conj Her Destinn
His Amor conj Her Vesta

overall, I think it's a Node thing

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posted July 04, 2015 06:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There is also a Venus sextile Mars here, so they have a Venus/Mars DW.

His Venus is peregrine though, and I'm not sure a widish sextile will do it for him, in the long run.

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lightbones
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posted July 04, 2015 07:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lightbones     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sunflower-moon:
Dang, do they have Eros/Eros, Psyche/Psyche and then Eros/Psyche and Eros/Psyche?


Her Gemini MC might give him the "Gemini-ness" he finds attractive. His Venus is in the 6th house and she has Venus in Virgo, so that might resonate with him. Plus his Virgo Aphrodite on her Venus/ASC.



Yes, I think their Eros/Psyche aspect each other.

His Eros is Taurus 25
His Psyche is Taurus 26

Her Eros is Scorpio 27
Her Psyche is Cancer 27

So I guess the sextile/opposition is present.

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posted July 04, 2015 07:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lightbones     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Peluches:
I think the best way to determine who loves the other more and why is by looking at the composite's synastry with each of the natal.

His significant points would be his EROS/PSYCHE conjunction (and midpoint), which happens to fall on his SUN/MOON midpoint too, if I'm not mistaken. Hers would be her SUN/MOON midpoint falling (granted, a little widely) on her VX Axis, and her VENUS/MARS on her ASC/DSC Axis. And, as Angel mentioned, NN-DESTINN on VALENTINE is very sweet and certainly plays a part here.

So, check for hard aspects from the composite to all the abovementioned points, as well as the other angles and personal planets/luminaries.



Yeah, his Eros/Psyche midpoint and Sun/Moon are at Taurus 26 and 27 and their composite Moon is Taurus 28 so maybe that could explain a big part of it for him!

Her Sun/Moon midpoint is Cancer 25 and the composite Venus is Cancer 26. I don't see anything with her Venus/Mars midpoint but the composite Venus is widely on the vertex (4 deg) and composite Saturn/NN is on her anti-vertex by about 2 deg.

I understand the attraction a little more now, thank you! Do you think it would still be more strongly felt for him? It seems that way to me. They've never "officially" been an item because she's very independent but is also somewhat resistant with him. I'm always concerned about him because I don't want him to get hurt and I don't know if she'll ever come around like he thinks she will lol.

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posted July 04, 2015 07:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lightbones     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've also realized his draconic Eros/Psyche midpoint and Sun/Moon are at Cancer 18 and 19 which falls on all the tropical Cancer placements they both have. His Sun, Jupiter, Chiron, Amor, etc. and her Sun, SN, Vesta, etc.

Could this explain his attraction as well?

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posted July 04, 2015 07:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lightbones     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you all for the responses! I feel like I've learned a lot about what to look for in romantic relationships in general, not just this one! I'm still in the learning process.

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Seimei
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posted July 04, 2015 09:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seimei     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lightbones:
One of my good guy friends is completely enamored with this girl and has been for years and I don't understand why because his Venus is completely unaspected!


They may be a slew of asteroid connection, such as Karma and Alma.Lust and Valentine. BUT FIRST you say unaspected and that form of chart is hard for me to read but what is her Venus/Mars midoint loost sqaure to His venus to me,, THAT IS HAWT. a square there gives much creative and sexual tension
I would look at the charts in a 45 or 90 degree biwheel, all midpoints really with sun moon venus mars and node, plus asc and MC
IF BIRTH TIMES ARE KNOWN correct.
If Venus is at midpoint of the other persons sun/mars even indirectly say 45,90,135 degrees(1.5orb) than not truly unaspected

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posted July 04, 2015 11:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sunflower-moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lightbones:

Yes, I think their Eros/Psyche aspect each other.

His Eros is Taurus 25
His Psyche is Taurus 26

Her Eros is Scorpio 27
Her Psyche is Cancer 27

So I guess the sextile/opposition is present.


I've never seen a couple have all that between Eros & Psyche! That's gotta be significant. Maybe someone else can shed some light on that.

It's also interesting that they have Saturn conjunct NN both ways and her Moon is on his SN while his Sun is on her SN. Definitely seems to be a significant relationship for both of them. May be a bit more intense for him just due to the house overlays alone. That's a lot of 8th house activity.

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Lotis White
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posted July 05, 2015 01:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree that the DW Eros/Psyche connections are bound to be significant. In my experience and observation Eros/Psyche is like a milder version of a Venus/Mars aspect (which they have anyway), it has a romantic vibe to it.

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