posted July 04, 2015 01:28 PM            

so to make this short as possible im currently in a long distance relationship for about a year now and I' m desperate to the point where I' m trying to find the answer if this relationship will break the long distance at some point in our lives almost constantly I've been trying to predict OR analyze our natals, synastry, transits, declinations, composites, Davidson everything that you can think of. and sometimes I feel that this long distance relationship will last forever and that its simply not meant to be.

what are some clues that you guys can give me that perm a long distance relationship or a long distance relationship that will bring both parties together physically everyday in there lives? I know that's suuuuuch a hard question to ask and im sure you guys are gonna say

there is no answer for that.

I don't wanna post charts or anything unless you guys are curious? I just want clues and astrology advice and what to accept that maybe could be permanent for my long distance relationship to remain permament and both people will lose interest in trying to make relationship work. If this even makes sense. you guys can be straightforward and honest with me (aubyanne, semei, athene etc.) but to be honest I truly love this girl and all we talk about is one day having a home together and im so worried that one day the interest will blow away all because of distance =(

posted July 04, 2015 03:53 PM            

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Originally posted by angel4845:
okay so, i' m gonna be straight forward/honest here cause I realized I havent reached out to any of you guys here on lindaland about this issue that i have that im wishing everyday for a miracle or change to happen one day in my relationship.

so to make this short as possible im currently in a long distance relationship for about a year now and I' m desperate to the point where I' m trying to find the answer if this relationship will break the long distance at some point in our lives almost constantly I've been trying to predict OR analyze our natals, synastry, transits, declinations, composites, Davidson everything that you can think of. and sometimes I feel that this long distance relationship will last forever and that its simply not meant to be.

what are some clues that you guys can give me that perm a long distance relationship or a long distance relationship that will bring both parties together physically everyday in there lives? I know that's suuuuuch a hard question to ask and im sure you guys are gonna say

there is no answer for that.

I don't wanna post charts or anything unless you guys are curious? I just want clues and astrology advice and what to accept that maybe could be permanent for my long distance relationship to remain permament and both people will lose interest in trying to make relationship work. If this even makes sense. you guys can be straightforward and honest with me (aubyanne, semei, athene etc.) but to be honest I truly love this girl and all we talk about is one day having a home together and im so worried that one day the interest will blow away all because of distance =(

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posted July 04, 2015 05:25 PM            

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Originally posted by comdoc:
Hi Angel, please post your synastry comparison, and identify which ring is you. Also your and her birthplaces and current locations.

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I'm the BLUE and she's RED. i live and born in LA, USA, she is born and lives in Europe. if you want me to post one with love asteroids and asteroids with countries we live in let me know.

posted July 05, 2015 07:38 PM            

LDR requires much higher maintenance ... Is surmise that Saturn gives a couple some purpose to look forward to.

Your synastry seems promising.

posted July 05, 2015 10:11 PM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
Do you have your composite?

LDR requires much higher maintenance ... Is surmise that Saturn gives a couple some purpose to look forward to.

Your synastry seems promising.

If your composite has Jupiter-Pluto hard aspect, I'd say it's difficult to bring two ppl together in my experiences. But I ain't no astrologer.
Were you born around 1992 and she around 1989? I had the Jupiter-Pluto opposition with someone whose Jupiter was in Taurus. We had great synastry and composite other wise and I still cherish the person very much.

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hey theunknown and yes i agree with you about LDR. yes i do have the composite and ugggghhhh someone told me its weak but ill post it up right now for you to look at and others as well. i was born in 1992 and she was born 1988. and awwwww that sounds nice jupiter-pluto opposition have to look that one up. and no we don't have a hard aspect between jupiter and pluto in the composite ill show you.

posted July 06, 2015 02:01 AM            

The only problem I see in your synastry is that her Taurusvenys, ruler of 8th is unaspected. It's also her chart ruler. But Mars of both charts are aspects (ruler of 7th) and you both have the same rising so your life lays out with similar patterns. Although her Mars is aspected by your Lilith, its ruler aspected your Mars and IC. Seems heavy to me but can be very binding as she's relationship oriented (7th sun and libra moon) while you are quite homely. Your 7th moon is less Arian than typical Aries moon. There are some miroring there.

Your Saturn though square her Jupiter. So she might want to expand, travel, learn and you are putting some restrictions but both of you are so relationship oriented I don't think it's a big deal. Still the Taurus Venus being unaspected must not be nice.

posted July 06, 2015 10:09 AM            

Do you see that the distance has potential to change though? Sometimes I feel like our relationship is doomed and that her life is doomed and that she's stuck and I would have to be the one to save her but honestly I can't even support myself yet I have to get my stable career started which im desperately longing for and be able to marry her someday.

posted July 06, 2015 08:18 PM            

Why is she stuck?

For explanation of Kite, look here: http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/aspectpatterns.html

I am not an astrologer and haven't had experiences with unaspected planets. You can do a google search on unaspected Venus in synastry, unaspected Saturn in composite or the general gist of unaspected planets in general to see how other ppl experiences compare.

posted July 06, 2015 08:42 PM            

Most LDR don't make the transition to committed relationships in the same location. However, I'd be happy to show you the synastry of one of my besties and her husband. They've been married since '06, with two kids. She's a lunar Cancerian, so it's all she's ever wanted. She's from my hometown (Dallas, TX) and he's Dutch -- from the Netherlands, born and raised. He emigrated with a fiancé visa in '05. They'd been together since ... '03, I think?

Either case, theirs is a crazy one-in-a-million story. My husband and I were LD from April-Sep 2008. Not very long. He was also monthly in town for a week, for business. It made the difference over all, I think.

posted July 07, 2015 04:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Ooh. I've got to be honest, Angelica. The fact that cURA is 1° conjunct the cIC from the 4H shows tremendous instability regarding the home base.

Most LDR don't make the transition to committed relationships in the same location. However, I'd be happy to show you the synastry of one of my besties and her husband. They've been married since '06, with two kids. She's a lunar Cancerian, so it's all she's ever wanted. She's from my hometown (Dallas, TX) and he's Dutch -- from the Netherlands, born and raised. He emigrated with a fiancé visa in '05. They'd been together since ... '03, I think?

Either case, theirs is a crazy one-in-a-million story. My husband and I were LD from April-Sep 2008. Not very long. He was also monthly in town for a week, for business. It made the difference over all, I think.

Not the case for my friends. They're artists who met online in an art forum and hit it off. They finally met in '04, if I'm not mistaken.

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aubyanne thank you for answering my question. the answer you gave me seems to resonate quite a lot =( im very sad about this composite aspect that i have i realize that this aspect that i have in the composite is unfornately permanent which i must accept =( anyways im going to do more research on this aspect and possibly post a thread and ask other astrologers what i can expect from this aspect other than that i wont expect a permanent home location with her and expect that things will be long distance for quite a long time possibly years or possibly come to and end because of the distance. thanks so you for the answer this rings true unless you have other thoughts in mind that i can possibly do some research as well? thank you! xxxxx =(

also aubyanne can you take a look IF you have time or chance to whenever if her venus being unaspected in synastry is crucial? i mean i read a thread on sun conjunct moon that the sun is more involved than the moon and its both in the 7th house plus in her natal my last name is conjunct her Anti vertex by 1 degree orb and my last name is opposing her aphrodite in her natal within 2 degree orb which i know is a tadddd wide which are both located in the 1st/7th house.

posted July 07, 2015 10:58 PM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
What do you mean you can't feel her Venus lol?

Why is she stuck?

For explanation of Kite, look here: http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/aspectpatterns.html

I am not an astrologer and haven't had experiences with unaspected planets. You can do a google search on unaspected Venus in synastry, unaspected Saturn in composite or the general gist of unaspected planets in general to see how other ppl experiences compare.

I'm on my phone now so can't help you out too much.

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why she is stuck? not only do i feel stuck and so does she financially is because of this if it makes sense.

TAURUS -- People with a Sun or other planet in late degrees of Taurus are sadly often the victims of financial ups and downs. Maybe they even go through a bankruptcy. A friend with Venus in late Taurus has not been able to save much money due to periods of unemployment in between periods of working very hard and at long hours. Galileo had Mars at 28 Taurus sextile Jupiter and Saturn in late Cancer. His enormous scientific contributions netted him a moderate income from publishing his books, yet he died poor, in ailing health, and under house arrest, too.

she is in debt currently makes barely a penny at work doesn't make much money and it is soon hard for her to save money. her venus in taurus late degrees in the 8th. but whats strange is that with all her ex girlfriends she told me she HAD money then and supported them financially....which i don't get. maybe its her mercury and mars in late degrees?? or maybe its the composite that she had with her ex girlfriends that didn't cause her to have so much financial ups and downs?? or maybe its the fact that we are both libra risings and in the composite and both are pluto's are in the 2nd house of scorpio... i have noooooooo idea the unknown I'm so confused she had money back then? but why the **** all of a sudden she is in debt right when she met me???? i don't get it =(