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Topic: We look compatible on paper. Why doesn't this work?
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krysalismoon Newflake Posts: 2 From: New York Registered: Jul 2015
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posted July 06, 2015 12:35 AM
I've studied the HECK out of our synastry and personal charts and can't for the life of me figure out what's at the root of our emotional intimacy disconnect or what I can do about it. I *LOVE* this man. We've put in 1.5 years together, and we seem so very compatible in practically EVERY area except emotional intimacy. (Extremely compatible in other areas.) He doesn't open his heart to me. I fear he will let my heart down and then I shut down. We've broken up and gotten back together twice. We're now broken up (3rd time.) I constantly felt pushed away, he felt like I wasn't patient enough with him. I can see an incredible life together for us, and all signs in the synastry seem to show it, but is there something I'm overlooking that makes this completely unworkable? Here is the synastry chart: http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang=e&gif=astro_61gw_01_07_k_m_j_s.68045.27461.gif&res=100 Here is the composite chart: http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang=e&gif=astro_621gw_01_07_k_m_j_s.68409.50767.gif&res=100
Here's our info: Boy's Birth Info: DATE: 07/18/1980 TIME: 12:09 35.2742° N, 120.6631° W (San Luis Obispo, CA, USA) Girls Birth Info: DATE: 04/13/1979 TIME: 23:19 30.4500° N, 91.1400° W (Baton Rouge, LA, USA) IP: Logged |
Lotis White Moderator Posts: 1946 From: USA Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 06, 2015 05:25 AM
you'll need to actually post the charts or the planetary positions (including the Asc and house cusps) if you want to get a reading. If you go to astro.com you can calculate the charts there and either post them, or copy and paste the planetary data from one of their sample readings (they put the planetary data at the bottom of all sample readings).IP: Logged |
krysalismoon Newflake Posts: 2 From: New York Registered: Jul 2015
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posted July 06, 2015 02:58 PM
Hi Lotis, I am trying to post the image with the UBB code: [img] [/img] and this URL in between: http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang=e&gif=astro_61gw_01_07_k_m_j_s.68045.27461.gif&res=100 I keep seeing the broken image letting me know it didn't work. Any ideas I can try? IP: Logged |
Lotis White Moderator Posts: 1946 From: USA Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 08, 2015 04:09 AM
Hi there,Do you have a Photobucket account? They are free and it's what I've used in the past to post images without any problems. Save your images on your account and then post them here. I never had a case where my images expired. Also you can click and drag astro.com chart images to your documents folder, save them, and then put them on your Photobucket account. IP: Logged |
midnightvenus Knowflake Posts: 557 From: outerspace Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 08, 2015 06:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lotis White: Hi there,Do you have a Photobucket account? They are free and it's what I've used in the past to post images without any problems. Save your images on your account and then post them here. I never had a case where my images expired. Also you can click and drag astro.com chart images to your documents folder, save them, and then put them on your Photobucket account.
Imgur.com is actually better to post images. It's fast, easy and you don't need an account.
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Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 3459 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 08, 2015 09:44 AM
Compatible in what way? Lots of trines?IP: Logged |
DopGang Knowflake Posts: 187 From: Registered: Jun 2015
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posted July 08, 2015 11:39 AM
To me it's like sports. You can have all of the stats but it never promises that the favorite will win. You can have all of the indicators in astrology but it's never promised.
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