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krysalismoon
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From: New York
Registered: Jul 2015

posted July 06, 2015 12:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for krysalismoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've studied the HECK out of our synastry and personal charts and can't for the life of me figure out what's at the root of our emotional intimacy disconnect or what I can do about it.

I *LOVE* this man. We've put in 1.5 years together, and we seem so very compatible in practically EVERY area except emotional intimacy. (Extremely compatible in other areas.)

He doesn't open his heart to me. I fear he will let my heart down and then I shut down. We've broken up and gotten back together twice. We're now broken up (3rd time.) I constantly felt pushed away, he felt like I wasn't patient enough with him.

I can see an incredible life together for us, and all signs in the synastry seem to show it, but is there something I'm overlooking that makes this completely unworkable?

Here is the synastry chart: http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang=e&gif=astro_61gw_01_07_k_m_j_s.68045.27461.gif&res=100

Here is the composite chart: http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang=e&gif=astro_621gw_01_07_k_m_j_s.68409.50767.gif&res=100


Here's our info:

Boy's Birth Info:
DATE: 07/18/1980
TIME: 12:09
35.2742° N, 120.6631° W
(San Luis Obispo, CA, USA)

Girls Birth Info:
DATE: 04/13/1979
TIME: 23:19
30.4500° N, 91.1400° W
(Baton Rouge, LA, USA)

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Lotis White
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From: USA
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posted July 06, 2015 05:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
you'll need to actually post the charts or the planetary positions (including the Asc and house cusps) if you want to get a reading. If you go to astro.com you can calculate the charts there and either post them, or copy and paste the planetary data from one of their sample readings (they put the planetary data at the bottom of all sample readings).

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krysalismoon
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From: New York
Registered: Jul 2015

posted July 06, 2015 02:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for krysalismoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Lotis, I am trying to post the image with the UBB code: [img] [/img] and this URL in between: http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang=e&gif=astro_61gw_01_07_k_m_j_s.68045.27461.gif&res=100

I keep seeing the broken image letting me know it didn't work. Any ideas I can try?

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Lotis White
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posted July 08, 2015 04:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi there,

Do you have a Photobucket account?
They are free and it's what I've used in the past to post images without any problems. Save your images on your account and then post them here. I never had a case where my images expired. Also you can click and drag astro.com chart images to your documents folder, save them, and then put them on your Photobucket account.

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midnightvenus
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posted July 08, 2015 06:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for midnightvenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lotis White:
Hi there,

Do you have a Photobucket account?
They are free and it's what I've used in the past to post images without any problems. Save your images on your account and then post them here. I never had a case where my images expired. Also you can click and drag astro.com chart images to your documents folder, save them, and then put them on your Photobucket account.


Imgur.com is actually better to post images. It's fast, easy and you don't need an account.

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Aquacheeka
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From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012

posted July 08, 2015 09:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquacheeka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Compatible in what way? Lots of trines?

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DopGang
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posted July 08, 2015 11:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
To me it's like sports.
You can have all of the stats but it never promises that the favorite will win.

You can have all of the indicators in astrology but it's never promised.

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