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Topic: Falling for my friend... Ugh
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polkadotstars
Knowflake Posts: 283
From: Washington, DC
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted July 10, 2015 10:23 AM
  
I think I am starting to fall for one of my good friends. We met last year and recently spent a week together at a conference where we were pretty much inseparable. We have talked almost every day for the last year. We do not live near each other so nothing would ever come from it. So I have not told him how I felt nor do I ever plan on it. As far as he knows, my view on it is only platonic. Even though I know he feels the same way by the way he would look at me all week. This is the worst feeling because I just cannot admit to him how much I'm falling for him. Can someone please provide insight on our synastry? The birth times are accurate. Thank you :-)  IP: Logged |
mir
Knowflake Posts: 1961
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Registered: May 2009
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posted July 10, 2015 05:07 PM
Aaww that is soo nice and sweet .. the composite Moon is exactly opp. the Red Venus! (matter of minutes?)Let me guess.. red is the guy? I've seen this pretty often now where the Guy's Venus is conjunct/opp. the Compo Moon. I love it! (have it myself also hehe) And in my experience this is definitely felt by both. So NOT only the one whose natal planet is involved. Well / it's not ME being Venus / voila!  IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted July 10, 2015 07:41 PM
Interesting observation, Mir. Mr Sag`s Venus is also conjunct the composite Moon, though it is on the wide side (3°02) IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted July 10, 2015 07:45 PM
BTW ruler of his DESC on your IC - it`s amazing how reliably that one keeps coming up! (could also be a combination of the rulers of DESC and IC).
But this is happening too often in those sweet soulful intimate relationships to be a coincidence.
(does not need to be sexual, though I most often have found it to be present in romantic relationships).
Well nothing is ever a guarantee, but it surely has my attention. IP: Logged |
polkadotstars
Knowflake Posts: 283
From: Washington, DC
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted July 10, 2015 08:22 PM
Thank you! Yes, I am on the inside of the chart (blue) he is on the outside (red). What is the importance of his Descendant on my IC?I also noticed that we have a Vertex-Juno conjunction DW. Does anyone know about this? IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
Moderator Posts: 3948
From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 11, 2015 02:50 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Ceridwen:
BTW ruler of his DESC on your IC - it`s amazing how reliably that one keeps coming up! (could also be a combination of the rulers of DESC and IC).
But this is happening too often in those sweet soulful intimate relationships to be a coincidence.
(does not need to be sexual, though I most often have found it to be present in romantic relationships).
Well nothing is ever a guarantee, but it surely has my attention.
I've actually noticed an ASC-IC or IC/IC resonance more so than DSC-IC. My mother's ASC (21° LEO) is near my father's 4R (15° LEO); my father's IC is my mother's ASC: 21° LEO. My husband's IC is conjunct my MOON (2°). His MOON is (1°) conjunct my IC, too. My boyfriend's 4R is conjunct my MOON (3°). His ASC is conjunct my IC (3°). Which means my 7R and his 4R are both ruled by NEPTUNE. Have you noticed that link appearing frequently? IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted July 11, 2015 03:03 PM
Yes, the IC-IC-link came up frequently as well. possibly ASC-IC, too, have not noticed it that reliably though. Let me just be clear what i mean when saying IC-DESC ° IC conjunct DESC
° ruler of IC conjunct DESC
° ruler of DESC conjunct IC
° ruler of IC conjunct ruler of DESC (other aspects might play a role, too) But of course the ASC-IC-connection is a major one as well, actually it should be theoretically stronger for the ASC is a Yang-angle, the IC is more Yin-oriented.
Funny enough Mr Sag`s IC-ruler is conjunct my ASC (and NN). Bu then again his IC-ruler is also conjunct my IC-ruler, his DESC-ruler is conjunct my IC-ruler and conjunct my ASC as wel (happens since Mercury rules IC and DESC for him, and my IC-ruler sits on my ASC).
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Ceridwen
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posted July 11, 2015 03:06 PM
quote:
Originally posted by polkadotstars:
Thank you! Yes, I am on the inside of the chart (blue) he is on the outside (red). What is the importance of his Descendant on my IC?I also noticed that we have a Vertex-Juno conjunction DW. Does anyone know about this?
His DESC-ruler on your IC carries his relationship-ruler right to the deepest point of your chart. It`s like what he wants in a partnership or how he is in a partnership vibrates with the deepest core of you. It`s a sweet combination, but of course it is just one. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
Moderator Posts: 3948
From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 11, 2015 05:00 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Ceridwen:
° IC conjunct DESC
° ruler of IC conjunct DESC
° ruler of DESC conjunct IC
° ruler of IC conjunct ruler of DESC
(Mine to His)
09° SAG | 06° GEM
26° VIR | 06° GEM
20° SAG | 29° PIS
26° VIR | 21° CAN (His to Mine)
29° PIS | 11° PIS
21° SCO | 11° PIS
21° CAN | 09° SAG
21° SCO | 20° SAG Well, it would appear his IC sign is the same as my DSC, though far from conjunct. Let's see what's up with the hubs ... 09° SAG | 28° AQU
26° VIR | 28° AQU
20° SAG | 24° SCO
26° VIR | 19° LIB 24° SCO | 11° PIS
02° LIB | 11° PIS
19° LIB | 09° SAG
02° LIB | 20° SAG I'm thinking in our case, it's the 0° conjunction of my SUN and his 7R. He was not keen on ever marrying again, and despite all of the conflicts we've had thrown before us, we retain solidarity and overcome. There's something powerful, I think, with the dual MOON-IC link, too. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
Moderator Posts: 3948
From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 11, 2015 05:06 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Ceridwen:
It`s like what he wants in a partnership or how he is in a partnership vibrates with the deepest core of you.
Huh. I never quite thought about it, but with his IC being in the same sign as my DSC, the above does resonate. We do seem to desire most deeply what the other either portrays (ASC) or exhibits in partnership (DSC). I can see how the sort of relationship I most desire echoes with the deepest part of his being. IP: Logged |
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