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ikja
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posted July 13, 2015 06:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I always thought my natal chart was a nightmare with its oppositions and squares, but my synastry and composite with this guy is HORRENDOUS :-/

Why I keep attracting rubbish, I don't know

Synastry

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Soltze
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posted July 13, 2015 06:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Soltze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars/Saturn and all that squaring. From personal experience I wan't minimal Neptune going on and if so in soft aspect...
I'm sorry for you but I'm sure you will find someone right for you.
For me it's not the hard aspects on the charts per se...it's just that you don't have good soft romantic-like aspects to balance it.

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ikja
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posted July 13, 2015 06:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I definitely FEEL like there are not soft aspects to balance it out. I don't think I have soft aspects with anyone.

My Mars is always so active to the point of insanity!!!

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ikja
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posted September 05, 2015 05:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Once again, this guy is back in my life after a brief pause. Our relationship is like a merrygoround lol

What's the attraction?

Mars conjunct Moon?

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Rosalind
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posted September 05, 2015 05:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus over 1st house shows love/attraction at first sight. Pluto exactly conjunct DSC is karmic but not bad. Transformative and intense yes, bad? Not. Venus opposite Pluto AND including the axis 1/7 shows that you and your guy were lovers in a past life but your love ended tragically due external forces.
I'm not a big fan of Moon conjunct Mars but could be nice for you two to have this aspect. What I don't like is that Moon and Mars are over 12th house. Emotionally and sexually its gonna be kinda hard to open up. But COULD WORK.

Composite:

Good:

NN in 1st house. Karmically good. Shows growth for both of you through the relationship.
Moon in 4th house. The feeling like coming home is a mutual thing. Venus and Jupiter in 5th house and in Cancer is good for romance/dating/ relationship.

Not so good:

That Sun in 6th house is gonna make you both feel very responsible for each other and if you are not careful you can make the relationship feel burdensome.

Venus opposite Saturn. This can make delay you coming together into the relationship. The degree is exact so be careful of external forces preventing you in being together. Again, could work.


In conclusion: the charts are not horrible. I've seen worse.

PS: That NN in 1st house can overcome the Venus-Saturn opposition and force you to enter in the relationship in order to learn your karmic lessons.

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ikja
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posted September 06, 2015 06:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Rosalind,

Thank you for your response. I didn't see it until now!

I wasn't sure if his birth time was correct, but now, through your analysis... I think it is.

I fancied this guy from the moment I saw him. Definitely.i also feel that we have things to explore together, but the fact that I can't read him spooks me out and makes me a little nervous and even vulnerable!

I met this guy a year ago at work, and at the time, I was in the right frame of mind to handle a relationship with him (Venus opposite Saturn?). So things went sour, very very sour and we had a number of little arguments (passionate ones) but ones that meant we stopped talking and even looking at eachother at work. For me, I realised that I had my own issues to work through and that the situation with my ex had really shattered my faith and desire to move on. After having a while to think things through, I realised this and tried to open up to this guy.

He initially shut down and I can understand/see how my planets in his 12th House are manifesting. He definitely thinks I ask him too many questions and he has a tendency to get irritated when I push for more intimacy between us. The last time he blew up at me about it, we stopped talking and I told him that I was sick of it.

Fast forward 2 months and now he is back after breaking the ice. He has changed a little bit, texting me back more often, but I'm trying not to push it. I feel that could be my Mars and his Sun, as well as the 12th house placements at odds with eachother.

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