posted July 13, 2015 09:12 PM            

It doesn't matter what personal planet, I'd just like to hear if anybody else has experienced this.

There is this guy and we have this weird kind of situation going on. Anyway. His Pluto opposes my sun at 0 degrees 22 minutes..and I tell ya this guy REALLY intimidates me. Like I'm afraid to even start a conversation with him thru chat even if he messaged me first. Also, my perception of him is that he's mean. But I think his chart would suggest otherwise.

Either I just have excellent perception of his negative traits or it's his Pluto making me think he's this scary mean person. Like I imagine if I talk to him he'd ignore me or say something mean even though he never has. When we are together I feel like there is this sense of urgency with him and I feel rushed and he's aggressive (in my opinion), I know he likes me (well at least physically) But I just can't help there is something about him that I don't like, but at the same time I find myself wanting to talk to him and get to know him.

posted July 14, 2015 11:55 AM            

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Originally posted by llewsacm:
Hi! Is that the only hard aspect with Pluto involved? What about mars?

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posted July 14, 2015 03:27 PM            

For example, there's somebody whose Pluto makes a pretty much exact square with my Venus, and it makes me feel unusually confident and powerful! I know it must sound strange, but that person makes me think, "I could have power over this person if I wanted to. I could bring him to his knees." I know it sounds bizarre, even narcissistic, and it's probably just an illusion. But it's the FEELING I get from that person. And it's puzzling because I've read everywhere that usually the Pluto person has the upper hand with these aspects, so to speak. That hasn't been my experience at all. All the people I can think of whose Pluto makes significant aspects with my personal planets make ME feel more powerful.

To use the person above as an example, I almost feel like my own Venus-Pluto square takes the energy of his Pluto and turns it against him...! (My Venus is also conjunct his Eros and square his Moon, so that probably amplifies the sensation of power?)

posted July 14, 2015 03:43 PM            

I don't know the birthdates of most of these people, but one of them I know and now that I looked at it... yikes. Her Pluto squares my Sun/Mercury (2 degrees) and opposes my Moon (3 degrees). She was a friend, not even a close friend - I liked her at first, we had a lot in common intellectually, but something about me quickly triggered a scary obsession in her. She wanted to control and "possess" me, there's no other way to put it. And she's a heterosexual female (as far as I know), as am I. I had to cut her out of my life when she started to become threatening, and even after that, she persisted in contacting me for several years and declaring how much she loved me. That was very... odd.

posted July 14, 2015 04:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Vajra:
Sometimes I feel that people are reading way too much into Pluto when it comes to synastry. Pluto placements are generational - for someone like me, who was born with Pluto tightly square Sun and opp. Moon, this means that basically everyone I grew up and went to school with has these same hard Pluto aspects to both my luminaries. Needless to say I got along differently with different people, but no one ever gave me a per se threatening feeling just because of those Pluto aspects. In fact I can't recall ever meeting a person I had the sort of chemistry with that you describe. My guess is other synastry factors are perhaps of greater importance for that sort of thing….just my 2 cents, of course.

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You know, this is why I've wondered why Pluto threads always tend to say "the planet person feels it more" or some variation of that.

For the planet person, there are lots of people - an entire generation - who have their Pluto square her Venus or whatever. For the Pluto person, there are considerably fewer people whose Venus/Mars/Sun/whatever are exactly in the right spot - right?

posted July 14, 2015 06:37 PM            

To the person who mentioned why people put so much emphasis on Pluto..the only reason I used this as an example is because that is the strongest aspect we have in syanstry so I figured it might be the reason for the feeling of intimidation on my part.

I also know a lot of what I'm feeling could very much be in my head too. May be worth noting too that we are NOT from the same Pluto generation as mine is in Libra and his is Scorpio, we are like 7 yrs apart. I get what you're saying about a whole generation of people whose Pluto opposes my Sun, maybe it's because I don't normally deal with men who are younger than me that I don't experience this aspect very often.

Here is the synastry chart for those that are curious:

posted July 15, 2015 10:31 AM            

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Originally posted by Vajra:
^That's quite possible, maybe it's then really a good idea to first look at what Pluto does in one person's natal chart before assessing the synastry effects of Pluto with another person...

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posted July 15, 2015 04:07 PM            

@ llewsacm: I have Mars conjunct SN in syanstry with someone and it's a very sexual connection, I wonder if it's the same with the NN. I was like obssesed and really into him for about a week and then it just faded and while I'm not sure how to feel, I'm attracted but then not. I just feel very drawn to him. It's frustrating that's for sure.

posted July 15, 2015 11:07 PM            

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Originally posted by GypseeWind:
I've read mars conj Saturn is a karmic and sexual aspect. Like you want to continue having great sex with this person bc you did before.

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posted July 16, 2015 07:14 PM            

Again he was being pushy and wanting to see me, but told him I was busy. He kept pushing and then I once and for all told him what my schedule was and that when he figures things out we can go from there. Well he sent me a message, but I was busy and couldn't respond..next thing I know he deleted me off his fb!! My last message to him was why did he delete me and was it because I'm putting something first before him, then I blocked him. I mean he's not my boyfriend or anything and I knew what he wanted anyway so it wasn't a priority to me. Soo looks like we're done here lol.

To be honest I feel kinda ****** and I feel like this isn't the end either but he's blocked and doesn't have my new number so I don't know how he'll reach me and don't think I care too much.