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Topic: How to survive terrible Synastry aspects?
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UnderworldGlory
Knowflake Posts: 120
From: USA
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted July 30, 2015 12:45 AM
  
So I met this /friend/ a little while ago and decided to cast a synastry chart for us to try and see what our planetary energy exchange is. He doesn't know anything about Astrology other than what he is willing to learn about.Anyway, so I looked at it and it's really really bad. There are some good aspects but the bad aspects are just, horrific and frightening. So, the good aspects: Sun (him) Conjunct Moon (me)
Sun (him) Trine Moon (me)
Sun (him) Trine Mercury (me)
Mercury (him) Conjunct Moon (me)
Mercury (him) Trine Mercury (me)
Mercury (him) Trine Venus (me)
Moon (him) Trine ASC (me)
Moon (him) Trine Jupiter (me)
Moon (him) Trine Pluto (me)
Moon (him) Trine Uranus (me)
Saturn (him) Conjunction Pluto (me)
Saturn (him) sextile Uranus (me)
Saturn (him) Trine Saturn (me)
Saturn (him) Sextile Mars (me)
Saturn (him) Conjunct Jupiter (me)
Saturn (him) Trine Sun (me)
Saturn (him) Sextile Neptune (me) Ok so now the HORRIBLE deal breaker aspects.
Sun (him) SQUARE Jupiter (me)
Sun (him) SQUARE Pluto (me)
Moon (him) SQUARE Mercury (me)
Moon (him) CONJUNCT Saturn (me)
Moon (him) OPPOSITE Mars (me)
Mercury (him) SQUARE Jupiter (me)
Venus (him) SQUARE Venus (me)
Venus (him) SQUARE Sun (me)
Mars (him) SQUARE Venus (me) Okay so.... How bad are the bad aspects and how good are the good aspects? LOL
Do you think the bad aspects are surmountable?
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LexusVirgo
Knowflake Posts: 649
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Registered: Feb 2015
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posted July 30, 2015 12:51 AM
Mars square Venus sexual attraction although arguments Venus square sun Venus still likes sun altho they may seem not their type? Moon conjunction stature past life aspect
Sun square Jupiter - fun not really a bad adpect.. You guys just might indulge
Your subastry is workable their is no squares to Saturn and not any adverse Neptune aspects. IP: Logged |
LexusVirgo
Knowflake Posts: 649
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Registered: Feb 2015
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posted July 30, 2015 12:54 AM
Moon oppose Mars is sexual chemistry lots and lots..IP: Logged |
UnderworldGlory
Knowflake Posts: 120
From: USA
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted July 30, 2015 12:54 AM
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Originally posted by LexusVirgo:
Mars square Venus sexual attraction although arguments Venus square sun Venus still likes sun altho they may seem not their type? Moon conjunction stature past life aspect
Sun square Jupiter - fun not really a bad adpect.. You guys just might indulge
Your subastry is workable their is no squares to Saturn and not any adverse Neptune aspects.
His Saturn is Square my Moon
His Saturn is so much stronger than mine. It conjuncts my Pluto IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 55424
From: Saturn next to Charmaine
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 30, 2015 01:08 AM
Wrong Forum. Moving to IA.IP: Logged |
UnderworldGlory
Knowflake Posts: 120
From: USA
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted July 30, 2015 01:18 AM
Does anyone have any opinions? :3IP: Logged |
LexusVirgo
Knowflake Posts: 649
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Registered: Feb 2015
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posted July 30, 2015 01:46 AM
Saturn square moon is not as bad as venus square saturn, saturn moon can be worked out and I see it in a lot of marriagesSaturn conjunct pluto is generational.. It's how you will react with your cohort. IP: Logged |
UnderworldGlory
Knowflake Posts: 120
From: USA
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted July 30, 2015 02:56 AM
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Originally posted by LexusVirgo:
Saturn square moon is not as bad as venus square saturn, saturn moon can be worked out and I see it in a lot of marriagesSaturn conjunct pluto is generational.. It's how you will react with your cohort.
Omg. lol. You've had a Saturn square Venus in your Synastry?
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Gemini Blues
Knowflake Posts: 708
From: The future... or the past. I get them confused...
Registered: May 2014
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posted July 30, 2015 03:11 AM
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Originally posted by UnderworldGlory:Just commenting on a couple things that stood out to me...
Sun (him) Conjunct Moon (me)
Sun (him) Trine Moon (me)
Since this is only possible if Earth had a second Moon, I'm guessing that it's conjunct one direction, and trine the other. If the orbs are tight on this, this is like winning the lotto, or at least hitting 5 of the 6 numbers for a nice payout. Now, there's a lot more to two people than Sun/Moon of course, but these aspects put you off to a great start.
Moon (him) SQUARE Mercury (me)
Moon (him) CONJUNCT Saturn (me)
Moon (him) OPPOSITE Mars (me)
If I read this right, you have a T-square with Saturn and Mars in opposition, focusing on Mercury. Then his Moon conjuncts the Saturn arm. A T-square is a little bit more than the sum of the squares. It's almost its own aspects. His Moon is going to "feel" the Saturn side and maybe pull you that way a little. But from your perspective, you should be familiar with the square and opposition energy already. Speculating here, when you get angry, his Moon might pull you towards the "grow up and move on" side of things? Also, his Moon has trines in your chart as well. It's not as though this is the only way his Moon interacts with you. As a final thought... Astrology is a map. Even a pretty good one. But even the best maps are not as good as actually being on the road and seeing it with your own eyes.
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yungang_grotto
Knowflake Posts: 352
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Registered: Mar 2014
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posted July 30, 2015 10:12 AM
Think of the potential for the positive and silly in the very heaviest stuff you can imagine. At the least you'll lessen the load on your own heart. Moon conjunct Saturn bull-cow sitting on the moon, licking the moon, trying to tend a garden on the moon. Watch the invisible growth. IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
Knowflake Posts: 6275
From: Love Street, she lingers long on Love Street..
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 30, 2015 10:19 AM
I was married to someone for 24 yrs whose
SAT sq my VEN
SAT sq my SUN
PLUTO sq my SUN
And SAT opp my MARS
Oh and PLUTO sq my VENUSIt can work out IP: Logged |
DaniPepper87
Moderator Posts: 4932
From: Curitiba, Brasil
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted July 30, 2015 10:27 AM
Saturn square Mercury I put as the worst I lived. Both wanted to teach something the another didn't want or didn't agree. One wanted to boss the another... so sad...IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 2632
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted July 30, 2015 02:29 PM
Those "bad" aspects are not bad at all:P Where do you get this silly idea???Your synastry aspect seems fine, and you actually need a few squares to creative a dynamic relationships... many people think that their synastry has to only contain of conjunctions, sextiles or trines, but that is a big mistake! IP: Logged |
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