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alyssa27
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posted August 01, 2015 04:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for alyssa27     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
this is an ex synastry ..i bumbed into him three times in the last six months and we talked plus i asked his TOB,i was not into astrology back then..he was my first love and i wonder why it didn't work out..the synastry seems good to me sure it has some difficult aspects but overall it looks good..as well as the composite..tell me your opinions

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astra7
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posted August 01, 2015 04:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astra7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah, your Venus on his Dsc, Venus conj. Pluto, Sun conj. Moon etc.... hot aspects there. But you also had Venus opp. Neptune and Moon sq Uranus and one of the Saturn is unaspected...arrgggh....

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alyssa27
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posted August 01, 2015 05:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for alyssa27     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
and saturn is my dsc ruler ..i ended the relationship but not cause i wasn't in love with him but cause if i didn't i would lose my mind ..we were on and off for some time and the i practically disappeared from his life..it was the only way..it couldn't last forever i couldn't trust him,i didn't feel safe with him something that is very important for me ..me venus-moon-uranus/neptune t-square..he sun/mars square uranus/neptune plus saturn..we were the same i think that was the problem

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alyssa27
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posted August 03, 2015 06:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for alyssa27     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
bump anyone else??

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LeeLoo2014
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posted August 03, 2015 07:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Good charts, but it looks like Saturn sealed the deal.

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alyssa27
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posted August 03, 2015 07:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for alyssa27     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i think that too..makes u realize how important is the dsc ruler and that is important both saturns to be aspected in synastry..and that the synastry seems to be more important than composites ...strange thing the time i met him transit NN was conjuncting almost exact my unaspected in synastry saturn!!

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posted August 03, 2015 11:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
oooh he was bad! Bad!
His angular and strong Neptune lured you in by opposing your Venus and squaring your Moon ( the love planets), seduced you and entangled you in the dream, then his angular Saturn kept you on a distance by doing the same number - opposing your Venus and squaring your Moon. That is torturous!

His ultra seductive Venus-Pluto natal conjunction in Scorpio was opposing your Mars for additional tease and rubbing the salt in the wound.
He was a beautiful creature, that one! It's good that you found the strength to cut yourself from him, he would have owned you.

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alyssa27
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posted August 03, 2015 01:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for alyssa27     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
oh yes he is attractive not the perfect looking but he had something..lots of girls dying for him i was surely a challenge to him..he wasn't sure about me if i was really in love with him..he didn't trust me i didn't trust him either..i think it was more his saturn i have moon-venus-neptune in my natal i was already into my fairytale world haha i didn't need someone to built one for me ..in the end he was also having violent tendencies towards me so i run and i didn't looked back since then(must be my unaspected saturn )..i never regret that

i am just curious about our synastry/composite i am like wtf why it was so bad??because it seemed good
*sun-moon conjunct both ways the second by sign
*mercuries in compatible signs
*venuses in compatible signs
*marses both in signs ruled by venus
*asc/desc in opposite signs
*all the other planets in same signs
*me venus-moon-neptune/uranus..he mars/sun-uranus/neptune
*me sun mars square and venus moon square...he sun mars conjunction
*me venus pluto trine and mars pluto opposition he venus pluto conjunction
*me jupiter asc he jupiter desc
*me saturn desc wide though(6 degrees) he saturn asc

like we were each other's type but it wasn't good..ahh and yes he was not a very nice person in general..

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posted August 03, 2015 04:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peluches     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Absolutely incredible connections here ; strong, impactful relationship for both of you (lots of VX, NODE, and luminary contacts), although it seems he was slightly more attracted to you than you were to him (unaspected VE/MA midpoint). His VE/MA, in comparison, squares your SUN, semi-squares (45°) the cMOON and your VX. (It's on his MC, too, which might explain his popularity.)

Nevertheless, I think it unfortunately didn't work out because one of the major synastric aspects was tightly squaring the composite Nodal Axis, indicating some kind of struggle (together, as a couple) with the planets involved.

MARS : 10° TAU
PLUTO/5R : 15° SCO
VENUS/5R : 15° SCO

cNODES : 16° AQU/LEO

This theory of the 'composite skipped step' is relatively new, but it has proven true in a few other failed relationships. Also, the cSNODE being conjunct his VX, he might have been quite affected by how things turned out.

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alyssa27
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posted August 03, 2015 06:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for alyssa27     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thank u peluches for taking the time to look at our charts..i think it was also that both of us were immature,me 19 my first relationship he 20..it was very intense personally i couldn't handle it..now that i met him he seemed more mature and he seemed disappointed when i told him that i'm in love with someone else...maybe in another lifetime

this theory seems to work in our case

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angel4845
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posted August 03, 2015 07:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Peluches:

This theory of the 'composite skipped step' is relatively new, but it has proven true in a few other failed relationships. Also, the cSNODE being conjunct his VX, he might have been quite affected by how things turned out.


very interesting peluches i will definetely take note on that when viewing synastry and compatiblity here between charts =)

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