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Topic: Synastry - newbie here. help please:)
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sunshinedragon Newflake Posts: 23 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted August 02, 2015 04:56 PM
Hello everyone. I'm new here. I've always been really interested in astrology but never really explored the depths of it. I've been in a really weird/passionate/odd relationship for 7 years that I can't quite figure out but I think its something spiritual (twin flame, karmic, etc.) We have an incredibly magnetically sexual relationship yet we do argue but I can't help but hope it's serious one day.something is special with it and I only recently began researching synastry. I'm a newbie but I see some good synastry but it's so much i'm not too sure where to start or look. However, I'm not sure the time he was born. It made my put in a time for the synastry chart so the ASC is not accurate and whatever else is with the time of birth but im trying to work with what i have. Thanks to anyone taking the time to read this. I really appreciate it Here's my info:
Here's his info: Here's the Synastry chart:
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LeeLoo2014 Knowflake Posts: 14482 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 02, 2015 05:29 PM
Welcome It is a bit problematic, your synastry, because of the unaspected planets and there is a certain lack of personal romantic connections. There is initial fascination and physical attraction and some good friendship aspects, but there is a lot of "disconnection' too, so to speak ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... AstroMandala Summer Readings IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 12027 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 02, 2015 05:51 PM
Hm, yes, karmic...His Eros-Psyche-moon on your Karma. Saturn conjunct NN both ways...his NN-destinn on your IC-Valentine-Saturn. Wow. His Saturn on your Cap NN looks more welcoming than your Saturn on his Aqua NN. He may feel that you restrict him too much, even if you aren't trying to. Venus-Venus exact. He has a sun-Saturn opposition to match your (very wide) moon-Saturn conjunction. Loads of Saturn here. His Mercury square Pluto forms a fixed grand cross with your sun square moon. Even though your Mercury is trine his by sign, I would imagine that you have some antagonistic conversations, just from that configuration (and your Saturn widely opposing his Mercury, too.) Is that accurate? What's the composite chart like?
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sunshinedragon Newflake Posts: 23 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted August 02, 2015 06:05 PM
Thank you both for the replies.. Yes very physical/insane chemistry between us. But YES we argue like crazy.. I seem to drive him mad. He gets irritated with anything I bring up about our relationship. We have been through the best and worst of times but no matter what happens we end up back together somehow. And that's so accurate what you say, Faith, about he feeling I restrict him too much. I don't feel that I do so at all but he seems to think I do! Would you say this is more of a twin flame aspect or Karmic meaning temporarily? Also, not sure too much about Lilith & Juno, but his is in Scorpio and my AC is in Scorpio. Does this mean anything ? I feel like there are so many factors in play here but I don't know how to read the darn thing! haha Is a composite chart comparing 2 people? How do i find it? IP: Logged |
sunshinedragon Newflake Posts: 23 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted August 03, 2015 12:57 AM
Also My Ceres conjunct his Vertex ?I figured out how to do the composite chart (i think?) but I don't think it's any good since I can't be sure of his birth time. Only mine. Incase it is.. here it is if it's any more info!
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 12027 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 03, 2015 01:44 AM
Thanks! I'm up late with insomnia and was curious about this chart...glad you posted.It's a good chart...nice to see a stellium there in Gemini. I really like that Gemini Mercury-Psyche conjunction at the apex of a yod with Neptune and Pluto. I missed that you said you argue a lot, but yes it does make sense with the grand cross I mentioned above. Now my question is...with Gemini Mercury-Psyche being so highlighted...do you two also make perfect sense together? I feel like you could put your heads together and solve all kinds of random problems. Especially with your Venus conjunction, you can collaborate and make interesting things happen. Jupiter on the south node, Saturn on the north node. Hmmm My guess is, you want to just be silly and affectionate but then there is always something serious and maybe dark that demands your attention. Composite Jupiter-SN is near his sun so this might make him enthusiastic about the relationship, but time after time you will crash into that Saturn-NN wall. I've read that Saturn-NN in composite shows a relationship that never fully gets off the ground. My friend has this with her boyfriend and they had a great first year but many unexpected troubles the second year, and no more cheerful optimism like before. But they are still in love...it's odd. This relationship looks powerful, complicated, sometimes transcendant, difficult, and as I said, karmic. I don't know anything about twin flames so hopefully someone else can answer you about that. One more thing, do check the draconic charts and see how they aspect these other charts. The draconic charts can show soulmate connections, fated stuff. Best wishes ~
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sunshinedragon Newflake Posts: 23 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted August 03, 2015 04:01 PM
Absolutely right. We always do want to have a good time and melt in each other but some sort of argument always arises.. it's almost inevitable no matter how hard we try to get along. Strange actually.About the relationship taking a long time to get off the ground, that too is true. We love each other but I've always felt we're staying in one place. Never moving. It's frustrating really.. but I do feel that's more of his wantings and not mine.. Thank you for your input. you're spot on and yes it's a very complicated, powerful relationship but we do make sense togther. We always have and I think we always will. I can only hope we can work things out in the future. Im posting the Draconic charts as well if anyone wants to take a look... thanks <3 Do i compare them to each other or to our other charts? hmmm here's mine
here's his
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 12027 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 04, 2015 10:05 AM
I'm sorry, I didn't see you updated this thread, but then I saw your Draconic thread...Jawdrop... About his draco moon conjunct your draco sun, conjunct his sun! Conjunct my draco moon (@28 Cancer)! And I see you have moon square moon in draconic. His draco sun-Jupiter trine your sun. It's a little tooooo tightly wound to get a clear perspective on it. Maybe you two actually feel that way. Bound beyond what's even "normal." Definitely an unusual couple. Be back later to check again for finer details. IP: Logged |
sunshinedragon Newflake Posts: 23 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted August 04, 2015 05:06 PM
Ok, thanks faith yes, the synastry is crazy! i'm not too sure what to make out of it. i also noticed that my natal venus conjunct his draco mars and my draco mars conjunct his natal venus im sure there are other things too! unusual couple is right haha.. ! I feel that we are too much alike at times and we kind of get lost in each other and almost lose our own identity.. i'm not sure, but it's a scary relationship in that it's so passionate beyond comprehension
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 12027 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 05, 2015 06:31 PM
AMAZING, the Venus-Mars contacts.It's so hard for me to find these things, just scrolling up and down the page. When I've tried to do readings for friends, I had to make long lists and meticulously compare...NOW I'm remembering. So I'm sorry that nothing is popping out at me...I would be more driven to find things if you didn't already have so, SO much going on. I hope you'll present this "case" on one of the Twin Flame threads. I'd love to see what others have to say. There is just so much intertwining in these charts! IP: Logged |
sunshinedragon Newflake Posts: 23 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted August 05, 2015 07:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: AMAZING, the Venus-Mars contacts.It's so hard for me to find these things, just scrolling up and down the page. When I've tried to do readings for friends, I had to make long lists and meticulously compare...NOW I'm remembering. So I'm sorry that nothing is popping out at me...I would be more driven to find things if you didn't already have so, SO much going on. I hope you'll present this "case" on one of the Twin Flame threads. I'd love to see what others have to say. There is just so much intertwining in these charts!
thanks! yeah, if anyone else with some Twin flame experience in these charts wants to help me evaluate this jump on it
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