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Topic: Synastry Red Flags
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Leoeve Knowflake Posts: 758 From: Registered: Feb 2014
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posted August 09, 2015 03:09 PM
Hello!I recently met this amazing guy and this is our synastry. Now, I've been doing some research and it turns out that Mercury square Mercury and Moon square Mars are major red flags. Ist there anything else pointing to a big "NO", get out of this relationship when you can? There are some nice aspects too, I think, but would they be enough? I don't know why, or how the Merc sq Merc would be felt, so far the comunication has been great. Could you help me out? We met during Venus Retrograde also... lol IP: Logged |
athenaia Knowflake Posts: 113 From: USA Registered: May 2015
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posted August 09, 2015 03:31 PM
Wow there is some major karma going on in this synastry, whether for the good or bad, who knows, but I would honestly be leery. The fact that you guys met during Venus retro is iffy enough, but looking at both of your planets in Leo, this was something that needed to happen for the both of you. Let me guess - the chemistry was instantaneous, intense, you both have an immediate, bizarre familiarity with each other not unlike deja vu and everything seems too good to be true? Are you the Scorpio Pluto? Aspects that pop out to me immediately: Sags Saturn conjunct Leos South Node Leos Saturn conjunct Sags Sun Leos Juno conjunct Sags South Node Sags Chiron opposite Leos Pluto Jupiter/Venus retro is transiting your 7th house transiting his 12th house The ruler of his Sun is unaspected in synastry His DSC ruler is square your Leo stellium I have a strong feeling this will be a partnership you'll never forget
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CosmiqPhuz Knowflake Posts: 270 From: Lititz, PA, USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted August 09, 2015 08:05 PM
I absolutely hate mercury square mercury. The conversation never goes beyond the basic surface of "what do you mean?". My parents have mercury square mercury and I wanna pull my hair out listening to them trying to converse. Mars square moon can be rough, especially for the moon person. You just never truly feel comfortable with eachother, IMO. IP: Logged |
sis Knowflake Posts: 433 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 09, 2015 08:56 PM
never but never base your decision about a relationship based on astrology...I have life long friends - very loyal, devoted to each other but when you look at our synastries or composites you will run for the hills... first of all, moon square mars is a very passionate aspect. very strong attraction. Whoever is the Mars must learn to be gentle with the moon person. Also, check to see if there is any easy flow moon aspects.. Mercury square mercury can cause communication problems.But look at the signs and the houses they occupy. See if there ia conpensation.. sn contacts are karmic and very strong ties. Check to see if there is any activity with the north nodes.. If there is they say you are coming from a shared past and will be travelling to the same destination which is good. Also, without taking your natal charts into consideration, believe me synastry & composites don't mean a thing.. IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 7107 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted August 09, 2015 09:02 PM
I've had Merc square Merc, argh!! The confusion and misunderstandings were tough. At first it felt awesome be sues their way of thinking was so new and unique, it felt like I had a lot to learn from him. But as time went on it went from that to feeling like his way of thinking was so different we could never bridge the gap between us. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 4382 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 09, 2015 09:15 PM
SNODE conjunct JUNO. But I can't tell the orb.Does seem karmic. You're likely resolving a past relationship. IP: Logged |
CosmiqPhuz Knowflake Posts: 270 From: Lititz, PA, USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted August 09, 2015 09:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by sis: never but never base your decision about a relationship based on astrology...I have life long friends - very loyal, devoted to each other but when you look at our synastries or composites you will run for the hills... first of all, moon square mars is a very passionate aspect. very strong attraction. Whoever is the Mars must learn to be gentle with the moon person. Also, check to see if there is any easy flow moon aspects.. Mercury square mercury can cause communication problems.But look at the signs and the houses they occupy. See if there ia conpensation.. sn contacts are karmic and very strong ties. Check to see if there is any activity with the north nodes.. If there is they say you are coming from a shared past and will be travelling to the same destination which is good. Also, without taking your natal charts into consideration, believe me synastry & composites don't mean a thing..
Relationships with friends are a very different dynamic than a romantic partner or even family members. I know you may have friends who you consider "family", but still, even then, there's something unspoken when you're physically intimate with someone or you have the same genes, IMO. I have friends whom I have terrible synastry with as well. But I'm not dating them. I'm not saying my relationship with my friends are distant, but there's less expectations/responsibility/loyalty with them. In relative terms, anyway. IP: Logged | |