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Topic: Cant stand the 'i love her / i hate her' feeling!!
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CuriousPisces
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posted May 27, 2015 11:01 AM
  
anyone had this experience before?I love you but I hate you, I hate you but then again, I still love you. ARGH! cant stand the sight of her but cant stop thinking about her.. so frustrating!  IP: Logged |
Geminiyoungster
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posted May 27, 2015 11:48 AM
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Originally posted by CuriousPisces:
anyone had this experience before?I love you but I hate you, I hate you but then again, I still love you. ARGH! cant stand the sight of her but cant stop thinking about her.. so frustrating!
Are you a pisces with any libra placements?
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astra7
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posted May 27, 2015 12:10 PM
Venus Sq Pluto OR Venus opp. PlutoIP: Logged |
birdsong
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posted May 27, 2015 12:17 PM
Cyberhug and I hope you're ok. IP: Logged |
CuriousPisces
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posted May 27, 2015 12:20 PM
I'm a pisces, but no Libra placement natally (does House VII in Libra counts? Other than this, no Libra) No Venus hard aspect to Pluto as well natally.But Venus Conjunct Pluto in composite.. IP: Logged |
CuriousPisces
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posted May 27, 2015 12:21 PM
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Originally posted by birdsong:
Cyberhug and I hope you're ok.
Thank you!  IP: Logged |
Orange
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posted May 27, 2015 01:00 PM
well, post the synastry thenIP: Logged |
Liliya
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posted May 27, 2015 07:11 PM
I would give this feeling to Uranus aspects. Venus/Uranus in Natal or Synastry. I have a Venus/Uranus square, and I had this love/hate feeling in most of my relationships. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted May 27, 2015 08:33 PM
Sounds like Pluto! What Pluto aspects do you have in synastry?I've developed a strong distaste for love/hate-type situations. It's weird.. I used to be really fascinated with this kind of relationship.
Now I'm bored, over it... and would take the nearest *Exit*, if I got the feeling things were heading in this direction. IP: Logged |
bansheequeen
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From: Beachville, USA
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posted May 27, 2015 09:04 PM
Pretty much what's been said. Pluto and Uranus synastry. Uranus aspects in the natal.IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted May 27, 2015 10:42 PM
yes indeed uranus comes to bite you on the butt again.
experiencing this now but it's not hate....it's more i want you, i shouldnt want you so i don't, but i want you, its too much so i won't....anyway...  composite venus opposite uranusIP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted May 27, 2015 10:49 PM
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CuriousPisces
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posted May 28, 2015 08:04 AM
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Originally posted by Liliya:
I would give this feeling to Uranus aspects. Venus/Uranus in Natal or Synastry. I have a Venus/Uranus square, and I had this love/hate feeling in most of my relationships.
Surprisingly, I don't have Venus/Uranus in Natal and Synastry IP: Logged |
CuriousPisces
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posted May 28, 2015 08:06 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Sounds like Pluto! What Pluto aspects do you have in synastry?I've developed a strong distaste for love/hate-type situations. It's weird.. I used to be really fascinated with this kind of relationship.
Now I'm bored, over it... and would take the nearest *Exit*, if I got the feeling things were heading in this direction.
Our plutos in Synastry: Me to hers:
Pluto Sextile The Sun 3°59'
Pluto Sextile Neptune 2°08'
Pluto Conjunction Pluto 5°28'
Pluto Square The North Node 2°52'
Pluto Square The South Node 2°52' Hers to Mine:
Pluto Trine The Sun 0°22'
Pluto Opposition Mars 6°04'
Pluto Conjunction Pluto 5°28' IP: Logged |
CuriousPisces
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posted May 28, 2015 08:09 AM
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
Pretty much what's been said. Pluto and Uranus synastry. Uranus aspects in the natal.
No Pluto/Uranus in Synastry.
My natal with Uranus:
Jupiter Square Uranus 4.21 -22
Saturn Conjunction Uranus 5.47 118
Hers:
Uranus Conjunction Neptune 6.16 75 IP: Logged |
Liliya
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posted May 28, 2015 08:23 AM
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Originally posted by CuriousPisces:
No Pluto/Uranus in Synastry.
I could be wrong, but I don't think she meant Uranus/Pluto aspects between each other, but other Pluto and Uranus aspects to other planets. IP: Logged |
CuriousPisces
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posted May 29, 2015 11:14 AM
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Originally posted by Liliya:
I could be wrong, but I don't think she meant Uranus/Pluto aspects between each other, but other Pluto and Uranus aspects to other planets.
Oh!! So sorry, I'm still so not familiar with astrology. Don't know which aspect does what as well IP: Logged |
Stellar.pleasure
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From: Somewhere only we know
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posted August 10, 2015 08:55 PM
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wheresthemoon
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posted August 10, 2015 09:02 PM
Yeah Venus/Pluto natally would do that. I have the opposition and I don't think I've ever had a relationship where I didn't vacillate between love and hatred. I guess stnastry would be the same. Like they said, Uranus also, since Uranus shakes things up and brings dramatic and sudden changes. IP: Logged |
wheresthemoon
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posted August 10, 2015 09:03 PM
Maybe Neptune? It can make you idealize someone and then when the veil is lifted the cold hard truth is ugly. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted August 10, 2015 09:50 PM
Moving to Interpersonal Astrology. IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
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From: Love Street, she lingers long on Love Street..
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posted August 10, 2015 11:18 PM
*nodding*Very familiar with this feeling!
Plutonians suffer this way all the time, I'm used to it now. It was really bad with my ex of 7 years
We had pluto sq venus and mars sq sun/venus. I wanted to kill him 50% of the time. IP: Logged |
Peluches
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posted August 11, 2015 03:48 AM
Maybe that's more of an Fire thing, but with a Scorpio influence nevertheless.Plutonians don't necessarily feel hatred that easily ; they only feel their emotions intensely, whatever the emotion. Perhaps the hatred expressed in a “love/hate relationship” comes from impulsivity only -- what makes you angry, to which extent you're capable of keeping calm, empathising with your significant other and understanding their reactions you'd usually hate. As an Aquarius MOON, I've learnt that a good way to get rid of those intense mixed feelings is to analyse emotions ; ask yourself what makes you hate her, notice what it is that infuriates you, and understand her perspective. That might even make you understand a little more about yourself ! Wishing you the best. IP: Logged |
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