posted August 22, 2015 12:59 AM
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Originally posted by Fionapineapple:
My guy's draconic BML/asteroid Lilith is conjunct my natal Moon, does this have the same affect as the tropical synastry?
Draco-to-tropical is a cross-system conjunction; they're what we're working toward developing by following our soul's path. The more we move 'towards the NNODE', the more our Draconic chart activates.
The tropical chart is what we have here and now in the present. It's what we've been developing since we incarnated here.
I'll tell you a bit about a transdimensional conjunction I have with my twin, as it can illustrate the example better. His SUN is (1º30) conjunct my dMOON.
Whereas the sidereal is about that which we've taken from another lifeline (which feels 'past' and 'karmic' to us) the Draconic is how we're developing -- specifically, the more we adhere to our soul's path and work towards our missions. Therefore, the dMOON is our emotional self in its most evolved and balanced state. When active, it's akin to taking the most positive features and traits of the sign in which it's placed.
But what if we don't have anything to directly help it along? The tropical natal anchors the sidereal and Draconic -- temporally speaking. It allows us to bring the 'past' back into the present (to resolve karmic issues) and bring the 'future' down into the present -- so long as we're developing along our soul's path. So, if there's nothing in our tropical natal to anchor it, the energy can otherwise lie quite dormant.
Synastry, then, (along with composites and, to a degree, transits) become the only way to access this energy for development. We may consciously choose to develop these traits, in which case, we would be able to more readily embody them in the presence of one whose tropical point is in close conjunction to our Draconic point.
How might this work in your case? Well, it's a bit tricky. First off, keep orbs really tight with BML (and PRIAPUS). Secondly, men ... have a harder time anyway accessing Lilith energy. They tend to disown it, thus projecting it upon women in their life who might 'fit the role'. Perhaps, just a sexy woman with a confident, somewhat darker sexuality, or, only women who seem 'easy' or less scrupulous: willing to engage in affairs with men to lead them away from their commitments for the thrill of it. The classic 'homewrecker' vibe. Lilith is a great many things in terms of stereotypical perception.
A man's BML (and LILITH) is simply a longer conversation.
Your MOON, on the other hand, illuminates the role, which would make it easy for him to project these traits onto you. Of course, you might 'show' him these elements and aspects of his own psyche, if he's aware of them, too.
Much is dependent on a few things, when it comes to Lilith energy. Then you add in the transdimensional nature of the aspect, and it becomes quite complex.