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Topic: Is this friendship worth holding on to?
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LaceyLeigh
Knowflake Posts: 273
From: New Jersey
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 05:35 PM
  
In all honesty, I know the answer is no, but I just can't seem to let go.I have this one friend who never seems to stick around for long. I just can't seem to keep her attention. I feel like I'm a "stand in" friend. She only comes around when no one else is there to hangout with. Is there something in our synastry that shows why she doesn't find me appealing friend-wise? I'm on the inside - she's on the outside. From my understanding, her birth time is correct, and so is mine. Thanks.   IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
Moderator Posts: 4656
From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 06:23 PM
SATURN's rough in a friendship. Either you're viewed as the child and they're playing out parental psychodramas, or you're unconsciously engaging in the same, being more critical than you'd realise, as they just don't seem 'as together' as you are -- whether or not that's true. It all stems from experiences growing up, and is simply our perception of those years.With MARS, it's quite the wet blanket, too. I'm surprised you didn't feel as if she was 'cramping your style'. Though it could be as simple as her SATURN on your MARS showing the intermittent nature of your friendship. The stop/go. Otherwise, there's not a whole lot going on there. Sometimes, that in and of itself is an issue. IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh
Knowflake Posts: 273
From: New Jersey
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 06:29 PM
I do think I was a little bit too critical. I scoffed at the way she washed her dishes by hand - only to turn around and have to clean my own dishes that way after our dish washer broke. Lol, karma. :P IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 3244
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Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 26, 2015 02:58 AM
Cancerians are moody and come and go, like the tide. Or like cats-when it suits them. (I should say "us" because I can be the same..)IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh
Knowflake Posts: 273
From: New Jersey
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted August 26, 2015 05:34 AM
Thanks, I'm pretty aware of how moody Cancers can be - mom and step-dad are Cancers, I just wasn't sure if that was a common denominator in her consistent disappearing act.IP: Logged |
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