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Topic: Too much or worth it?
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Soltze Knowflake Posts: 538 From: Registered: Mar 2015
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posted September 02, 2015 06:51 PM
1st: Sorry I know it's the second opinion I ask in like a week.I'm a bit divided in love and trying to make the best choice before I go too deep as I don't want to hurt anyone. Specially because she has an unaspected Venus, and I'm afraid she would suffer a lot if things don't go well :-( I find her really interesting and we can talk for hours like we've know each other forever. But the sinastry scares me because I see lasting potential (Sun trine Saturn DW) My questions are: -Is Moon-Psyche DW just too much too handle? - Plus our moons square each other. -Do you see more GOOD then BAD? Or not? -I keep meeting people who affect my nodes lately(her chiron/saturn opp) She's on the outside. I don't have her time of birth and don't know her ASC sign. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 4766 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 02, 2015 06:58 PM
I'm not a fan of MOON-DEJA for casual relationships; these dig out a lot of the dross in our backgrounds. With a MOON-PSYCHE on the other side, this speaks to me of deep, profound relating, with isn't necessarily comfortable and sorts out a lot of trauma. Tread cautiously. IP: Logged |
Soltze Knowflake Posts: 538 From: Registered: Mar 2015
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posted September 02, 2015 07:03 PM
Thanks, I have the weird feeling that it can be intense and dramatic if it progresses...and honestly casual is not what I have in mind with herI already have Moon conj Dejanira natally but her Dejanira might add some extra pressure. I don't wan't to fall in love too quickly. But she mesmerizes me, she personifies my type completelly. I feel pulled by both arms here :-D My moon keeps saying "too good to be true" IP: Logged |
mereiposa Knowflake Posts: 106 From: Registered: Apr 2015
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posted September 02, 2015 08:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aubyanne: I'm not a fan of MOON-DEJA for casual relationships; these dig out a lot of the dross in our backgrounds. With a MOON-PSYCHE on the other side, this speaks to me of deep, profound relating, with isn't necessarily comfortable and sorts out a lot of trauma. Tread cautiously.
Aubyanne, can you elaborate on Moon-Deianira conjunction please?
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Soltze Knowflake Posts: 538 From: Registered: Mar 2015
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posted September 03, 2015 04:39 AM
Anyone can also give me a clue on the Mars square Venus and Mars opp Venus, between charts?It's kind of a DW but I'm not sure if the different aspect cause an on-off situation or arguments... Plus that Mars square Saturn...hum. We both have strong Saturns so I hope that's not too bad. IP: Logged |
Soltze Knowflake Posts: 538 From: Registered: Mar 2015
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posted September 04, 2015 01:40 PM
Bump :-)))IP: Logged |
mereiposa Knowflake Posts: 106 From: Registered: Apr 2015
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posted September 04, 2015 06:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by Soltze: Anyone can also give me a clue on the Mars square Venus and Mars opp Venus, between charts?It's kind of a DW but I'm not sure if the different aspect cause an on-off situation or arguments... Plus that Mars square Saturn...hum. We both have strong Saturns so I hope that's not too bad.
I have had Mars square Saturn, twice. The first time in my marriage. And it did play out just like the interpretation said. I was Saturn, he was Mars. I felt like I literally squashed his drive, his actions. I felt very critical of his approach to things, and I was very verbal about that. He felt oppressed by me, and is still resentful. Though, in our case I am the disciplined one. As a result of my oppression, he completed two upper level degrees. One MBA, one JD. Things he admittedly would not have done on his own. In fact, post split, he has lost his drive and is not able to keep steady work. I was his discipline, and it was good for him in some ways, but he resented it all the same.
It also had an effect on our sexual life. It sucked. I have the same aspect with someone else, and so far it seems to be playing out the opposite. Even though I am Saturn and he is Mars, his discipline and workaholic nature is squashing my drive. I want to see him, hang out, or do something, and he says no. It has not affected our sex life, and I attribute this to different houses affected. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 64346 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 04, 2015 11:04 PM
You have some interesting things! Moon trine Sun is a best friends aspect. Her Deja conj your Moon will be intense. It could end up being combustible, too. Nessus/Deja relationships seem to start really intensely and then end in flames. However, this is usually when Nessus is involved and I don't see it, not that it is not there, maybe. I just don't see it.The Moon square moon would make for a lack of simpatico that *I* could not take. Moons are the heart of a relationship, to me. I think that if you ever got really involved, you may find it does not feel good in time. That is an opinion on a very short look xxx ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Soltze Knowflake Posts: 538 From: Registered: Mar 2015
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posted September 05, 2015 04:58 PM
Thank you all. I feel that my main concerns are clarified. Let's see where it goes. We keep talking to each other a lot.She has been a good influence on me so far. I feel the urge to be responsible and act all nice and polite :-D Hum...if things get more serious I don't know what the moon will do... But I would be happy just to be friends...yet still secretly disappointed because I feel something more. I'm trying to keep it "cold" so as not to get hurt IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 4766 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 05, 2015 05:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by mereiposa: Aubyanne, can you elaborate on Moon-Deianira conjunction please?
Sorry for the delay. Yes, let me gather together some of that. I'll be back with it within a few days' time. IP: Logged |