posted September 04, 2015 03:15 PM            

I was wondering if the Mars conjunct IC had something to do with it? or maybe other aspect in our synastry?

I'm still learning a lot about astrology so it could be i'm completely wrong.

posted September 04, 2015 05:13 PM            

Let's start with the basics. 'Friend, lover, don't really know what we are' is pretty vague, meaning you yourself have some insecurities and uncertainties about the relationship.

So, to begin, is it a relationship? If so, that's going to alter the way in which we focus on the synastry. Or are the two of you friends who have had some romantic encounters without any commitments discussed?

MARS conjunct MARS/KARMA with NNODE is a very, very potent configuration. Yes, there's something unresolved that's now being brought back into the present to be reconsidered and sorted through. Troubling bit is that I've noticed (as it's elsewhere been theorised) that we do find 'more' of whatever the NNODE touches in synastry; and 'more' MARS is not necessarily something that's desired, unless there's a very good reason for it. Sometimes, there's just an abundance of Martian drive that's not being channelled into anything.

posted September 07, 2015 07:00 AM            

Yeah it has been a strange involvement..
And i'm still in the middle of figuring out what I want.

We started out romantically but I was still processing an abusive relationship and I feared I would inflict certain behavior on others (never happend)

But then I met him we became close pretty quickly enjoyed our time together for some reason I pushed him away and we have been going on and off for a couple of months..

posted September 07, 2015 07:01 AM            

it made perfect sense