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posted September 05, 2015 08:00 AM            

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Hello my darlings. I'm interested to hear your opinions on the following synastry. I met this guy quite a few years ago and we saw each other a few times out, and kissed a few times only for me to find out he had a long term girlfriend who he stayed with and we stopped all communication.
Recently I had a vivid dream about him (this is about 5 years later) so decided to add him on Facebook. He immediately followed my instagram and I found out they had broken up 3 months ago after 6-7 years together. There were other weird coincidences too, I moved interstate and when we recently started talking he informed me his parents moved to two suburbs away from me and that he was considering moving here. I have to return to my home town (where he currently lives) on his birthday weekend too next month, totally by coincidence as I have a family obligation.
Now the thing that is playing on my mind is that I went to a good psychic quite a few months ago who described my 'future husband' in detail. She said I knew him, and gave a comprehensive physical and characteristic description that he, of all the men I know matches the closest, even down to hair and eye colour and age. I'm kind of annoyed she was so specific because I feel I am trying to find someone who matches a description rather than just going with the flow.

I have no interest in having a relationship currently, and when he suggested seeing each other I stated absolutely not due to past circumstances. I am just curious now, is there anything in this synastry that could indicate an actual serious relationship? The thing that stands out to me is the chiron near each others vertexes? Is this a marriage aspect? And obviously venues conjunct saturn. I do remember how much I liked this guy back then, and I have to admit when we reconnected I felt butterflies but I could never imagine giving him the opportunity to get close to me. The way I see it he had his chance and he made his choice.

Please please please tell me what you see here! Love xx

Ps - we have composite sun conjunct venus less than 1 degree among other things, would the composite chart even matter at this point?

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posted September 05, 2015 12:52 PM            

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It's likely the VENUS conjunct SATURN that's giving your connexion longevity. Though, SUN conjunct MOON is a natural compatibility in many cases.

I'd just see where things go. And, no -- DON'T try and seek someone that matches some description. That's just a headache.

This is why I don't go to psychics. I figure if the information needs to be known, it'll come to me. However, the fact that you did does suggest that that information was meant for you, and to receive it when you had.

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posted September 05, 2015 07:31 PM            

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I know! I'm so annoyed that she did that. Now I can't seem to get this description out of my head no matter how badly I want to.

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posted September 06, 2015 04:53 AM            

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Would anyone else mind taking a look at our synastry and sharing your thoughts? I really liked this guy in the past, and am contemplating whether getting to know him again at all is a good idea or if I should just let it go...

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posted November 06, 2015 06:02 AM            

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Sooooo when I was in town we ended up seeing each other and after 5 years the connection is still what it is. Very intense, immediate comfortability with each other. Literally felt like we had been together for a very long time. He's not even someone who I would normally be attracted to AT ALL. Now that I'm back in a different city I've cut contact because I can't deal with the FEELINGS, can't stand feeling vulnerable and don't see us forming a relationship any time soon.
Please tell me what you make of this composite and synastry and anything that stands out to you!

here is our composite chart

and here is our synastry

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posted November 06, 2015 09:05 AM            

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Not sure why my reply has not appeared but when I was visiting town we caught up and after 5 years the intensity of our connection has not wavered. Now that I'm in another city I have blocked all communication because I don't like feeling vulnerable and the feelings our connection brings about.
Here is our synastry

and composite

thoughts?

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posted November 06, 2015 12:35 PM            

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So, you're feeling jerked around?

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