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IntuitiveJ
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posted September 08, 2015 12:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IntuitiveJ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know what the challenges between the two of us are
Astrologically speaking, does it look like it has the potential to lead to marriage? Would be second time for both.

I am blue, he is red in the synastry. Any and all input welcome, thank you! Happy to exchange with an oracle reading if you would like one

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posted September 08, 2015 12:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
can i just say it looks good? i like it a lot for long-term. the synastry and composite are really nice :-) i think the blue person is really invested in this person as a partner.

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posted September 08, 2015 12:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IntuitiveJ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by starmoon:
can i just say it looks good? i like it a lot for long-term. the synastry and composite are really nice :-) i think the blue person is really invested in this person as a partner.

Thank for your input! I am the blue
Would love any and all opinions (neg or positive) on the charts...I do feel some challenges to the relationship yet there is an absolute and deep love here (and I am a TERRIBLE chart reader) so it's hard for me to look at this objectively! What does one look for in the charts when examining second marriage potential?

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posted September 08, 2015 01:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Soltze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
2nd marriages have to do with the 9th house, despite some people don't buy into this theory.
Also having mutable signs on the dsc cusp.

I noticed the Saturn-SN conjunction. It's surely binding.

Plus your Juno conjunct his Venus and hits his 9th....

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posted September 08, 2015 02:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wuh-oh, IJ. Just as I was about to read this, 'she' surfaced. So, forgive this bout of -- erm -- higher-mindus interruptus -- for lack of better?

Hello, Intuitive One! You've been a guide and sage to many for a very long time, and have planned to reunite with one of your oldest teachers since before. There is no pain between you; this has been resolved in other lifelines. Be mindful that there may be a child which seeks to 'come with you' again, either through adoption, close relationship, or birth.

Yes. You will marry, so long as all Saturn lessons are learnt, and nothing is outstanding between you. Do not forget you are an educator and guide. You cannot languish in the 'norm' or hide your light. Follow the straight and narrow path, and the road will crumble at your feet. Do you understand me? Teach them, Intuitive One! Do not harbour and horde your gifts!

Though you are slightly older and more advanced, he owes you much. A fulfilling, rewarding sexual Union is your ultimate prize, so relinquish any fears or guilt now. They will NOT help your path.

This is a cherished and dear Soulmate reunion of companions across many, many lifelines in various patterns of existence, mostly of the Earth realm. Just be careful that you don't feel 'stuck' and as if you must be 'too' Earthly. You're here to enjoy a bit more time on this gem of the galaxy before heading off into bold, new, vistas.

Isn't it exciting, my dear sister? I find it thrilling, indeed. You've come so far and so quickly, too. Neptune, with her ancient ways and evolved understanding of love, will unfold over the course of your love story, acting as a guide, muse, and -- at times -- strict teacher. Do not fall into old addictive patterns and modes. There is no time for self-loathing or dark imaginings, treasured child of the stars. None.

There is a place deep within your soul that is a shared place, visited in dreams and the astral. It's where you've taught the children, and learnt some of your harder lessons. But it is a beautiful place, which can either be brought to Earth, or simply 'known' to you both throughout your lifeline here. It is that Venusian place, where you feel 'lighter' and lovely. Do you know it, Intuitive One? Oh, you will!

I am so very proud of your progress and positively beaming with light today. This will be a blessed wedding, indeed. October won't hold you back, and there is a most beautiful one in the offing, with the union of Moon, Sun, and the karmic path. Follow it, pledge your love, and fulfill your destiny.

He is your Mars. You are your Venus. Your shared heartsong will join the timeless music of the spheres.

Congratulations!

... And we're back. Okay. Well. I always feel a little off about those things, but ... I get this sense of 'delete that and you will regret it.'

So. IJ. Guess that answers your question? Maybe?

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posted September 08, 2015 08:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IntuitiveJ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh myyyyyy.....
That took my breath away Auby!!!!
Incredible!

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posted September 08, 2015 10:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bluejay     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I definitely see some very powerful connections here. Did you feel as if you had known one another upon meeting? I ask because of the South Node conjunctions to your Saturn and his Moon. I'm sure your Venus conjunct his Mars and Sun is awesome. That sounds so hot! You probably find him very attractive and have a natural compatibility. It's in your 7th house too, so he probably represents your ideal man both physically and personality wise, since Sun and Mars are both masculine personal planets. I'm curious how his Moon on your IC feels? I knew someone with his Sun on my IC, and I felt THE most powerful instant connection to him. We had great synastry overall, and I felt it, but I blame the IC/Sun for the fact that there were no walls between us. I couldn't believe how open and trusting I felt when it came to him, when I barely knew him.

About the composite, if both birth times are correct, then there are really nice house placements with the 5th, 7th and 8th houses. The three most important houses for romantic relationships. The aspects in the composite aren't really close, but the composite DC does fall close to his Saturn(assuming birth times are exact), which would suggest that this is a relationship that he takes very seriuosly.

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posted September 09, 2015 04:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for IntuitiveJ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you so much!
Yes both birth times are corrrect. Interestingly when we met, i wasn't initially attracted to him physically! That didn't last long lol
Right now we are going thru a rough patch. We have communication issues & he's extremely headstrong & stubborn.
Sometimes I do feel like I may be more vested in the future of the relationship then he is. Was curious if the charts showed any of this. Your replies all fit with how I feel. If anyone would like me to do a reading for you please let me know
Much appreciated

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posted September 09, 2015 09:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Soltze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The fact that you didn't feel the attraction at first is that when there's a Venus-Mars conjunction, the Venus person starts feeling friendly, nice vibes not erotic ones right away...it's like a progressive thing

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posted September 09, 2015 01:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IntuitiveJ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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The fact that you didn't feel the attraction at first is that when there's a Venus-Mars conjunction, the Venus person starts feeling friendly, nice vibes not erotic ones right away...it's like a progressive thing

That's exactly how it happened!
Even the first kiss was a little "meh". Thankfully that didn't last!

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posted September 09, 2015 01:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by IntuitiveJ:
Oh myyyyyy.....
That took my breath away Auby!!!!
Incredible!

It happens sometimes. I can't control it, per se, just yet. But I can 'feel' something starting to take over, and my higher self was just beneath the surface a bit more than usual yesterday. I haven't determined why, but I'm sure I will.

But I've felt that you're 'soul family' for awhile, IJ. Knowledge must be readily imparted to soul family. 'I' seem pretty firm on that point!

So, we'll see what happens, yeah? I'm not sure if any of that made sense to you or not. I'll never forget when I channelled a birthday message for me via automatic writing when I was 25. Signed 'the Universe' and some things that were literally stricken through, because 'I shouldn't know that yet.' ... Well, okay then!

I stumbled upon it a couple of weeks ago and was floored. I 'took her advice' and found that I really, really like where I am. The sceptic in me always takes it all with a grain of salt, but I've learnt to at least be honest when it's happening.

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posted September 09, 2015 01:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by IntuitiveJ:
Right now we are going thru a rough patch. We have communication issues & he's extremely headstrong & stubborn.

Ditto. Lemme know how I can help you there, okay? It's useful to be a therapist, too. No channelling needed.

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posted September 09, 2015 02:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IntuitiveJ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Ditto. Lemme know how I can help you there, okay? It's useful to be a therapist, too. No channelling needed.

You are incredible. Truly amazing. I re-read your channeling so many times! I feel so honored that I was chosen to receive it!

I actually feel he and I would benefit from speaking to a therapist Auby. Our one major flaw is how we communicate.
Like the song by Train "Bruises"...I bring many to the relationship based on my past experiences I find it very hard to trust and sometimes I am unable to let go and just BREATHE. So when my "bruises" flare, he shuts down, goes into his cave and immediately acts on the defense. The GOOD news is, we recognize the behaviors, triggers, patterns etc and both still want to put forth the effort
There is so much more to the story but don't want to bore the LL crowd.
I am eternally grateful to you and everyone else who has guided and taught me so much here...

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