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Topic: Can you help me please? Soulmate identification
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mereiposa
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posted September 18, 2015 10:28 PM
  
This is about a friend of mine who is also my one and only steady client. We met last year through a mutual friend and ran together last year, but he became a client of mine for my nutrition services. This is a small side business and he is my only steady client. He relies on me weekly to make him food. I asked for his chart because I was certain that Saturn was active, and it is. His Saturn trines my NN, opposite my Sun and widely conjunct my Moon. Oh yeah, and trine/sextile my DSC/ASC. Interestingly, my Saturn is also conjunct his NN. So another DW. What I found beyond that blew me away. I am NOT romantically attracted to him, nor will I ever be. I mention this because of some of the aspects. We have Eros conjunct Psyche in composite. We also have DW Eros Psyche conjunction in synastry. His Jupiter conjuncts my Juno. My Saturn trines his Juno. His Pluto Mars conjunction is conjunct my MC and Venus. His Sun is widely opposite my Moon. I didn't search the other soulmate pairs yet. (EDIT: not shown, but Isis Osiris is conjunct by 2 degrees in Virgo as well. Pluto is conjunct the Proserpina/Prosperina midpoint by 2 degrees. Crazy.) I realize soulmates are not always romantic. I think I am surprised there is no romantic feelings given some of the aspects, though honestly it could come down to houses. I am more stunned because I never felt he was a soulmate. He's just someone I know. I only see him and interact with him because I provide a service. I no longer even run with him. Other people with less compelling aspects made me feel certain they were soulmates. Him, no feelings. Can you help me interpret this synastry and composite? He is definitely sending me on my way with my future career path. That's huge for me. Anyway, here are our charts: his natal:
 my natal:
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Aubyanne
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posted September 19, 2015 12:21 AM
Why doesn't he seem like a soulmate?Incidentally, and wildly confusing, I have more 'soulmate pairing' aspects with my soulmates than I do my twin flame. Go figure, right? IP: Logged |
mereiposa
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posted September 19, 2015 08:07 AM
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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Why doesn't he seem like a soulmate?Incidentally, and wildly confusing, I have more 'soulmate pairing' aspects with my soulmates than I do my twin flame. Go figure, right?
Because he's not all that endearing! If he were not my client, I would not have a relationship with him at all, except in passing. I guess I just expected that with that kind of soulmate pairings I would feel more compelled to have him in my life in other ways, like real friendship. He's very nice, but... nothing. There's nothing to hold us together, except that I make him food every week! Meanwhile, I am magnetically drawn to others with whom I "kind of" have soulmate themes. So yes, go figure. Can you help me interpret the synastry? Now that I see how he is impacting my life in terms of career and drive, I can completely connect him with the idea of a soulmate. And I suppose the fact that I wanted to check his chart in connection to mine was a sign my intuition was working on something. But I certainly didn't expect that. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted September 19, 2015 08:21 AM
The thing that instantly jumped out at me was his Mars-Pluto on your MC in Virgo. That makes just so much sense, that there is a professional relationship, which involves nutrition. Wondering if there might be some Ceres at play, too.
his Mars-Pluto on your Venus usually I would see as a strong potential attraction-scenario, but I have seen *occasional* instances when the Venus individual was not really all that charmed by Mars nor Pluto. and here in this instance, your Venus rules yuor 6th and 11th house, so there might be more of an emphasis on that.
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mereiposa
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posted September 19, 2015 09:04 AM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
The thing that instantly jumped out at me was his Mars-Pluto on your MC in Virgo. That makes just so much sense, that there is a professional relationship, which involves nutrition. Wondering if there might be some Ceres at play, too.
his Mars-Pluto on your Venus usually I would see as a strong potential attraction-scenario, but I have seen *occasional* instances when the Venus individual was not really all that charmed by Mars nor Pluto. and here in this instance, your Venus rules yuor 6th and 11th house, so there might be more of an emphasis on that.
thank you! yes, definitely not attracted to him, nor will I ever be. He's married, but loves to flirt with women, yet at the same time he is very effeminate. He has a huge attachment to his mother, in an off putting way. He has placements in my 7th and 8th, which usually triggers something, but in this case it definitely does not. IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh
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posted September 19, 2015 12:20 PM
Incompatible moon signs might be why you feel very little for him.IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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posted September 19, 2015 12:45 PM
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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Incompatible moon signs might be why you feel very little for him.
You don't mean just the CAP and GEM placements, right?
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mereiposa
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posted September 19, 2015 06:48 PM
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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Incompatible moon signs might be why you feel very little for him.
I'm not sure. I don't even feel compelled to get to know him better. I would think maybe the Gem/Cap Moon could come into play later, but our friendship doesn't extend that far. Also, I dated a man, albeit briefly, with a Gem Moon and was very attracted to him. And we had very deep, stimulating conversations that definitely appealed to me. With this friend, there is almost a lack of depth that irritates me. And physically I just am not attracted. As an aside, both of these Gem Moon men have said people think they are gay. The friend, yes I definitely thought he was gay. I still suspect he may be. But the man I dated never struck me as gay, yet he told me his family thought he was gay. Is that attributable to Gem Moon? IP: Logged |
mereiposa
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posted September 19, 2015 08:50 PM
Also, looking at the composite we do have a love stellium, though split between the 9th and 10th houses. So this is interesting to me because clearly there is not love. I do think he is a kind and genuine person, and I do care for his well being as a result. But I feel that way about most people. But this makes me rethink love stelliums because they do show up often in many different types of relationships. I do appreciate that he is revolutionary to me but in a kind, gentle way. There is no earth shattering, pluto-esque "tear down and rebuild" way that I usually expect with relationships of great influence. He's providing or encouraging in me a very soft but steady diligence to my career growth. IP: Logged | |
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