posted September 19, 2015 04:40 AM            

A little backround (you can skip it if you want ): we met quite unexpectedly a little over a month ago online and the timing was totally wrong (he is moving to another city end of next month) but there was something unusual as if we knew eachother forever...some weird kind of familiarity where you can just sit with the other person for hours not talking or doing something and be completely happy.
Also I havent slept with him and I get the feeling he respects me more because of that (the first time in my life I didnt sleep with a guy right after we met; at first I did it because I wanted to get to know him better, having met him online and then I didnt want to risk getting attached to him when I knew he was going to move away). We have been on 4 dates each at least 6 hours (one was 15 ) and it is always as if we are together. He is really affectionate and just sweet and caring.

One week ago he started pulling away(=not talking on the phone and texting all the time, but still initiate texting) with the excuse that he is busy with his thesis. At first I thought typical virgo then I thought he is not interested anymore because he wants sex and he knows I wont have sex with him but then he gave me the impression that he was also a bit confused, because he doesnt know what we are doing..We dont know each other well enough to decide to be exclusive and do long distance, but if he didnt move we would 100% give it a try and I think he doesnt see the point of seeing me (when he wont even get sex) but still likes me and doesnt want to stop talking to me.I have pretty much made my choice, because I know it is not going anywhere..I really like him as a person and I would really like us to stay friends although I dont know if he also sees it that way. I was just curious what impression you get from looking at our chart

posted September 19, 2015 11:34 AM            

Welcome to Lindaland!

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AstroMandala

posted September 19, 2015 08:48 PM            

You two share some nice aspects moon/venus, mar/mer. & Sun trine moon. I think that is what's drawing you to him.

But this synastry is a bit lacking in some places. I don't want to sound negative at all. You asked what we see, so I'm just trying to be honest.

There isn't anything really happening with either of your Saturns. The majority of the time, lack of aspects to Sat. shows that it's a passing thing. Not for the long haul. But there are always excepts.

There aren't any of the big contacts I like to see for partners. Personal planets on angles, planets on the nodes, or nodes on the angles.

posted September 19, 2015 08:56 PM            

Hey, sometimes a man's MARS on a woman's VENUS just feels nice, and can be interpreted as 'comfortable and familiar'.