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Queen Salome
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posted September 23, 2015 10:03 AM
  
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LaceyLeigh
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posted September 23, 2015 10:24 AM
Did you cheat on him, or did he cheat on you? Why can't you trust him? If you can't trust him anymore then I believe you should leave the relationship. You're not happy, he's probably not happy, so what's the point of carrying on like this? Because you won't find anyone else? ... You're afraid to be alone? You need to stop thinking that way. There's nothing wrong with being alone for a little while, especially if it benefits you in the long run. IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted September 23, 2015 10:49 AM
your moon and venus placements paired together are prone to melancholy and depression - the cap/virgo in combination (especially for a woman) can be very critical because the women don't often feel good about themselves and what they can offer others, especially romantically. this is a classic spinster combination - often found with women who don't ever have kids or marry. i think the combination has a hard time forming love relationships and (like what you're experiencing) refuses to let go of toxic relationships in case no one else wants them. you need to practice a lot of self-love with your natal placements. and, coupled with so much venus energy you're going to really want a partner. the synastry shows that you'd both find better partners though. you have a strong personal stellium in libra which can come across as very assertive and similar to an aries at times, which might be why this man's aries venus - with his cap moon - appeals to you. you are very venus-influenced, so his venus placement will impact you. there is so much 12th house activity here; that can be either positive or negative. relationships where one person has so many planets in anothers' 12th house often drag on for years without resolution.IP: Logged |
Queen Salome
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posted September 23, 2015 10:49 AM
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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted September 23, 2015 11:23 AM
quote:
Originally posted by starmoon:
your moon and venus placements paired together are prone to melancholy and depression - the cap/virgo in combination (especially for a woman) can be very critical because the women don't often feel good about themselves and what they can offer others, especially romantically
I beg your pardon?  Where do you get this stuff from?  There are 9 affirmation signs, which means placements in these signs in the chart are usually markers of greater success/authority positions/leadership.They bring affirmation energy. The 4 cardinal signs
Aries
Cancer
Libra
Capricorn Scorpio and Leo and the "human" signs:
Gemini
Virgo
Aquarius A combination of those shows you the degree of success/affirmation. Capricorn is a strong affirmation sign, and with the Virgo, it would make for a double marker. Capricorn on ASC or MC is a very strong marker of success/ leadership. Slower, but steady and unavoidable Getting better with time and with experience in all life areas. Becoming an "expert" I am a Sun Venus in Virgo with Cap ASC, and I know many people with this combo, women and men; I can assure you they aren't depressed; neither am I; I am not married in the traditional sense, but I've hardly been a saint nor a spinster all my life and chances are this won't change now. It's true Saturn brings a bit of gloom (especially in aspect with the Moon), but if you're looking for real depression, you will find it in water placements, and Neptune in particular. A combination Saturn/Neptune could work for this, yes, but the culprit is mostly Neptune. ------------------
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LeeLoo2014
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posted September 23, 2015 11:27 AM
Here, how can a Venus conj Jupiter in Virgo 5th be as you describe?IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted September 23, 2015 11:41 AM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I beg your pardon? Where do you get this stuff from? There are 9 affirmation signs, which means placements in these signs in the chart are usually markers of greater success/authority positions/leadership.They bring affirmation energy. The 4 cardinal signs
Aries
Cancer
Libra
Capricorn Scorpio and Leo and the "human" signs:
Gemini
Virgo
Aquarius A combination of those shows you the degree of success/affirmation. Capricorn is a strong affirmation sign, and with the Virgo, it would make for a double marker. Capricorn on ASC or MC is a very strong marker of success/ leadership. Slower, but steady and unavoidable Getting better with time and with experience in all life areas. Becoming an "expert" I am a Sun Venus in Virgo with Cap ASC, and I know many people with this combo, women and men; I can assure you they aren't depressed; neither am I; I am not married in the traditional sense, but I've hardly been a saint nor a spinster all my life and chances are this won't change now. It's true Saturn brings a bit of gloom (especially in aspect with the Moon), but if you're looking for real depression, you will find it in water placements, and Neptune in particular. A combination Saturn/Neptune could work for this, yes, but the culprit is mostly Neptune.
success in professional life does not mean someone is happy personally or romantically. cap/virgo can lead to huge successes (professionally). what they seem able to achieve in professional avenues they cannot translate into personal relationships. cap suns are not cap moons or ascendant - lots of depression exists with that moon sign. IP: Logged |
Queen Salome
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posted September 23, 2015 01:26 PM
I'm depressed and even have some traits of bordeline personality disorder  IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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posted September 23, 2015 01:53 PM
Eugh. That's a pretty concentrated composite. I feel you, Salome. Right down to not knowing what to do.Eventually, I chose to be happy. And that meant not choosing to be with him. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
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posted September 23, 2015 01:54 PM
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Originally posted by Queen Salome:
I'm depressed and even have some traits of bordeline personality disorder
That's quite a statement, Salome. I'm going to suggest you refrain from self-diagnosis though, okay? Especially as major depression and BPD are not the same thing, in any respect. And many things can LOOK like other things. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted September 23, 2015 02:05 PM
quote:
Originally posted by starmoon:
success in professional life does not mean someone is happy personally or romantically. cap/virgo can lead to huge successes (professionally). what they seem able to achieve in professional avenues they cannot translate into personal relationships. cap suns are not cap moons or ascendant - lots of depression exists with that moon sign.
I agree with you, Starmoon, Cap Moon may be prone to depression, due to the Moon Saturn connection. What I disagreed with here is this idea that Virgo placement leads to someone being a "spinster", Virgo is a pretty sensual sign, despite appearances and cliches about it and it's a pretty relational sign too. That's why I jumped, sorry  And Earth influence is actually much more stabilizing for the psyche than heavy water for instance. And even heavy Air. Also, Cap is a marker of success in general, professional and personal.
I usually consider a chart with many peregrines or many "loner" planets as having issues with relationships, also heavy elemental focus and voids, no matter the sign. Each sign has their forte and weak points when it comes to relationships, and they can be equally "players" and "hermits", as history shows. ------------------
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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted September 23, 2015 02:10 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Queen Salome:
I'm depressed and even have some traits of bordeline personality disorder
I'm sorry to hear you feel like this. I concur to what Auby says about self-diagnosis. If you experience this, IMO, astrologically speaking, it must come from those two outers on the Moon. But your charts shows things get better with age  IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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posted September 23, 2015 02:17 PM
You know, by trying to counterattack a cliche, I created another one.
Despite this classical view with the affirmation signs, I believe there is affirmation potential in all signs.When it comes to mental illness - not that this is the case, just a parenthesis - IME it is usually connected with Neptune. ------------------
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