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Topic: How much Saturn as to be in synastry for a long lasting friendship?
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ChildofVenus
Knowflake Posts: 40
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Registered: Apr 2015
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posted September 28, 2015 10:30 AM
  
Do you need to have multiple Saturn aspects in synastry or composite for a long lasting friendship? IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
Knowflake Posts: 85
From: Durham north carolina usa
Registered: May 2015
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posted September 28, 2015 10:38 AM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Do you need to have multiple Saturn aspects in synastry or composite for a long lasting friendship?
Ime, it depends on the natal chart and the lessons that you have to learn. Saturn is about hard work, obsticals and lessons. What kind of saturn synastry do you have with the person. Sometimes, it is a lesson to learn then the attraction cools whether it is a friendship or love.
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Cappi112
Knowflake Posts: 65
From: New York, New York, USA
Registered: May 2015
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posted September 28, 2015 11:03 AM
To be very honest, I don't like Saturn as much in my friendships. Some people see love relationships and friendships as being part of the same book - for me, relationships are MUCH more serious, deep, intense, and yes - hard work. But i need them to be for me to fully commit, otherwise I question my feelings for the partner a little. (Something I will always be working on).My friendships are where I always escape a little. I need my friendships to be lighter, gentler, easier all around. Saturn with trines and sextiles, fine, maybe. But a saturn conjunction in a friendship would suffocate me or make me feel uncomfortable. Too close for comfort - like a wool sweater tied too tight on a hot day. Get it offffffff. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
Knowflake Posts: 40
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posted September 28, 2015 11:16 AM
In synastry I have a moon conjunct saturn aspect with someone but it's because his moon and my saturn are in the same sign. We also have Venus square Saturn he's the Venus I'm the Saturn. His Saturn square my mercury and his mercury sextiles my saturn. In composite we have Mars sextile Saturn and Jupiter opposition to Saturn. IP: Logged |
browncoat
Newflake Posts: 15
From: Phoenix, AZ USA
Registered: Sep 2015
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posted October 01, 2015 10:50 PM
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Originally posted by Cappi112:
To be very honest, I don't like Saturn as much in my friendships. Some people see love relationships and friendships as being part of the same book - for me, relationships are MUCH more serious, deep, intense, and yes - hard work. But i need them to be for me to fully commit, otherwise I question my feelings for the partner a little. (Something I will always be working on).My friendships are where I always escape a little. I need my friendships to be lighter, gentler, easier all around. Saturn with trines and sextiles, fine, maybe. But a saturn conjunction in a friendship would suffocate me or make me feel uncomfortable. Too close for comfort - like a wool sweater tied too tight on a hot day. Get it offffffff.
Cappi, thank you for this post.
I've never thought about it but I'm this way, too.
Maybe it's the sex factor...I've never had a 'casual' sexual relationship with a women and any woman I don't feel something intense for is just in my proverbial "friend zone." And sexually I want commitment, or it ends. I don't know how it's "supposed" to be, and there is no right or wrong, obviously. It's just what I prefer. And with my friends they are a form of escape...and with my friends I can just disappear for any length of time and then pick up where we left off with just a simple "Hey, dude. What's goin' on?" (I can be a loner for extended periods sometimes). And for me I don't know if it's a "guy thing" or what. Men who want to get too close feel odd to me. I my mind that's the space reserved for a woman. Anyway, thanks. I learned something about myself.  IP: Logged | |
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