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posted September 29, 2015 05:27 AM            

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Me & him -

He and I are definitely in a relationship.

Since I am going to be no less than close friends with is wife (and we are open to a future development romantically), here is a composite with all 3 of us -

Anything good?

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posted September 29, 2015 12:40 PM            

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I honestly hope this thread gets some love, Geeky.

I'll be back with my thoughts and analyses -- once I've had my coffee.

Oh, and did you see the thread with my husband and his girlfriend?

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posted September 29, 2015 02:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
I honestly hope this thread gets some love, Geeky.

I'll be back with my thoughts and analyses -- once I've had my coffee.

Oh, and did you see the thread with my husband and his girlfriend?

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I did.

I don't always reply unless I have a question or something to contribute.

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posted October 01, 2015 04:08 PM            

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I've been looking at these charts trying to determine what to think, especially with the multi composite.

At first glance pluto stuck out like a sore thumb. But given this is a poly arrangement, it seems rather fitting. I would imagine the relationship between you and the couple would enable you to discover something new about yourself and your own needs, since pluto is positioned on the ascendant. It will probably provide something similar to the couple. Did you check the multi composite against the natal?

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posted October 01, 2015 04:37 PM            

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If I recall, we have PLUTO rising, too. Well, my husband, boyfriend, and I do. My husband's girlfriend wasn't yet a part of the picture. I've not posted those yet.

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posted October 02, 2015 10:49 PM            

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Originally posted by llewsacm:
Did you check the multi composite against the natal?

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No & I have no idea how I would do that.

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posted October 02, 2015 10:58 PM            

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Geeky, just check which planets match up to the natal charts. That should tell you what the individual focus would be for each person.

For example, if my natal Uranus is on the same position of composite NNode in my composite chart with my boyfriend, I would imagine that would mean I am pushed to grow from the freedom of expression/kink/excitement the relationship has to offer. Does this help?

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posted October 02, 2015 11:31 PM            

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Originally posted by llewsacm:
Geeky, just check which planets match up to the natal charts. That should tell you what the individual focus would be for each person.

For example, if my natal Uranus is on the same position of composite NNode in my composite chart with my boyfriend, I would imagine that would mean I am pushed to grow from the freedom of expression/kink/excitement the relationship has to offer. Does this help?

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The actual composite synastry method does work rather well.

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posted October 03, 2015 04:40 PM            

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Originally posted by llewsacm:
Geeky, just check which planets match up to the natal charts. That should tell you what the individual focus would be for each person.

For example, if my natal Uranus is on the same position of composite NNode in my composite chart with my boyfriend, I would imagine that would mean I am pushed to grow from the freedom of expression/kink/excitement the relationship has to offer. Does this help?

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Interesting. I will take a look at it when I have time to dive in.

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posted October 16, 2015 03:34 AM            

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Unfortunately, I never got this far.

I was dumped last Saturday. Literally everything seemed perfect and going well... I didn't even see it coming.

I am heartbroken.

Now, I am wondering if you all see anything that shows how I could be led on? Like I really think one or both of them are narcissists.

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posted October 17, 2015 09:45 PM            

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Geeky, I am so sorry to hear about this. Did they say why?

Their natals would be helpful in review of your question. It's so important to look at his and her natal separately, and then them as a couple to solve this puzzle if that is what you are looking to do. Maybe they are narcissistic as you say...but it still hurts all the same I am sure.

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