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Topic: Is This Worth Pursuing?
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browncoat
Newflake Posts: 18
From: Phoenix, AZ USA
Registered: Sep 2015
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posted October 01, 2015 09:47 PM
  
Is This Relationship Worth Pursuing?
Met her online over 2 weeks ago & we're meeting in person for the first time this weekend.
We both feel an amazing connection, we do seem to click well, there's *INTENSE* chemistry, we're on the exact same page spiritually...and I can see those in the synastry chart (sun-moon, nn-vertex, venus tr mars, each uranus tr moons, sun-vesta, etc, etc)...there are many nice aspects.She's 11 years younger than me (I'm 44), yet she's wiser than most women in their 50's...
Her natal has a grand cross (ur-moon-chiron-merc) AND a cradle (12h-2h-4h-6h) AND a Yod (plu-nept-chiron).
She's a neat & powerful soul. But for some reason I'm kinda starting to get cold feet...fearing I'm blinded by the chemistry. (maybe I have too much baggage?)
Mercury is also in retrograde right now...in LIBRA (relationships) tho it's my 9h. I'm a little worried I'm making a bad relationship decision. 
Tho I did have some hard "relationship communication" lessons ~10 days ago. My question is not will this be "forever"... I do not want to put my energy into pursuing something that's just going to be a flash of chemistry that fizzles out quickly.
I don't really see that anywhere...but I'm not an expert. 
And here's the composite chart...
I've read that a non-scattered composite is ideal...shows the relationship has focus or something? But I don't know (not that the "compost" chart  matters at all right now, but in the future)
 Thank you for your input! 
-Mike IP: Logged |
browncoat
Newflake Posts: 18
From: Phoenix, AZ USA
Registered: Sep 2015
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posted October 02, 2015 04:31 PM
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Mergoatsun
Knowflake Posts: 61
From: Grand Rapids, Michigan, USA
Registered: Aug 2015
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posted October 02, 2015 04:53 PM
No one can tell you what to do when it comes to relationships, people can give you advice but that is all. As from an astrological POV you look fairly compatible from this chart. Slow your roll if you must, but don't let your head get to you. This Mercury RX is making people over think things way too much this time around, so much so that they are missing important details because their thinking is not clear and unbiased------------------
Cap Sun
Leo Moon
Aqua Merc
Aqua Venus
Cap Mars
Libra Rising
Leo MC
~~~Blessed Be~~~~ IP: Logged |
EmGem
Knowflake Posts: 804
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Registered: Jan 2015
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posted October 02, 2015 08:24 PM
I would suggest meeting her first before jumping into astrology to try and control an outcome that may or may not even happen. It's nice to just go with the flow and let things unfold sometimes.Take a breath and relax  meet her and let your instincts guide you. Just go with your feelings and try and be present, especially when physically meeting someone for the first time. You need all your senses to be open. Get away from the mind stuff until that's happened. Astrology is not the be all and end all, especially when you haven't physically met. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
Moderator Posts: 5384
From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 02, 2015 08:47 PM
You haven't even MET YET?Oh, c'mon. Just let life unfold! You're old enough to know that. IP: Logged | |
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