Posts: 1992
From: The Valley of Restoration
Registered: Oct 2014

posted October 10, 2015 05:00 AM            

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I'm back again with my relationship woes 😂
I started talking to this guy from Tinder back in June. Unfortunately, given where I was in my life at the time, I wasn't as calm or collected as I could be. However, I reached out to him recently and he responded. We have been exchanging messages again and it's all good. From the information I have collected, I've managed to create our synastry chart

Straight off the bat, I can see there are two double whammies - Sun trine Venus x2 and Saturn conjunct Sun/Saturn opposite Sun. There is also Sun trine Moon, Mercury trine Mercury and also Moon trine Mars.

As a side note, is there anything in our synastry which suggests that he is likely to take advantage of me, or may end up doing so? (I'm red, he is blue).

The composite chart looks flipping frightening (again!).

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From: <--------- over there.
Registered: Jun 2015

posted October 10, 2015 06:28 AM            

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I'm not the best at these and I'm sure there is a BUNCH of things that I'm missing.

But, one thing that I've noticed is comp sun/Venus conjunct your natal moon. At least I think so.
Comp moon conjunct his sun. (Could be too wide, but I still see it as significant.)

I hope I'm seeing that right. In my experience these kind of connections have been very important. I love comparing the comp to natal. There's some others, like comp. Jupiter near your mercury, which would trine his. I think this is all important. It's something to look at. We feel a way towards each other but we also have feelings about the relationships that we have and I think that's just as important.

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From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014

posted October 10, 2015 08:08 AM            

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Nice charts!

It looks mellow and safe, there is no over excitement here. Even the Sun opp looks safe and grounded. It's part of a very nice pattern completion with his Moon/Venus Kite. Generally nice pattern completion. You also have your Jupiter opp Neptune stellium completing his Sun/Moon T'sq.

The only problem here is that it looks more like friendship than romance It looks very homey.

Also, that could be hidden things occasionally coming out with the 2nd to 12th sq in the composite, such as breaking routine or sudden communications, or perhaps as a couple you would feel compelled to do lots of 12th/3rd activities together: retreat, come out again; intense mental activity, very private with chart ruler conj Neptune, 2nd ruler, in the 12th.

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From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014

posted October 10, 2015 08:20 AM            

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There is however some indirect activation of exciting romance, to add to that Saturn, such as your Jupiter/Chiron opening his 5th, and his 5th in Cancer, and your Sun on his IC/Chiron, pretty neat.

And 1st/2nd overlays can be pretty hot. I like the charts

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