posted October 11, 2015 10:49 AM            

From what I've gathered reading here, some think it indicates potential for a very deep, special relationship while many more think it means "run like the wind."

Of course, observing a relationship a bit could help with correctly interpreting the chart. But I kinda feel like people often look at these charts to try to get their footing. It's always cool to learn more about what's familiar through astrology, but...

Anyway, sun, Saturn & Lilith in the 12th doesn't sound light at all. All those conjunctions too. Could be a spiritual relationship with seriously dark, sexual undertones? Or sexual relationship riddled with secrets and deception? But what do the other houses look like? What are Venus, moon, Mars, Neptune, Uranus & Pluto doing?

posted October 12, 2015 06:05 AM            

I have three examples in my direct proximity.

My brother and his girlfriend (Sun, Mercury, Venus intercepted in Pisces in 12th house, BML and Ceres also in 12th house, but not intercepted; with ASC in Aries)

my parents (Moon in Cancer in 12th house, ASC in Leo)

my best friend and her husband (Moon in Pisces in 12th house, ASC in Aries)

These are three very longlasting (the shortest being my brother`s, which has "only" lasted for 9 years until now), deeply connected relationships.

And that is the keyword here "deeply connected". They do not have a choice but to live WITH each other; for them living "beside" each other, as happens in many relationships, would never worked out. Or at least that is now how these relationships function. It`s not two individuals just deciding to share the same living environment, but maintaning some individual space, some sort of separatedness (which is not a bad thing per se btw).
They are always concerned with each other, always responsive to the other person (including being a tiny little "trigger-happy" at times).

And they are always consciously aware of the state of their relationship and in fact the relationship itself is often a topic of talks/ discussions.

Actually this is even true for my friend and me, ever since we`ve known each other (over 25 years btw), one of the MAIN topics has always been the state and development of our friendship, and going beyond it, how relationship function in general, what we need indidividually in a friendship, and why it works for us but has not worked with other people and so on. A constant analyzing and counselling, that is true.

posted October 12, 2015 07:26 AM            

The person who has it natally may be much more comfortable with it.
The other may feel "unsettled". Also, I think that the natal person may be secretive about some things, or appear that way. (I have mercury, Venus mars). Because of this, the "non-natal" person may SEE this as possible deceit even though it may not be.
In composite, you're kind of both thrust into it and for the non-natal person it may not be very comfortable. On the other hand, experiencing it in the relationship could help with understanding the person who has it natally.

posted October 12, 2015 07:33 PM            

I understand from what you're saying that you figure it is a heavy placement, you're perhaps looking for confirmation of the article on The Inner Wheel perhaps in what people are saying here?

It's hard to tell much from an aspect grid. Without natals synastry and composite all together it's hard to have a thorough conversation about all the potential karma being activated, and the thread was ostensibly about 12th house, so people are speaking to that.

posted October 12, 2015 08:52 PM            

very good and very bad, it's all wrapped up in ourselves and in them also... it's hard to distinguish sometimes, especially with the 12th, who is even doing what... because we are all actors in a way, and we are all participating in the energy dynamics and ultimately attracting complementary or distressing characteristics which will increase our self knowledge and respect for the power of the universe, and of others to affect us...