posted October 11, 2015 01:06 PM            

I am 23 and live with 4 other people in a flat share. One of my flatmates brought two people from South America who are travelling to stay with us for a few weeks. When I was in the hall meeting them the guy I recognised him straight away in a way I can't explain. He said he had the same experience.

I always thought I couldn’t connect with people my age and all my boyfriends have been in their 30s and 40s. He’s the same, always been with women older than him. He is 23 same as me. Both of us grew up with only our Mum’s and not Dad. Both met our Dad’s a few times in our lives. Both our Mum’s and Dad’s were born in 1974.

When we met and spoke to each other we instantly got on the topic of psychic type things, seeing auras and things and went into detail about our experiences. He’s seen the same markings I’ve seen on people, kindof like tribal tattoos but not, that people are covered in, I’ve never met anyone else who’s seen them although I’ve seen them in art people have made and pictures of tribal people with the markings painted onto the skin so I know it’s not just me. We both make electronics break with our hands. My hifi amp stopped working since he’s been here due to our hands making it break. Other plug sockets have stopped working.

Both of us have always been odd people and also quite psychic people. It’s weird as I actually feel comfortable in his presence. We kindof mind read each other, know what each other are thinking, even though we don’t actually physically know each other for very long, it feels like I can sense him very deeply, and I think he has the same experience for me, and it’s odd as I’ve always been told I am hard to read and I get the impression he’s the same. We done a very large painting one night and it flowed very well, you couldn’t say it wasn’t done by one person. He said this was odd for him as he’s never been able to collaborate with people before.

I was getting frustrated at him being in the flat as I felt I have been stuck in a loop with living with a boyfriend, and I felt like him appearing was a test from the universe, as I literally broke up with the guy I was with for 2 and a half years a few weeks before, and before that guy I was living with my ex who was the same age as my Dad.. Which was when I was 18 so I think it was some sort of healing process me and that guy had to go through, as he didn’t really know his daughter who was around my age, and things were still up in the air with the break up I’d just been through with my most recent ex, and I told the South American guy this. He was completely understanding about it. I ended up meeting up with my ex to talk as we had to sort out some things and ended up staying with him that night and came home and told the South American guy what happened.
I ended up having to tell the South American guy to not be in my room when I wasn’t there and we didn’t speak a few days. He came into my room one morning when I was getting ready to go to college but we didn’t really speak, as I guess I was being very cold, then I get a message from him from facebook asking if I wanted to talk to him and I sent him a big message saying I felt trapped by him being in my flat and I can’t live with a guy again and that I might get back with my ex (I didn’t even want to get back with my ex I just felt like I needed the freedom to choose and this guy staying in my flat was the universe testing my strength that if I was strong enough to live alone without a guy). He ended up saying that he was sorry and he was gonna leave in the next week.

I felt so guilty about this as I really feel a strong connection with this guy but I couldn’t stop my fear or feeling that I was being tested by the universe. I ended up making him some jewellery that day at college (I do jewellery design) and couldn’t get him out of my mind, I didn’t want him to leave.. I just felt like I wasn’t being strong if he was here.. Or that I need to experience being single.. As I’ve never really been single for years.. I came home and ran past my flatmates room where he’s been staying.. Too nervous to go in and give him the jewellery.. I ended up going to give him it and he’d spent that day making me a wooden sculpture..
We ended up spending the next day drawing and reconnecting, me being really frustrated at myself as this guy is literally what I’ve asked for the universe to give me and when he appears I try push him away. He told me he was going to go to the hare krisha farm (you can stay there for free if you work in in the garden and cooking etc) and I had a leaflet for the exact place as I’d spoken to a hare Krishna person on the street one time and they were telling me I had to go there and I’d kept the leaflet safe as it seemed important at the time. I asked him if I could come with him and he seemed really happy about it because I think he thought I was gonna get back with my ex-boyfriend and things.
I had been told by the tarot lady I was going to meet a guy I had a deep bond with soon and I was going to go to a religious community for a while. At the time I couldn’t figure out what that meant. I think this is what it meant?
He told me he had been drawing my eyes for years as a teenager, he said he’d dreamt about me a bunch of times in his life. I always felt a strong connection with South America like I wanted to go there, there is something there for me. He always had that same feeling with coming to the UK.. These places are so so far away from each other, isn’t it odd that we both had urges to go to these places at the other side of the world, without any real rational reason? Very very similar down to really odd things like both of us are kindof gender neutral or something? I used to pretend to be a boy on the internet when I was 13/14 years old and he used to pretend to be a girl online at the same time!! This isn’t even something I tell people and I feel odd to write it here but I think it is very relevant to us as people.. We were both listening to all the same music at that age too even though we were on other sides of the planet.
He has been travelling from his home country for one year around Europe and told me he wants to take me with him. I have had imaginaries/visions of us in different places and without telling him that he explained to me visions in his mind of us in different cities and his descriptions were the same as my day dreams !! The tarot lady who told me about him and the ‘religious community’ I was going to visit also told me I’m going to leave the country in the next 12 months.

I told him I have to finish my course, as I never finish things so it is quite meaningful for me to complete this, then I am free to go. His visa runs out 2 months before my course is finished. He told me he’ll go to Holland and then come back for me and we’ll get a flight to Tenerife. It’s also very odd as my plan was to move to the Canary Islands and his next move after Scotland was also the Canary Islands.

Does it seem astrologically like this will happen? What about all our odd connections, can you tell if we have any karmic ties or past life experiences or something? I really feel like I recognise him beyond my current life. Please help. Thanks

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posted October 11, 2015 03:05 PM            

His sun (which could represent ideal mate) is in your 8th (house that is sometimes associated with long term partnership, but also sex, death & other people's money). His Venus looks like it might conjunct the cusp of that house. Your moon (could represent his ideal mate) is in his house of pleasure and creativity. His moon looks conjunct your Venus in Cancer (your sun sign). If his birth time was off by a few minutes, his asc could be Cancer too. But this chart says it's Gemini. Your sun is in his first house (a relationship house) and his moon is in your house of friendship. His Venus is in your house of partnership. Your NN is in his 7th, his in your 4th.

It also looks like you guys have conjunct Uranus, Neptune, Saturn & Pluto. Those are slow moving planets. So, I don't know if that's significant or a generational thing cos you guys are the same age. Cool, artistic connection though. Can't tell more without aspects, but the synastry looks romantic, although I don't know if it's "good" per se. Or if that's really in your mind. You didn't really mention what the attraction felt like. Creative, sexual, platonic, etc.

posted October 11, 2015 06:51 PM            

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Originally posted by starxd:
Sorry. I'm too new to even try to give you an answer and it sounds like you're asking about transits anyway, which birth info would be needed to do. I just had to say that your individual charts and synastry look kinda cool. He's got a Grand Trine and you have a mystical rectangle. In synastry, you guys have a 4-5-7-8 house overlap.

His sun (which could represent ideal mate) is in your 8th (house that is sometimes associated with long term partnership, but also sex, death & other people's money). His Venus looks like it might conjunct the cusp of that house. Your moon (could represent his ideal mate) is in his house of pleasure and creativity. His moon looks conjunct your Venus in Cancer (your sun sign). If his birth time was off by a few minutes, his asc could be Cancer too. But this chart says it's Gemini. Your sun is in his first house (a relationship house) and his moon is in your house of friendship. His Venus is in your house of partnership. Your NN is in his 7th, his in your 4th.

It also looks like you guys have conjunct Uranus, Neptune, Saturn & Pluto. Those are slow moving planets. So, I don't know if that's significant or a generational thing cos you guys are the same age. Cool, artistic connection though. Can't tell more without aspects, but the synastry looks romantic, although I don't know if it's "good" per se. Or if that's really in your mind. You didn't really mention what the attraction felt like. Creative, sexual, platonic, etc.

Interpreting composite charts does my head in though. Sorry. The composite NN is in your house of creativity. I hope some more experienced people chime in. But whether or not you two decide to run away to the Hare Krishna depends on transits and how y'all exercise your free will.

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Hi, thank you very much How can I post transits? I think the attraction is based on many levels, but of course a sexual one is there, which is obviously an important one.. Are house overlaps a good thing? I posted charts by putting [ img ] without spaces then the url of the picture then [/ img ] without the spaces again

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Originally posted by athenaia:
I have nothing but the most useless commentary to add but when I saw his chart I thought to myself, "beautiful chart" then I scrolled down and saw yours and thought "BEAUTIFUL CHART"

I bet you guys would make great business partners if you ever chose to neutralize the romantic component between you guys for whatever reason.

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Thank you ^-^ Well it is funny as he is quite good at meeting people and doing business type things but by working at festivals and these kindof things, and I'm making jewellery with a plan to sell it travelling, but I'm not the best sales person, so maybe that would work out..

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Originally posted by starxd:
Yeah. Your chart seems to indicate you are a truly unique, sensitive, expressive, creative individual. Lucky you!

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