posted October 15, 2015 07:13 PM
It depends, in relationship and you did the synastry and found moon-pluto or Venus-pluto or both happened, it can be intensify the obsession to the relationship and power struggle. (Both have this impact)I never be in one and won't even try, I only have experiences with some men who pursue me, they have moon or venus conjunct my pluto, never both.
It really depends on your own chart too I think, for example I'm not really comfortable if "the-next-guy" touches my pluto especially in hard aspect [edited, I forgot it is not sun-pluto lol] with his moon or venus because I don't have one, soft aspect is welcomed.
It will be a different story if one is plutonic and the other is not, and they share moon/venus conjunct pluto. I think at first, the moon will pursue the pluto, once the pluto in it, pluto will pursue the moon. Both will have the impact if it didn't work well I think. My bf and his ex have moon and venus and Mercury and pluto conjunct pluto, I see how both are obsessed and struggling with power once in relationship. If you can not handle it and have a bad breakup, it's really get the effects on each other, either they will transform or holding grudges. But if both can work really well, it is bonding.
Moon conjunct Pluto: emotional obsession
Venus conjunct Pluto: love obsession
The conjunction energy will have the same energy I think, the square cause friction, except for square dw. Although it still has some issues if both can't understand how to work the obsession and power struggle..
[edited] square is hard, I don't know how to put it in the words lol. My friend has her moon square my pluto because she has it natally, I don't have good feelings around her lol. I don't know in relationship, it's kind of a friendship thing, if it can count on too?