posted October 18, 2015 11:09 PM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Same sex marriage legal in the u.s. Where do you guys live now?

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i live in los angeles. and she lives in croatia in the city Split as of today. i' am very aware of same sex marriage here in the u.s. however it is not legal in her country BUT we do have the option to register each other as a civil couple in croatia which means i have the option to live with her in croatia but we just won't be recognized as a married couple in croatia just civil.

posted October 18, 2015 11:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
How long have you two been together, technically?

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We have been dating for about 16 1/2 months why is this important? Sorry honestly if you think that i' am just wasting my time in this LDR please give me your honest opinion.

posted October 19, 2015 12:00 AM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Could you post the synastry/Davison?

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sure

synastry

( I' M THE RED IN BOTH CHARTS )

davison

posted October 19, 2015 12:14 AM            

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Originally posted by angel4845:
We have been dating for about 16 1/2 months why is this important? Sorry honestly if you think that i' am just wasting my time in this LDR please give me your honest opinion.

We met in person on december 26th 2014

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posted October 19, 2015 12:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Okay, I was just curious. Something about '8 years' came through really, really clearly with me, before I looked at anything. I'm not entirely sure why, though, hence, why I thought to ask.

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ohhhhh wow i see now. The 8 years that you mentioned could tell me how long it will take to resolve this issue...but still thinking of what could this mean.

posted October 19, 2015 03:32 AM            

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Originally posted by angel4845:
ohhhhh wow i see now. The 8 years that you mentioned could tell me how long it will take to resolve this issue...but still thinking of what could this mean.

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Exactly. But I'm certainly hoping not! That's quite a bit of time, especially going off of a relationship that's not quite 1.5 years. Though, perhaps you'll both be settled by that time? There are of course many ways to interpret a sudden bit of 'insight'.

posted October 19, 2015 04:40 AM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
By the way, I have a 4H NEP. (My boyfriend has Pisces on the IC), and my husband's IC is in Scorpio.

Interesting, as we all live in Los Angeles. NEP 4H is known for living 'near the water'. Pisces can be, as well as any Water sign on the IC, really.

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Oh wow that's crazy! Yeah she lives in a town that is by the beach basically have you seen the city split? Im sure you'll know what im talking about ha!

posted October 19, 2015 05:42 AM            

The charts don't show whether or not it's smart to do LDR - they are potentials, so that decision is yours.

I see the kite formation in composite, which is always a strong indicator of a higher purpose to your relationship.

Don't be fatalistic about the 'not being together in this lifetime' aspect. If you believe in her as your twin flame, you need to let go and let "God", as they say.

posted October 19, 2015 11:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Exactly. But I'm certainly hoping not! That's quite a bit of time, especially going off of a relationship that's not quite 1.5 years. Though, perhaps you'll both be settled by that time? There are of course many ways to interpret a sudden bit of 'insight'.

I'd hope that LA would be welcoming of a lesbian marriage between a US citizen and an international 'legal alien'. You know? But you're right -- it could take some time. Everything is so new as of yet.

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yes Aubyanne I' am completely fully aware of it. I hope not too but your right i defently have to take this relationship day by day.

posted October 19, 2015 11:53 AM            

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Originally posted by Cappi112:
I see a lot of fear on your side - and hear it in your posts as well. (Understandable given stressful circumstances!)

The charts don't show whether or not it's smart to do LDR - they are potentials, so that decision is yours.

I see the kite formation in composite, which is always a strong indicator of a higher purpose to your relationship.

Don't be fatalistic about the 'not being together in this lifetime' aspect. If you believe in her as your twin flame, you need to let go and let "God", as they say.

Long distance or not, if you are going to be together, you are going to be together. If you don't, you'll know it wasn't meant to be for now. But it's too hard for *ME* to tell from these charts what could happen. It's important for you to just focus on what you want and see it through, and have faith in the connection.

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Cappi112, thank you so much for this i gladly appreciate your insight. I know i' m so worried and so much fear is defently on my side. Yes the kite formation i agree on and i also need to work on believing that if things arent meant to be they arent and if they are they are. i defently have to feel like i have to take it day by day with my connection with her and see it through as you said. I' m just constantly terrified of the composite 9th house and how we have our 2nd ruler squaring our northnode which makes me feel like its going to be "impossible" to have financial grounding between us.

posted October 20, 2015 10:34 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Both her Venus and Mars are unapsected by your planets.
Have you been physically together or it has been entirely online?

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We have been physically together and Im afraid I disagree with that. Her venus biquintile my Mercury exact (PARALLEL EXACT).....and her Venus trine my ascendant within 3 orbs. We have an exact PARALLEL between her Mars and my sun it is a 5 degree conjunction and my true lilith on her 7 ruler mars.

Her Mars also semi squares my venus exact (44-45 degrees apart) with that her Mars parallel my venus under 1 orb. And I do feel the incompatibility with her Mars being on my Venus.

And I honestly honestly FEEL all the aspects I mentioned and so does she.

However i will take into consideration that her venus and mars is truly unaspecting none of my planets and will think and examine the next time i see her, i respect your opinion and observation.