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Marandana
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posted October 18, 2015 10:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Marandana     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello! These charts are between my best friend and her -now- ex-boyfriend. They've had a lot of up and downs throughout their relationship and one of their issues is that they feel a lot of affection for each other, but unfortunately they don't know how to properly show it, it seems like they're not in full sync, which can be frustrating sometimes and too much for them to handle, but they still love each other.

I think the chart is interesting, they got a lot of positive aspects, but I still can't find the flaw or the bad thing that is causing them all the heartbreak, I'd like to know your thoughts about it.

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Aubyanne
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posted October 18, 2015 11:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Composite MARS in Aquarius quincunx their Virgo SUN. Aquarian placements which are linked to passion, drive, or emotion can be complicated, if either or both aren't prone to being demonstrative.

I'm sorry that this has caused such a problem; unfortunately, a SUN-MARS quincunx shows need for clear adjustment; add on the MARS in Aquarius with the Gemini MOON, and you've got two Air placements in points which are supposed to be embodying passion, emotionality, and instinct. Your 'feeling' points are stuck in 'thinking' mode.

Such a MOON-MARS trine would be lovely -- if they were both cerebral types, or not seeking a deeply passionate relationship.

It can be tough.

I can see it'd drive a MOON/MARS and SUN/MARS couple crazy, feeling as if they're being stifled somehow, and the 'signal' is getting lost.

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Marandana
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posted October 18, 2015 11:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Marandana     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So all the aquarius/air energy is the main cause of the misunderstanding between them? But in case they would get back together again the pattern wouldn't change, right? Also, The trine between jupiter, uranus and moon make this volatile enough for this to be just a fast union?

Edit. I think it is neptune, instead uranus, sorry.

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starmoon
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posted October 18, 2015 11:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
do they work together or go to school together? it shows they'd be good as friends and help each other career-wise. someone has natal moon opposite saturn, which is similar to the person that has venus opposite uranus - both of those aspects find it very hard to maintain loyalty to a partner without feeling a bit trapped. the venus-uranus opposition also occurs in synastry, so the cancer will probably be the one who disrupts things the most. the inner circle might be theone who 'thinks' communication is bad/lacking because the cancer has 2 major signs in their 12th house. 12th house can lead to miscommunication of expression. i see lots of good stuff here too, but overall it's iffy

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Marandana
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posted October 19, 2015 10:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Marandana     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No, they don't go to school nor work together, they started as friends, but in the moment they started flirting he had a girlfriend, after things got serious between them, he broke up with the gf and ask my friend out properly, after that, they became a couple. But they lasted like 2 months, now my friend can't get rid of the thought of him

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Marandana
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posted October 19, 2015 05:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Marandana     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Any other insight? What about the asteroids? How can I say about that lilith-saturn conjuction? Does it mean stability?

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todd
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posted October 19, 2015 06:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi marandana

the composite shows the vertex square to Uranus and opposed to amore. this describes a intense attraction but one that is temporal and has no stability.
with venus conjunct to karma .,your friend feels this is a destined relationship but, she is being emotionally blind because mars is square to pluto. this shows that he is only interested in sexual conquest. he is selfish and has no real emotional feelings even though she feels this is a ultimate love because of amore.the midpoint of mars/pluto is conjunct the node which really sh9ows that there is no chance that he will change and become a faithful partner.

the south node transited amore in January 2015 so that is when they probably first showed interest in each other.
but when the south node transited eros at 5 aries 16 on 6/30/15,i think the relationship really took off.this transit is intensely sexual but not really romantic.

I think her emotions are clouded by feelings of love, but his intentions have nothing to do with a loving intimate relationship.

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Marandana
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posted October 19, 2015 09:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Marandana     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello Todd, really interesting your contribution, actually you're right, they first met in may last year, but the time their relationship developed was in january as you say, the weird thing here is, we never thought he only liked her for sexual interest, that's something new for us.

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