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posted October 22, 2015 12:20 AM            

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Any Idea?Some aspect in synastry can help me to overcome my lack of "sensibility"?

Im a capricorn sun (7th house)
Gemini moon in first.
Venus in 9th (pisces)
Cancer mars (2th)
Gemini ASC

The most intense aspect in my chart is mars opposite uranus/neptune (2H/8H) i guess.

I honestly can hear people talking about their problems and feelings all day.Im great listener.But when it comes to my own feelings...oh boy it seems impossible.Dont ask me face-to-face to talk about it cuz is not gonna happen.I cant express myself properly,not matter how i want to.

So what placement,aspect etc in synastry could help me with that?

Water moons are a big no for me.Its not that I dont like them,i just cant give them what they want.We are like water and oil. Oops i mean water and air

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posted October 23, 2015 02:03 PM            

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Bump!

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posted October 23, 2015 03:53 PM            

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I knew a 1st house cap sun with a 7th house Gemini moon. We were traveling for the first time ever and he tried telling me how he felt but couldn't exactly find the words so I had to help him a bit to guide him.

Him telling me how he felt came out of nowhere. I think it helps to be in a not so serious mood when talking about feelings. I have a 3rd house libra moon and a 12th house mercury in cancer. I like talking about feelings and trying to sort them out. I dislike when someone sits me down to have a serious conversation about how they feel. What I do is to bring up feelings when we're doing something fun. Just keep things light and don't look so serious when talking about it.

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posted October 23, 2015 04:10 PM            

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Yeah, as much as I feel like I express my feelings I don't sometimes! Like if something upsets me I just say "I don't want to talk about it" and wait for the feelings to go away

Or I work through them by talking to someone but that's after I'm over the heavy emotional feelings

Did you really mean synastry? Anything Jupiter conjunction, sextile, training, whatever and lots of it lol

Natal you just got the work through it. If you are suppressing your emotions you can run or jump rope those I heard help.

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posted October 23, 2015 04:25 PM            

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Astrologically, I'm not sure. Another Gemini moon is probably a good start. I think the whole synastry is important for deep emotional exchanges.

I can tell you this. To my knowledge I can't think of anything that will get you shut out in the cold faster than getting upset with what they reveal to you. They have feelings, which is most comfortably expressed by explaining them, talking ABOUT them, rather than a big show of raw emotion. They can on occasion though.
It is a must though that you don't make them feel punished or attacked for what they reveal when you finally get them to. Boom, that door will close.
In my experience, some gentle nudging is best. Ask them directly in a curious kind of way. They'll love satisfying your curiosity but if you come across demanding (which makes them feel like you might react poorly to their emotions) then they probably won't share them. Dealing with the rawness is not their strength. Talking, listening, understanding. That's your best bet here.

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