posted October 23, 2015 02:08 AM            

His Mars conjunct your Uranus usually means being intimate before knowing eachother really.

His moon is conjunct your vertex and his moon your Mercury and finally Venus north node can mean a significant connection.

He could be trying to make you jealous cuz of his sun in Leo likes attention and Mars in Scorpio loves to play mind games.

But I'm mind boggled at. Moon in cap, Venus in. Virgo flirting like that, this sounds like he'd be very work oriented. But Venus in Virgo is work oriented .

Your Saturn is loosely conjunct as Venus so he could be scared of rejection from you way normal then usual.

I also notice his Venus is retrograde usually makes a shy man.

So his Mars energy probably overpowers his Venus energy. Mars in Scorpio loves mine games boarding on mental cruelty I think he might be trying to make you jealous because he had a retrograde Venus in Virgo and he wants you to make a move.

posted October 23, 2015 02:51 PM            

I like the idea of baking for him - only problem is he has a strict, healthy diet and doesn't eat sugar/sweets. :P

I'm wondering how my planets in his seventh house affect our interaction (would that make me attracted to him or him attracted to me?) and our packed eighth house composite.

posted October 23, 2015 06:00 PM            

this composite does not show a relationship that will be sincere and long lasting. it has all the characteristics of a brief affair solely for sexual gratification on his part.

first off theway you describe him looking you up and down is a classic technique by "players". he is showing obvious sexual attection but not emotional interest.

astrologically.there is a very intense interest and attraction as there is a veneus,sun, mercury stellium. the sun and this stellium are square to Uranus . this is very "hot"and electric , it does show a emotional/-physical attraction and quite a good mental rapport. but Uranus squares are classic brief affair aspects. this has no potential for turning into a serious relationship ,after he gets what he wants.
and my characterization of him being a "player" is shown by the mars/pluto midpoint conjunct the south node. this is extremely sexual but it is totally carnal and any physical liaison will not bring a emotional intimacy. in fact if you do get involved physically ,he will quickly lose interest because he is all about conquest , not commitment.
this does show a very intense sexual and emotional hookup so if you can take it for that ,then go for it. but remember he will not respect you after it is over and everyone in your work place will hear his stories about you.

posted October 23, 2015 06:57 PM            

Gemini, you don't need permission or validation of your feelings. You're both adults, and perfectly capable of having a real conversation. The guesswork and perpetuation of mystery does nothing but fuel silly drama and prolong your own procrastination (and his).

Be the bigger of the two of you, and ask him straight out if you've done something to upset him, as you've perceived his behaviour as being cold and distant as of late. Someone should invite the other out to coffee (or lunch) to discuss it, if so.